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CD/ ABDL/Sissy

August 29 2016

Need some help mastering the confidence and skills to give my ABDL sissy wannabe boyfriend the sexlife he wants and the love he deserves. He has told me what he likes/ wants, it's my mental ability to actually put it into action when I don't have the same interest in it as him so it does nothing for me sexually and I lack the confidence to really take Charge. Any suggestions - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

this is a male right?

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Mischeviouslad

8 years ago

Ditch the selfish pr*ck - Posted from rhpmobile

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DynamicCouple36

8 years ago

What does ABDL mean?

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RHP User

8 years ago

Adult Baby Diaper Lover My thoughts ewwww - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

Not something you can just suddenly get into.....sounds to me like you should find him a Dom who is willing to take control and show you how to take charge. Having said that, most of us have either a submissive or dominant personality, so you might find it extremely uncomfortable in the role if you are a natural submissive.... You can however fake it until you make it I - Posted from rhpmobile

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Katkat

8 years ago

With diapers Something different on him like play with candles & drop the wax on his balls, legs, body put a chocker lead on his neck & walk him around the room like a dog see if he likes that being dominated. Have few toys to smack him if he's been misbehaving, also use fold back clips as a nipple clamps. Does he like being tortured or nurtured like a baby? - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

...just have him watch this first https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VkkTbOs6pmA then go for your life if you wanna do it. Outside of that and possibly the need for a good shrink....I got nuthin'.

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RHP User

8 years ago

If it does nothing for you and you're really not into it, don't do it. Sexual acts are meant to be pleasurable for all parties involved and no one should feel they should do something that does nothing for them just to please someone. If he feels it's an essential part of any relationship, then, unfortunately, it's not really a good match (sorry but that's how I see it). Personally, I wouldn't want anyone I care about doing something they're not into just because it would give me pleasure. When someone starts doing that for me, then it's not pleasurable for me at all. Good luck xXxXx

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RHP User

8 years ago

I'd recommend looking at fetlife... that is a very niche and not very common fetish. Best of luck.

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Livingandloving2

8 years ago

Best of luck to you- it must be very difficult to care deeply for someone but not have the same sexual interests. Big hugs to you xx - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

What are you talking about?

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RHP User

8 years ago

you haven't been looking at my profile have you I did request spanking if I came into the forum, actually I don't even like being spanked, I'll have to update that

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RHP User

8 years ago

Look who's back on every forum! Lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

I hope you're not referring to me. I'm certainly not back on every forum, but even if I was, is that a problem for you?

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