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Brief but delicious "moments"

December 11 2013

Anyone had those delicious moments recently when you make eye contact with someone whilst out and about. You know the look across a room into someone's eyes and they hold you in the gaze for a brief second or two and then you look again a little while later and they hold your gaze even longer and you just get that feeling that you are going to click without even having said a word. Was out with a few of my mates and my brother and a few of his mates recently and locked a gaze with a gorgeous tall brunette with the most beautiful almond shaped blue eyes and cheek bones....think a taller slender version of Natalie Imbruglia I guess. Being married and out with a group of blokes that I circulate with in my "regular non RHP" life I would normally leave it at that to minimise potential complications, but something was driving me to go and meet and just talk with this lady. We had a few across the room stares and then I saw her ordering a cocktail at the bar and went up and said hello and we clicked straight away. I started the conversation with something stupid like "I don't want to appear creepy or cheesy but you are the most attractive woman I have seen all night". She looked genuinely flattered and gave me a lovely soft kiss and a hug and thanked me for coming over and talking to her. We stayed at the bar talking whilst her friends and my friends kept looking over to see what was going on. My brother commented later that he thought it was "on like Donkey Kong" and that he was in a bit of a dilemma as to what to do if things progressed from conversation. We talked for about 20 mins before bar closing time and talked like we had known each other for ages including a bit of good natured verbal teasing back and forth. Her group and my group and my group were heading off in different directions so we reluctantly parted. Didn't get a phone number but was ultimately satisfied with sharing an awesome 20 minutes with a beautiful woman but left thinking with what might have been perhaps with this gorgeous brunette off duty police woman. Would love to meet you again and carry on our brief but beautiful conversation, but I think it was just one of those rare really nice moments in life to be savoured. Trying not to get too Mills and Boon here but trying to convey what was going thru my head/body on the night, but I went home that night feeling a sense of satisfaction and internal warmth that I haven't felt for a while..........not since I met my wife in similar circumstances.

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Mischeviouslad

11 years ago

It's good to be a single man :-) I don't have to explain.... or not explain that there's a wife at home. DG - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

So I slipped a 50 in her bra and enjoyed the rest of the show :p - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

you think she's on here reading your post? RHP doesn't have enough members for a missed connections forum. Sad but true

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RHP User

11 years ago

Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' It's good to be a single man :-) I don't have to explain.... or not explain that there's a wife at home. DG - Posted from rhpmobile Couldn't agree more DG....What did your wife say when u spoke of your connection with this lady

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RHP User

11 years ago

Whether you hooked up or not, I think you've answered your own question. The memory you'll have of this encounter, will last always and sounds like it already makes you smile. Not everything has to end up in sex to be memorable. Imagine if you did and turned out to be awful, instead you've been left with an awesome memory, huge boost to the confidence, and a smile whenever you think of it. DG - do you get paid by RHP to post as many comments as possible? - Posted from rhpmobile

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Enjoylifealways

11 years ago

If that happened to my hubby he wouldn't have to explain it to me. I would love hearing about it to share in his joy and if/when he would see her again. But no explaining to this wifey but his friends from work would want to know why he is married and kissing other woman ha ha.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Stir_it...been there two but walked away feeling empty in two places....soul and wallet LOL cwhereitgoes.....no chance she's on here mate.......I realise that......as I walked away I realised that was it...never to cross paths again....sadly. knots.....why do I need to tell my wife anything?......It's not going anywhere....even if I could, I have no real intention of actively pursuing or following it up.....why cause potential for unnecessary pus, pain and damage when there is really nothing coming out of it. Just saying it was a rare moment that I experienced and I had to share with someone so thought the RHP forum was as good a place as any without involving anyone that knows me intimately. As I said I haven't felt that with another person since I first met my wife 16 odd years ago now and the beauty is I was able to recognise that feeling pretty easily because I still get that feeling with my wife now.

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RHP User

11 years ago

been there too...as well....also.....not two....hate grammatical errors!!

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RHP User

11 years ago

I was referring to burlesque :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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Mischeviouslad

11 years ago

Wunfa.... I'm not judging, however this comment seems to be 100% contradictory to your profile... "why do I need to tell my wife anything?......It's not going anywhere....even if I could, I have no real intention of actively pursuing or following it up.....why cause potential for unnecessary pus, pain and damage when there is really nothing coming out of it." What you do is your business. But it seems like you're not being honest with yourself, or the forum. DG - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

