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Brewers Droop

July 02 2013

Im not talking about the big night out and when it gets hot and heavy you realise guys that you just drank way too much. Im talking about guys who drink every night and know that it affects them and keep doing it. These guys can not function on a nightly basis. They manage ok when sober but that doesnt leave a lot of opportunity to play.Early morning when its just not romantic...morning breath....and who wants to suck cock with dry mouth.Seriously sex can be so much fun erotic exciting evolving in depth.I just find this self abuse surprising and limiting.

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RHP User

11 years ago

A guy who does that should be avoided. I have a three strikes and your out policy.... Well that is if I really like them.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Actually that used to be my policy in my 20's. Now I doubt I would see a guy more then twice if this happened.

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RHP User

11 years ago

But how to tell an alcoholic hes an alcoholic.....I know you cant.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Mate, you drink every night. You would rather drink that have sex. You have a problem, you are an alcoholic and you need to do something about it. Go seek some help. They deny it. If he is a close friend you just keep telling them, but at the end of the day, only they can choose to help themselves. If its a casual lover, you say... Ciao bebe, life is too short for this shit! And don't see them anymore.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Yes you can tell a person that. They won't like it, and they will disagree ... But one day they will be ready to hear what you are saying. SPEAK UP B_B, you deserve better than that.

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subgal_gc

11 years ago

Some will listen because you are not the first to notice and say something or they might even begin to notice the signs themselves, while others will continue to deny it as Meeka pointed out. At the end of the day the person with the addiction ( be it drugs, drink, gambling etc) is the only one that can do anything to change how they are living their life. But the important thing to remember is not to let their choices affect how you live your life. Life is too short to be bought down by something like this. Sometimes the only thing to do is point out the problem to the person involved and then if they are not willing to acknowledge or change then you must walk away for your own piece of mind.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Well I wont tell him..hopefully he reads this...lessons learnt in other ways.And yes a gf of mine has only just finally realised after much torture that she can not change a close family member and its his choice.it was something in this person that made me feel sorry for them.....I think they have inner pain.

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Mischeviouslad

11 years ago

Tell him. Say "Fella, there is only room in your life for one shapely figure...... its that of glass, or me". If you, while he is sober..... isnt better than him while drunk........ NEXT!!!!!! DG

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RHP User

11 years ago

It's called Brewers drought !

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RHP User

11 years ago

I don't go to the meetings..... I'm just a pisshead :p

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RHP User

11 years ago

After my divorce I wasted 15 months trying to help out an alcoholic... I now give a wide berth to anyone with addictions... Drinking, Drugs, Gambling... Funlover... I used to say the same sort of things, but when you get emotionally involved with some who is not in control of their vices.. well it just changes your perspective a bit. For the record, Drs would probably say I drink to much (medically) myself, 3-4 beers or maybe almost a bottle of wine, most nights. However, I don't fall over, nor am I aggressive and I don't drink drive. I'm not preaching, people can pretty much do as they wish... until they want to enter my world... :) Oh... I have never had problem keeping mr happy alert and fully functional, if I did THEN I would stop drinking :) hp xo

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