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Bullshit Radar - fine tuning tips
April 18 2019
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Was a gent from another site a Wellhungtoyboy27 who possessed a 9 inch + tool. A guest, not a reliable guide, who guessed my kik name. Chatting there. No pics on his profile. Clue 1. Says very recently divorced on his profile...Clue 2.Obviously proud of his dick as is the first pic revealed. No clue there....most are proud of their tool.Sent a message on kik to him about 6pm. About the time the devoted partner would get home. Message sent but not delivered. Lol is logged out. Clue 3.Delivered next morning when suspect logs back in. I call him out on his single status. Response was" on night shift." Request face and bod pic. Another dic pic and a bod pic where entire face is covered by phone. I say " no face pic?"Reply " need to be careful with my job"Yeah right, all the important public peeps work night shift. Lol. Clue 4.And blocked.....Fucker
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RHP User
6 years ago
Always having a quick check of his phone if you meet. Oh, and the guy who asked that if we met, I didnt wear perfume. Hes allergic to it seemingly. Lets you see his face pic then sticks it straight back into the private gallery. Only chats through kik. Yep, def single.....
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
To add "extensive experience" to my radar. I believe that people do actually tell us their bullshit, if we listen and follow our gut instincts as it gives us warning signs. So we have to thank those bullshit artists for teaching us extensive skills to our radars. The best one I believe is "I do not lie". *coughs*, bullshit cause that is a lie right there. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
6 years ago
It sucks that they bullshit. Makes you analyze everyone who strikes a conversation up with you. Hate it!!
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RHP User
6 years ago
But also players? Those people who are all about themselves with no regard of other people with the end result being their own satisfaction. Getting their way in whatever it is they want. That's not limited to any particular sex type. I've read about gut feelings so many times in my time on RHP and have to support the idea that paying attention to those uneasy moments we feel like something is off means something is not right for us. No further explanation needed. Peachy
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RHP User
6 years ago
Yes, agree about the players. The ones that strike up a really good connection with. The one's who maybe have been in a long term relationship and is now ready to start looking again but wants to take their time, only to find they've put up a "booty call, I'm horny now" on date finder. Really! Just be honest peeps. It's just a game to a lot of people. Sweet talk, leave you on the back burner for when they need you. I'm a realistic, yes most people are on here for easy fun but just please be honest. I honestly don't care if someone is seeing other's too. It's no wonder many people become jaded by it all.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Relationship - Separated My indicator is when 'separated' is used to describe relationship status. Anyone, fresh out of their marriage, is not having a good time easy an easy time. They are distracted. I am not interested. I can think of 100 things to talk about but the breakdown of your relationship, and the associated mess, is not one of the them.
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pussywillow26
6 years ago
Ooh such a good topic for thoes willi g to be honest I've been here a long time now an I reckon evan though I seen an heard alot I still have the perpensatiy to be very surprised at how ppl will lie an con just to get sexually satisfied I havent lied to a perspective play date ever I'm so far from perfect an u never know if the nxt person u meet yr going to really like in fact I'll normal lead with all the churchy things about me an let them find the stuff that makes me awsome ir they r willing to really see who I am so now afrt that rant heee are my tips . Using the word discret .No face pics .Only wanting daytime hooks up No swaping ph numbers although I have been called by wife's an asked what I'm doing with there husbands .not really telling u anything about them self's of subtance .unable to be found at night or in the weekends That's my to cents
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RHP User
6 years ago
We are separated but still live in the same house..oh really? Don't leave any bruises ,scratches etc..ohhk I can't stay long...such a busy man. I can't show you a pic of my face..really,do you work for Asio? I can't host so we must meet at your house. Hugs Q
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Freaky_Fun
6 years ago
Reverse Image Search Is your friend. If it looks too good to be true it probably is. There's a few giveaways l have noticed when people use borrowed/fake/someone else's photos. And that's a white background, more often than not. I do love the ones that swear black and blue that they really are that 30 year old gay Latin model with the amazing abs. Or Christiano Rinaldo 😂🙄 It appears to be happening more and more and its really starting to piss me off. Just take shit photos like l do 😂
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RHP User
6 years ago
Fucking feels! We came across our long termer on Linked in... under a different name! Fucking liar! Called him out, next thing we’re blocked. Cannot believe the amount of bullshitters on here! Like EAD! 🤬
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MnauMnau
6 years ago
Nice topic there OP. Separated - I'm separated and living on my own for past 4-5 years. So am I single? I think so. And still some members think I'm here to cheat. Discreet - I don't use this term for myself, but I can be discreet about someone privacy and would expect the same in return. BS radar, when couple asks for dicks shots. Then we moved to kik, and see the guys FULL name and profile pic. He can't send his GF body nosexual shots. Or when couple is looking for a bull. They Can't provide more info, invites you to kik around 10pm. You want hear from them after. Other occasion is when someone with guest acc is looking for discreet affair, but they show their face to whole world.... Some people her might work for a s i o or any gov position. So yes, they might need some discretion.
