RHP

RHP User

M55 F49

Busted being Bi

September 04 2015

My sexy wife in a drunken haze told her sister of her bisexuality and the occasional play with the girls, I dont have an issue but it seems that more of the family know now so she's about to come out in a blaze of profanity and glory, hopefully. Good bad or indifferent I'm hoping all will be pleasant but there is already that sense of disgust coming through. Any advice would be well received. Mr funcouple😞😓😓😓

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    With some of my family, its bad enough that Im doing the online dating thing. If they actually knew what I have gotten up to, or what sites Im on, I think they would flip out.

  • 225Special

    225Special

    9 years ago

    Hope it all goes well for you, we would have a similar reaction I think.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Stand your ground and make no excuses. There is no taking back what your wife said, and the family can choose to accept it or not. What you get up to in your private life is your business and (unless it affected your kids in some way), it has no bearing on anyone else, in my opinion.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    9 years ago

    The irony is that some doing the chatting behind her back are probably carrying their own little secrets..... so..... Turn it up too 11 The genie is out of the bottle, so.... own it!Go overboard in explaining it to the biggest stickybeak... in details hey can't possibly handle. They won't want to talk about it again.... (unless they're curious for their own sexuality)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    1. Won't believe it 2. Curious of 3. Judge from lofty heights. Hopefully they will just chalk it up to alcohol talking. Otherwise it's 1,2 or 3 Hopefully not three as you get the awkward talk. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    If you were bi Mr Fun the disgust would be exponential.

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    9 years ago

    Remind them of the occassion when a woman accused of adultery was brought before Jesus by an angry mob wishing to stone her. Jesus spoke to the mob and said let those without sin caste the first stone. Actually I don't recon a bit of bi fun even rates as a sin. Advise the not to knock it till they have tried it.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    As a bi sexual transvestite. You could shoot a cannon down the local main street when you're down there and not anyone.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    I've embraced it now. Proud to be bi. And i dont give a fuck what anyone thinks anymore. Good thing i like my own company though. ......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Wife sent email and has fled the state for some fun in brissy, she's let it go and is happy. immediately abuses from the high and mighty sisters. It will be an interesting week. We are owning it, and I greatly admire others who have come out. Riding that rollercoaster keeps life interesting 😊😊😊

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Say what you feel. Because those that mind don't matter. And those that matter don't mind!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Can all say "fuck them" That's easy, it's harder to be in your shoes. Small minded people are just that, small minded, I hope that things work out for the best for you guys. Hugs Hp xo Because you're worth it...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    If I was ever outed for some of my kinks or quirks, 70% of my family would disown me. I work around it by simply refusing to talk about anything beyond "regular" sexual nonsense. They don't need to know. I do however I do have some close friends who I can be 100% honest with. That gives me balance, so that I don't feel constricted by my secrecy, not that I have all that much to hide. Good luck with it all.

  • sunnyfun

    sunnyfun

    9 years ago

    I knew a girl years ago who was very Bi - both her sisters were lesbians - so chances are her sisters have the same but concealed desires. As for the brothers in law they will just be beside themselves wishing their wives would go a little bi - i know i love it when my wife finds a girl that turns her on!