Calling all gentlemen ,where are you men that lust/desire sex and relationships with Femme acting CD's & Trans-Women?

Recently i was involved in a social group discussion where the topic was "where are all the nice guys that are into us GURLS",and whilst the experiences were disastrous to enigmatic ,I realised there just wasn't more positive encounters and even fewer romps that lead to relationships of lasting effect...nay say but for a bare few women lucky enough to snag a truly wonderful handsome long term life and sexual partnership/marriage..?Ok there are weekend women out there that identify as CD's crossdressing men, and then there are many more Transgendered/Transexual identifying women seeking everything from dates to long term love and more...So where are all the sincere guys who are genuinely out there seeking us ??