Yes ' locking eyes with a stranger and holding it for a few seconds is magic. Such as at a restaurant a few weeks back. Lovely looking lady a few tables over caught my eye and time just froze for that moment.. I could see she was with a guy so being the respectful guy I am I left it there. Besides' the lady I was with was quick to read my face and took a knowing look back over her shoulder. lol.. When she / they were leaving and went out the front door I tryed not to look but couldnt help myself, but was just in time for a smile and little wave.. Wont go on, but it does happen every now and then... and its nice.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Ok I'll bite....I'm not very bright but I can lift heavy things.... so explain it to me DG please as the apparent self appointed arbiter of all RHP forum poster's morals, integrity and conscience it would seem from this an other posts you make. What did I miss then, and how am I not being honest with the forum or myself? The only one I am not being really honest to is my wife,..............and as you say that is MY business. Being duplicitous in this way, may cause some doubts about my integrity I acknowledge that much, BUT.......- My profile says I am married. - I tell any connections I make on here that I am married very early even before any meets occur. - I posted on an open forum saying I was married. How is that not being honest with the forum? I am simply saying in my comment that you quoted there is really no point in creating a situation that may cause her unnecessary grief, anger, jealousy....whatever else, by explaining to her wife that I met someone whilst having a few drinks with some mates, that I felt a definite spark (that I haven't felt with another woman since meeting my wife 17 years ago) and made a real genuine connection from a 20 minute meeting. There is little opportunity or desire from my end to pursue it. The fact that there was such a strong feeling of connection surprised me and scared me a little and for that very reason deep down I knew I don't wish to pursue it as I wish to remain with my wife. 17 years of something solid vs. 20 mins of potentially, what ifs and maybes?? Explain to me why it would have been better to tell her mate.

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Mischeviouslad

11 years ago

Yeah... you bit. Hard. And that tells me everything I need to know. Left hand - You say.... "even if I could, I have no real intention of actively pursuing or following it up.....why cause potential for unnecessary pus, pain and damage when there is really nothing coming out of it Right hand - you are actively seeking things to take further via your profile. Contradiction. But like I said.... not judging, there are plenty like you and you live your own life. I was merely commenting on the contradiction because YOU invited comment.Dont want comment..... dont ask. DG

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RHP User

11 years ago

I was doing post graduate studies and went to uni for the day for orientation and for some students to present their research projects. There was this guy who totally blew my mind when presenting and then later when we were talking one on one I could feel the energy building. The smiles, the eye contact, the gestures. Yep, I had a Mr at home at the time so ended up driving the 3 hours back to where I lived. The temptation to stay at uni, especially when he invited me to stay with him for the night, was great. I saw him again 12 months later and the magic wasn't there that time.

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RHP User

11 years ago

a little fantasy never hurt anyone....perhaps she was safer undercover than under the covers though

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RHP User

11 years ago

DG Yes I bit. Yes I got shitty. Surprised me that I bit as I am normally pretty level headed and not quick to fire up. Hell I have had two random blokes whacked out on speed or whatever else at my front door kicking the door in and taking swings, making threats at me and my wife with punches thrown at me and managed to talk them down, whilst on the phone to the police, without losing the plot over their drugged out scones with the baseball bat I had in my hands until the cops arrived, yet I lose it over a comment in a forum.....not sure what that says about me. Perhaps I need a break, perhaps I maybe getting less tolerant as I get older or most likely just over people being so quick to judge. I just didn't appreciate being called contradictory and told I am not being honest with myself and the forum. Perhaps someone could also accuse you of being contradictory by saying "I am not judging" but then making a sweeping judgemental statement by saying that I am not being honest with myself and the forum. Happy for people to make comment. Don't appreciate the rapid fire judgements, perhaps that's why I bit. Didn't anticipate the response from anyone like that, when all I really set out to do was to just to express the details about a really nice interaction with a gorgeous lady and hear about other similar situations. The point I was trying to make in my response to you, and maybe didn't do such a great job of it was to convey that the way I see it, there is a huge difference between the type of chance meeting I initially described in my post and meets arranged off this site. It seems to me the purpose of this site is to meet people for adult sexually oriented fun in whatever form all parties decide that will take. Meetings arranged on this site usually have some form of "rules of engagement" and a certain level of understanding as far as what everyone is looking for. Given that meetings on here are arranged mostly with the intention of potential sexual interaction, there is a slightly more formal and structured approach to it all which lessens the potential for any serious emotional commitment from all parties if everyone understands what it is they are getting into up front. Not saying it doesn't happen, I am sure it does but just less chance on here I tend to think. The acts of sex and love are very different but also can be inextricably combined (another of the sweet contradictions of life), just depends on the perspective of those involved. Less chance for emotional involvement is why many ground rules I am sure are set on this site when meets are arrange and also partly the reason why I actively seek out couples to play with I am honest enough to reveal I am married so everyone understands and also gives them the opportunity to back out as I am more than aware it is a non negotiable issue for some. I must admit it took me while to understand that initially when I joined this site about 3 years ago. Given the perception based on advertising etc. that this site is a "sex & dating site" I thought there would be more liberal and open views on many subjects but have quickly come to understand that this is not the case. From the forums I have come to understand and accept where and why people stand on the "married" issue and many others. Rightly or wrongly I felt a very strong two way connection with this lady and under different circumstances (me being single) I would have been more determined to get a phone number or arrange another meeting to explore possibilities further. I was aware of the potential for serious emotional involvement with his lady and more than happy to leave it where it finished. I have no intention of leaving my wife for anyone. I just figured it would only cause more hurt if I was to reveal to my wife that I had a serious emotional connection with another woman I met out on a night out with some mates, and of little point or value I think considering I don't want to leave my wife and the chances of running into this lady again are as rare as rocking horse excrement.

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