RHP

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Bro Code take two

February 19 2016

Ok so I was just reading thru the "Bro Code" topic about Garry Lyons and Billy Brownless and their wives and the pain it has caused and how it has a domino effect (and as I am against the idea of being involved in a cheating situation for myself) it has made me think of what is or is not crossing the line when it comes to liaisons - what about hooking up with a sons mate / daughters friend??? What are your thoughts and possible pro's and cons??

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Obviously I have posted this in the forum for a reason.... Depending on response will depend on how much I disclose

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    Your topic brings up the recent situation of Brownless and Lyons. Consider the possibilty that maybe Brownless's daughter was the liason and the wife took the wrap to protect her. Allegedly........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    You have known the young person all their life to me that seems to be a boundary crossed. If you know that it would upset your son or daughter,why go there . The fashion designer Jenny Kee had a relationship with the son of Robert Hughes her friend.She had known Danton Hughes since he was a baby,they lived together for years until his death some years later xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    as an adult and a parent it's a definite No i wouldn't go thereas a adolescent i fantasied often over a mates mum as for my English teacher i can still visualize her 70's style tight slacks - the majority of the boys in the class would of loved the opportunity to have also gone thereand most likely did in the privacy of our minds and bedroomsmaybe that's where it should remain - a memorable fantasy

  • Seachange

    Seachange

    9 years ago

    I would not even entertain the idea of digging into their lives further, as we are feeding into the frenzy and intruding into their privacy. not a fan of that. but to answer your question, no will not touch that with a flag pole as that betrays confidentiality and trust. it is like sleeping with your niece or nephew. are we really so out of control of our senses and our sexual desires that our ethics and morals are compromised and shown the door to satiate sexual urges that may come in ebbs and tides. Crossing the line relegates us no higher than the non-thinking no conscience sexual animals in the wild or those roaming the streets. i believe we are evolved enough to hold back and not action on our initial impulses after thinking of the hurt and pain in the aftermath. There is no turning back once you open Pandora's box.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    It's actually legal in this country to marry your niece or nephew,uncle or aunt xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    As far as I'm concerned, as long as all parties are aware and happy with the situation, and of legal age, then what's the problem? The issues arise largely when people don't know about what's going on before it happens.

  • Seachange

    Seachange

    9 years ago

    But still doesn't make it right in my books. Way to incestuous for me. But that's my opinion and happy to stick by my principles. For others, I leave them to make their own bed and let them sleep on it too.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I am definitely not saying that it is right, I find it quite shocking actually xxFreya

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    9 years ago

    I think there is a real danger in damaging the relationship with son or daughter. Chasing their friends is a step too far in my mind, and not worth it for the sake of a few nights of pleasure with a young hot bod. There's enough of them on here to satisfy most.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'bare037' As far as I'm concerned, as long as all parties are aware and happy with the situation, and of legal age, then what's the problem? The issues arise largely when people don't know about what's going on before it happens. Dont have a problem with it general. Up to them. If you can weather the storm.........But not something I would do.The christmas table gets a bit testy with a normal family gathering let alone have your offsprings friend coming around for a dinner and a sleepover.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    dont think i would go there unless its a friend you've only just met and you are interested in someone related to them but that would be in terms of a relationship for a hook up i'd stay away theres many more out there that dont have those added complications

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Everything we choose to do can have ramifications for the people around us. If what you're doing to feel good causes others pain or hurt them in the long run it doesn't really end up feeling good. Sometimes fantasies are just that...fantasies - Posted from rhpmobile

  • langton11

    langton11

    9 years ago

    Absolutely not; in my books that's off limits. A perv or a little flirting, why not lol, but that's it in my books, that's where the line is drawn. There are sooooo many options out there, why pick one that where someone you love could get hurt???? make no sense at all

  • Livingandloving2

    Livingandloving2

    9 years ago

    Absolute no for me.... I could never imagine a situation where one of my children would be ok with that... And the love of my family comes before any sexual urge I could ever have. Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Seachange

    Seachange

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'bare037' As far as I'm concerned, as long as all parties are aware and happy with the situation, and of legal age, then what's the problem? The issues arise largely when people don't know about what's going on before it happens. that's the thing isn't it. NOT all parties are happy and some have been caught unaware with the situation. In time, people should be left alone, celebrity or not, to sort things out themselves. Leave the people involved to come out of the situation with some dignity and integrity intact because at the end of the day, that is all we have and it should not come at a price.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Its just sounds sad that any of us could do that to our sons or daughters. They are my life and to fuck their friends is just not right. I think we have lots of choice on sex sites to find young guys or girls leave family friends alone. But thats how I roll not judging what other people want. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Thanks to everyone that has responded so far - I often read thru the forums and have come to think of the regular peeps who post as friends of a kind - and I often find myself laughing out loud on the train from some or considering info as advice from others. Just to clarify - I am not and have not and would not fantasize about any of my kids friends but it has come to my attention that I might have featured in some of their fantasies. But thank you for taking the time to respond (just like a friend would offer advice in a time of need)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    ...No. Correction. All the times you're considering doing something that you think will hurt someone...ask yourself :"How much is their friendship or familial love worth to me in the long run...?" If you feel getting layed by your sons or your daughters hot young mate is worth it to you, then you've answered that question for yourself.It sounds like your considering the idea, or you wouldn't be asking a bunch of strangers for confirmation.Or you could be watching a friend/colleague play this out. Whatever.The most honest and relevant answer to your question would come from asking the son or daughter in question howthey would feel about their mum screwing their mate...wouldn't it?Nothing good ever comes from shady, dodgy dealings in the shadows.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    You've taken it to a specific situation though, the OP asked about the general case which is what bare37 is addressing, also, his point of view isn't in conflict with yours. I think it'd be pretty rare for it to not cause some conflict, but if it didn't, even though I reserve the right to make a snarky comment, I'm happy for consenting adults to whatever they want amongst themselves.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    For example, a mother of a 21 year old boy slept with his best mate, and now they live together because the family has outed her. Her son wants nothing to do with his mum or his mate and fair enough. Fantasy should never turn into reality in this occurrence. Too many people get hurt. Natural - Posted from rhpmobile