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CHEATING
January 20 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you are in a committed relationship with someone - that is a mutual agreeable binding contract between you and that other person.....Once that contract is broken (all it takes on one person)...that is deal Breaker in my books - THAT IS CHEATING!!Cheating is not an honourable thing to do it is on immoral way of achieving ones goal for very selfish reasons.There are different forms of cheating/Affairs1) Mental 2) Physical 3) Emotional 4) Short Term5) Long Term6) One Nights7) PhilanderingHOWEVER Open Marriages where both people in that relationship AGREE for it to be OPEN MARRIAGE...that's a mutual contract..Where one cheats/lies with out the other knowing IS CHEATING!! No if's no butts, no excuses...IT'S CHEATING!!
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
I must agree with superfox.
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RHP User
12 years ago
ask your partner....its whatever he/she feels innapropriate for you to be doing...the boundaries are different for everyone, but they do follow the same general themes........these are just some of the many things people see as 'cheating' 1. Engaging in any sexual contact with non-partner (including: hugging, kissing, caressing, oral sex, and phone sex). 2. Flirting or engaging in sexual innuendo either in person or via text, online chatting or talking on the phone. 3. Sharing personal information with non-partner, he/she has hopes and dreams for the future. Even a discussion about values could led to an emotional connection. 4. Daydreaming or fantasizing about a non-partner. 5. Anticipating seeing, talking, texting, or emailing a person who is not your partner. 6. Looking at pornography or engaging in cyber-sex. of course there are many many more, and some that are both unique...and indiviual.
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1playfulcpl
12 years ago
if ur headn to cheating talk to ur partner about things as a little convo cud well save ur relationship be it ends the wrong way b honest an open
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RHP User
12 years ago
..outside of the rules of the game you are in.I'm a bit peeved at the way cheating is used to describe infidelity..
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RHP User
12 years ago
they are talking about bored games
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RHP User
12 years ago
Unless he's saying my arse looks fine in ... (whatever)
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RHP User
12 years ago
...because I'm not playing by their rules. (Wow, deja vu)
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RHP User
12 years ago
How else could you describe something that's wrapped in multiple layers of deception dishonesty and betrayal? This is a serious topic and it absolutely merits being called a name that people remember.'cheating' sounds just fine to me..- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thankyou to all that have made a comment so far... It has been great to read what you all have to say... Linkj
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some board games are a metaphor for life ~laughs~ Quoting 'Freya13' they are talking about bored games
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RHP User
12 years ago
...that for the sake of civility, we refer to it as 'extramarital affairs'. The term is accurately descriptive but there are those who reject this outright as it does not carry with it any judgemental overtones. They insist instead on the more ambivalent term 'cheating', which of course could be applied to any number of things, because they have an undying need to be offensive. Thankfully, the opinions of these ignorant people will never be of any real consequence.
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you find you feel you need to hide your interactions with someone from your partner, that's breaking the rules and could be considered cheating. People have different definitions of cheating and it's best to consult your partner and work out what you would define as cheating together.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Otori'If you find you feel you need to hide your interactions with someone from your partner, that's breaking the rules and could be considered cheating. People have different definitions of cheating and it's best to consult your partner and work out what you would define as cheating together. and as we've said....cheating is NOT something thats done JUST in the bedroom....theres many many ways that one person...can cheat another..
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RHP User
12 years ago
A couple we new was seperated as the wife cought her hubby having a wank and she said that was cheating on her..... This is a loaded question as people think differently about what call cheating.... People being open with each other do not have this problem ..... My wife has always been able to read me like a book so I would find it very hard to cheat (LOL) GT
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'gtbi_mm' A couple we new was seperated as the wife cought her hubby having a wank and she said that was cheating on her..... I'd be stuffed then if that were the case!
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RHP User
12 years ago
You and me both (LOL)Even thou I try to get my wife to do it for me, then she would say: whats wrong with your hands, do it your self.....GT
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