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Clues are many and varied. A host of clues are needed for a conclusion although daytime meets only is a sure thing. And perhaps consistent pic senders. On another site l would get 10 messages a week or so. They would all start out normal but all would hedge toward daytime meets. So l stated in my profile no day meets. Messages dropped to 1 a week. So many attached cheaters
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usrightnow_Again
6 years ago
Great topic Annie. Over the years, we worked on our bullshit radar in the wider world, however, we missed some Truly big Liars and their lies. I guess we are always learning. It progressively made us very wary of people, perhaps me more than Mrs. urn. . Then we opened our initial profile here. Now, as I've said, this is it for us, we aren't on arsepage, twittwat, MyFace, wazup, kiki, instawank, or anything else, no other dating sites either, so perhaps we were a little naïve when we opened that original profile. Like most, we were forced to hone our bullshit radar here. A Lot. Tips: If a couple message, with one, maybe two photos of the woman, at most, possibly even partly clothed in their Public Album and say, one or two photos of the couple clothed and looking like they are on holiday. Then messages make you think a meet might happen, only to be sent photos of the guy, in what is clearly a hotel room, with word the wife can't make it, Red flag. Likewise you are all meeting in a pub and the guy says the wife is busy but we can meet with him, yep, Red flag. Our thoughts are either they're cheating on a relationship that isn't an open relationship, or, the relationship ended and they use the old photos of them both as a lure. Eventually we weren't looking for couples, made life strangely simpler. Perhaps more tips later. So many good tips from everyone so far. .. Mr. urn. .
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RHP User
6 years ago
I’m so glad I found this topic... I was very new to this when I found a guy that actually changed his username after many flirts to his kik Id so we can chat without him paying.. After talking morning to midnight about naughty & nice stuff I found out he’d shared my private pics to porn sights... ok so I’m probably totally naive ( like I said new to this). But any tips on the bullshit radar would be greatly appreciated
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'SpicyCyn' I’m so glad I found this topic... I was very new to this when I found a guy that actually changed his username after many flirts to his kik Id so we can chat without him paying.. After talking morning to midnight about naughty & nice stuff I found out he’d shared my private pics to porn sights... ok so I’m probably totally naive ( like I said new to this). But any tips on the bullshit radar would be greatly appreciated Sorry to hear that happened to you. A few years ago, a guy on RHP messaged me, I replied and we shared a few messages back and forth including email addresses because I thought he seemed fairly decent.........until he told me he had passed my details and my email address to his mate. Turns out he wasn't interested in me after all and thought I'd suit his mate better. What a huge invasion of privacy!!! There's some real scum on these sites! Can you imagine the fuss if I'd done the same thing to him without his permission?!?! Some people just aren't mature enough to stop and think about the consequences of their actions. I called him out on it but he never apologized.
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
They can't show you a pic of their face, because they are a dentist. 😁 Ms Foxy
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
anyone care to give a step by step how to do reverse google search ,stuffed if i can do it ,lol
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
I use an app called Search by Image. Download from app store (I'm android). Take a screenshot of pic. Start up app and then select pic.
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Mask_007
6 years ago
With androi you can also hold the picture and will come up with questions like google search, copy, save... you just jave to Google search.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Uses the words “NSA discreet” in his profile. Wants to meet at a very private/secluded location for first meet. Doesn’t share his phone number, only communicates via kik. Can’t host. Only interested in pic swapping and not actually meeting. Texts at odd hours. Refuses to share face pics online. Moves straight to sex talk. I have also busted a couple of guys when they gave me their mobile numbers, linked to FB messenger. From their I could see their FB profile, complete with wife and kids.
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EarthQueen
6 years ago
Guy on another site Profile stated singleShadowy face picSuburb on profile different to the one he actually lived inErratic messaging because he was a shift worker Wanted to talk on an obscure app because of some issue with his phone. Wanted to meet in dayI just asked him if he was married before we arranged a date. He went nuts, got all defensive and called me the date police (Accurate ) Few months later I was back on the site and saw his profile then had a big spiel about having just separated with his wife blah blah blah.
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
It said "nearly single." Well you will be if your wife finds you on a dating site
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RHP User
5 years ago
All of these "GO OFF" when someone says "Trust me"...Ha ha ha
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RHP User
5 years ago
My bullshit radar has been very active of late. I feel that my intelligence is being insulted by some of the recent posts.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Have to agree though my intelligence is intact, but I think the producers are drowning in it.
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