Mask_007

Mask_007

M49

Can anyone help me out hear?

July 13 2017

I have been in the site for a wile now and I don't understand how but star taking with someone and the next thing that person just disappears... Then I imagine that they block me, with not a chance of explaining my self if is a misunderstanding. what could I do? I it's me been to naïve? How do I fix that problem? I am keen of good company but all so understand that people hear are not just for sex, and sometimes they are interested in something more. I am happy to really get to know you, be a friend, and if happens to connect in a sexual level, well that is a cherry on top. What I am doing wrong???

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Put the above in your profile, the good company etc. yes ? And delete the university warning rubbish. It's not a good look.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Didn't you post a similar thread last week? Whinging on here will do you no favours. If people don't want to meet you it's their choice. Please address all your spelling mistakes, that alone would put me off. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    7 years ago

    But you cannot make it drink. Our advice is to thoroughly read through the profile wording, of someone you are interested in contacting, before actually messaging them. If you don't fit their criteria, you need to respect that, and not message them. On this site you are not entitled to anything. It's best not to have expectations. Be patient, calm & respectful. Don't be pushy. Be aware that you are one of thousands of males on here, most of whom are looking for the same thing. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Not everyone on RHP has English as a first language..Whilst "Whinging" may be an "Offputting" trait, surely we can cut some slack over language challenges....Just saying .. Mask:hopefully, some nice women can give you some good easy advice.MAYBE even some of the people who you contacted can get back to you discretely and let you know what you did poorly.But mate.. your profile needs a little work.Give a bit more about yourself on it.GET RID OF THAT WARNING SHIT on there. It is bullshit and worthless. I hope you get some good ideas from here and have some success mate.Good Luck

  • megz85g

    megz85g

    7 years ago

    You messaged me and I replied no thanks, then you continued to msg so I had to block you. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Mask, since you've been around the site and have found the forums, surely you've noticed your experience is a common one. And I can get it - the promo that came up when I was offered membership renewal was "Get some action this weekend. Let us find you a date." I think that does terrible things to people's expectations of what this site can actually provide. Yes, for a few it might be that easy, but I have been around long enough to know that is oh-so very far from the case. So, you're partly at fault for perhaps believing it is easy as the advertisement of this site offers. You're one of many, seeking within a very small pond of available women. You can make your profile that bit more appealing than those around you. The profile sub-threads are good for many good opinions. How many languages do you speak? People, as evidenced above can be judgemental on good spelling and grammar. Maybe add that. As Cavey mentioned, get rid of the warning, it is redundant and takes up too much of your profile. Fine tune your profile, sell it, but also manage your expectations of the site. The forums will help with that. Best of luck.

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    7 years ago

    No I did not. But thanks for the post anyway. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    7 years ago

    Thank you, much appreciate the comment. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    7 years ago

    I much appreciated your words and will take that in consideration. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    7 years ago

    I much appreciated your words and will take that in consideration. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Seachange

    Seachange

    7 years ago

    Good advice from above. Definitely get rid of that warning. Your profile is short but hopefully your messages to women are more interesting. Craft a nice general introduction message. Use it to send to people but insert some details about the person's profile that was of interest to you. It'll make people feel like you've made an effort to read their profiles and genuine in meeting them. You have sent me flirts but in my profile, I specified in All Caps to NOT to send flirts. I didn't block you, no drama, but definitely think you were fishing and didn't bother reading my profile. so read people's profile and see if you are what they search for and respect their wishes. Glad you got into the forum. Could be another avenue to rise above the multitude of single men and be noticed. Best of luck. I know it is not easy and I hear the moans on single men here. Be patient. Try to have fun. Remember, it's a numbers game.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    if your blocked , just move on mate,plenty more to choose from and annoy, good hunting to you, WARNING look at my profile and ill block ya , , , look at past forums , answers are there , cheers ,good luck to ya

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    7 years ago

    Thank you for the advice. I guess I am a bit disappointed more with peoples attitude. I just find it hard to get. I have not been rude. if you say no. I get what that means. I respect people's opinion. But is no need to be Rude about don't you think? At the end of the day we all have feelings. But I will get there. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    7 years ago

    Thank you for the message. I will take that in - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Not sure what your comment to me was referring to. General rudeness regarding grammar / rudeness in threads / rudeness in messages? Would be nice if everyone acted nice and the way you wanted, afraid that isn't the case. Seems from posters above you didn't take no as an answer, and then ignored a person's preferences in their profile. That is considered rude, as well. Work on your profile, to make it the best version of you, really read and comprehend a person's profile and write some decent messages, and you'll better your chances. All the best

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    7 years ago

    Thank you Pepper. I am definitely taking that in consideration. Abd I do apologise. Is my mistake and misunderstanding whensomeone does not write back that means no thank you. I get that by now. And I am so sorry for the comment about been rude wasn't for you. Thank you once again for your post. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    People are deactivating their profiles too for whatever reason. Best to just dust it off and move on. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    7 years ago

    That is a very big possibility. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Mate all of us blokes find it hard because there is so much competition. My advice is jump into the chat rooms and use your humour and wit to seduce, it works for me :)

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    7 years ago

    Is a good idea. Thank you for your advice. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Ta ? 😊

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    So much competition that using fake photos is justified to beat the odds, apparently...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Where did my other comment go? This is getting ridiculous. There was nothing wrong with it? 👎

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    It hides all that i need to hide unlike my other REAL pic Good to see your observant and you have the betty cavalry at your back :)

  • Seachange

    Seachange

    7 years ago

    😄

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    7 years ago

    Then that explains why I have no.luck, am honest. Hahaha... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Don't be in such a hurry to have everybody respond. Rome wasn't built in a day, and having dick pics isn't a master degree method, of attracting ladies. Good things come to those who wait also show respect. Happy trails