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Brissie clubs for first timers

October 07 2015

Hey everyone, We are thinking about checking out a club and wanted some advice. We have looked at the pages for Mikes, Diversionz & C.V and were hoping someone could tell us the differences or pros/cons. Do they all attract a different crowd, etc? We are only dabbling and at this stage I would only want to play with another girl. My man is pretty easy going... Doesn't really mind what boundaries there are but hates the idea of being a creeper and just sitting around watching. Probably would only meet people or do ffm play if anything. Is there one of those clubs that's more likely setup for what we're looking for? Do some just naturally attract a younger crowd? Please feel free to message us if you don't want to put a biased opinion up. Thanks!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    C/V is probably better suited. They have a newbies night which might be good for you to go and check it out. Dont expect to find your fantasy female on your first visit though. Even on your second. Go with an open mind to meet people. Its a good way to network with other couples with invites to future private parties and social nights.thats when you have a better chance of meeting the elusive unicorn. Keep an eye on the events page for some parties( like brumbies) that have a younger crowd.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Thanks for the advice. We aren't expecting anything in particular. I just thought that each venue might have it's own trend and one might be more suited to us. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • kinkymiss001

    kinkymiss001

    9 years ago

    Cv's all the way - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    CVs is not in Brizzy, it is on the gold coast. We suggest Mikes, very friendly there and always lots of fun, as other have said don't go with expectations other than to have a good night.

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    9 years ago

    Going and meeting someone to play can be a matter of luck. Mikes is good as is CV, although we usually go there with meetings already organised or with friends. That way you are guaranteed a good night. There are also swingers parties advertised on the Internet, on average they are a slightly older crowd than you guys, but there are always unicorns at them.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Sounds like CV and Mikes might both be worth checking out. We are ok if nothing happens on the night. It's more about checking out the scene and seeing who's around. If something does happen then that's a bonus. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Cv by far then new club on GC I surfers called whispers - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Hi Fun_and Fit. We are the same and went for the first time to CV on new years eve. The atmosphere was good, once a few people got up and danced. We set no expectations and played with each other only. Its got to feel comfortable for you. Unfortunately we had one bloke who couldn't take a hint and in hindsight I should have spoken to the owners. He didnt touch, always asked , but creeped us out.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    There seems to be a few couples that the mrs just wants to have some fun with another woman. Im sure you will meet them at clubs. So dont just focus on the single women, it will more than likely be with another wife. Have you been to a venue yet Fun_and_fit? If so, how did it go?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I agree. I actually really liked club whispers at the Gold Coast. It was a lovely set up and I met a really nice couple there. The owners are the ones who invited me and have stayed in contact. It was my first time at a swingers club and they made me feel very comfortable. With mikes place, I have heard that in event nights it tends to be younger. - Posted from rhpmobile