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Buzz kill
January 21 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
to not be so nice,now I am only reasonably nice😊.I no longer sit for two hours listening to life stories where the other person barely pauses for breath and I am in a coma😨..Sometimes it does take a bit of conversation to sift and sort.physical attraction is only a beginning..for me whether its emailing,texting,talking on the phone it's not until you meet in person that you really know anything about the other..Buzz kills for me,boring self centred people....obvious disinterest...lets just shake hands and go,why waste any more of our lives...right wing bigots.....men who make no effort with personal hygiene or dress right down...yep,deeply shallow me..men who leave ALL the conversation up to me...conversation shouldn't be the verbal equivalent of an archeological dig...and even if you look like Adonis himself and you are crap at kissing ...buzzzzzz xx Freya
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RHP User
10 years ago
BTW,Mr Norcock ...I am glad we popped your forum OP cherry 😜xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
and I've sat through that too. Boring at bat shit. Lots of people with unfinished business that think that someone else in their lives will make the bad shit go away. Doesn't work like that huh? My biggest buzz kill is when I think I'm fucking hilarious (and I am) and they just look at me like I have 6 heads. zzzzzzzzzzz
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Paradisepair
10 years ago
Sure drop in that you're in a well paid job or whatever but don't make wankery statements about how cashed up you are... And then go to split the bill 50/50 when you've been knocking back cocktails while we've been drinking coke.... Fantastic that you've got permission to play, and sure tell us a little about your very giving wife. But after that STFU about her. Seriously. What's worse is when everything you tell us makes her sound like a horrible person and you think you're sounding endearing... Oh I love your gorgeous body, but I don't need to hear endlessly about how hot you think you are... Basically try not to be an arrogant douchebag and we should all get on fine. I know that may read as arrogance on my part but I am actually a very accepting person, I just have an extremely low tolerance for bullshit.
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6exxy
10 years ago
Welcome and yes that would be a buzz killer . However it is probably more informative about mentally when she is at. It may be over but sometimes it isn't for some reason. Maybe the buzz killer was your move on radar? Hmmmm personal hygiene 😳☺️
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've tried the normal sites (had more sex there lol) most are hurt n happy to run the x hubby down... They normally stop when I make this statement :) it's easy to hate an x then it is to work hard to maintain normal friendship... Regardless how bad they treated us or what they did to cause the split in the end...
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RHP User
10 years ago
That to me, sounds like she was in no way ready to start dating again. She hasnt let he past relationship issues lie to rest.So that was nothing that you could have said/done differently.Her issues.
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Seachange
10 years ago
for me, regardless of how gorgeous or sexy a man is, it is the ensuing conversation that will determine if I want to proceed contact. - rude and presumptious attitude of men who will assume that just because we had initial contact, I will go to his lair and pleasure him. There are some like that here and I refuse meet them. - one sided conversation. when the conversation is all about them. How great they are, etc. - when a man constantly talks about his ex. Needless to say, it is like having an uninvited third person in the room... - hygienically challenged men. if I can smell BO and see his very greasy hair and dirty fingernails, I cringe to imagine what is underneath those garments. - when all the conversation we have is all about sex. it does not matter how hot a man is, if all he talks about it sex, a big No from me. - humourless and dumb people... say no more.
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RHP User
10 years ago
"When you're my girlfriend, I won't be happy with you seeing other men." On a first date.
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RHP User
10 years ago
so many heads and not enough hands?? 😈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
When you meet with couples and they want to tell you about their marital problems. *buzz kill*
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RHP User
10 years ago
Went out for coffee several times and for some reason 3 dates in a row were recently widowed men. While I didn't mind them telling me a little about what happened I didn't want the whole date to be about their much loved dearly departed wife.*One guy proceeded to try to "interview" me as a replacement wife asking what my cooking skills were like and if I was house proud, alluding to my house cleaning abilities ..... . I couldn't run fast enough! LG
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Seachange
10 years ago
I just remembered. When i am all hot and heavy with w guy and about to go down on him qnd his cock smells of stinky staoe piss, buzz kill.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Some people have no sense of humour. Although, I have been told that telling people how funny I am is off-putting. I don't get it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I went on a date with an RHP gentleman who knew me from this forum, so I assumed he would know what I was all about. I was chatting away about my experiences as you do. He sat there like Bambi in the headlights. LMAO! The next day he emailed me to say I should write a book about my experiences. Pfff. Needless to say nothing came out of it, I mean I know I like corrupting people but this man was just innocent.
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RHP User
10 years ago
That's only because deep-throating and laughing hysterically can be a deadly combination. :-P
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Baggage, ex talk, whinging, shit kisser....... Im going to go as far as to say that in here... most blokes are willing to overlook it all if they think theres the chance of getting a load away Except... for perhaps..... this... He/she says....... "I should let you know.... I have XYZ sexually transmitted disease" HAHAHAHA
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Seachange
10 years ago
Oh no! Not the dreaded XYZ std!!!! (cue for running to the hills). Lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Deep throating, hysterical laughter and teeth are a deadly combination? I need to learn to shut up sometimes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks all for making me feel welcome Passes Freya a cocktail ......cheers Shells..I guess I'm just a prisoner here of my own device......I know, corny Lmao Leo girl...I have been interviewed to, I drew out the "I live with my mum" card Totally agree being on the phone, hygienically challenged, arrogance, constant reference to an X, all major buzz kills & XYZ std ...exit stage left cheers
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Hottie1
10 years ago
With a younger man all he could talk about was how he really liked another lady and what a great fuck she was ( she happens to be someone I know). Wonder why date 2 never happened ? Mary xx
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On_Safari
10 years ago
I haven't done any of the traditional stuff. That's not me. But I did pill out the "can we buy a puppy" card this afternoon and "I'm crocheting our ring pillow" and "stalking isn't illegal it's just frowned upon, but I know you'll come round to my way of thinking :)" and "I love watching you when you sleep, from outside your window, through my binocs". I also asked him if he has a rabbit. He doesn't know it yet, but I'm totes serious!! 😳
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
is when it becomes about what experiences you can provide or facilitate rather than about you as a person. Now that is a real head shaker.
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Paradisepair
10 years ago
When you become someone's councillor because they've decided they want your advice. And they're very good at giving you all of the very finest details of whatever's bothering them but they can't actually listen! And no amount of trying to wind the conversation up seems to work.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Biggest one i just cannot stand is a guy who is needy and clingy. It doesn't matter how hot they are, or good in bed. But if they are going to message and call me every 5 mins and get upset if I'm too busy to reply immediately, or want to see me every damn day? Yep, get clingy and i run for the hills! There is nothing more of a turn off than a desperate man. Fake it if you have to but if your telling me you miss me after being apart for 5 minutes then imagine (if you tell me that) how you will feel when you never get up see me again. Oh and i concur with pretty much everything everyone else has said! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Totally agree. Clingy and needy people would drive me nuts. I need to feel as if I have my own space.
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