M62
Can you handle watching your wife, husband , girlfriend , boyfriend .
July 26 2016
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
Is this not what swinging is all about ? Communication is the most important thing to do before going down this road . Communication , trust , respect, being secure in ones relationship ....the list is long - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
No i cannot handle it, i prefer to close my eyes so i can only hear her enjoying herself.
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WineAndFunTimes
8 years ago
Considering this site is used by a lot of swingers, I think you'll find the majority answer that they can handle it and are here to find someone to do it. I totally get off watching my man with another woman and if we're not doing a full swap, I'm happy to sit back and enjoy the show.
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RHP User
8 years ago
OP, as you are seeking "Woman,Couple,Groups" is your question founded on fears of an unhappy partner turning on a tanty while you perform?Or is it directed at the numerous dreamers, that are members here, most probably without the wife's agreement? Genuine swinging couples would have a bond in agreement of what pleasures come out of polygamous play for each other.Even cucks must get some fun out of the situation or they would pull their cock cages off and leave the wife with her bull. At the end of the play day, the couple goes home to resume their life with all the usual issues of kids, work, finances, family and inlaws to deal with while they assume to seek out old age together in a happy partnership.If not there is other motives in play and they were not a committed couple to begin with. Also do not over look the partner that cannot perform for any reason and allows the other to gain satisfaction when it cannot be had at home. That's a big gift to receive.
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Mr_MrsAraps
8 years ago
Big turn on for me and have now realised I have a high enjoyment/arrousal for compersion I feel for my partner having others. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Andremmo
8 years ago
We are just here for the cooking recipes... Whatever made you think of a topic as controversial as this one?
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
Yes, yes and yes. Oh hang on, one too many! 😂 I love watching them, I love hearing them. I love talking about afterwards, when we are alone. I love knowing they are watching me. I love knowing others are watching. Guess I am a genuine voyeur....and exhibitionist. And yes Mr Araps, compersion is the bomb!!
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RHP User
8 years ago
...especially when she seems to be really, really enjoying herself. Did I mention that at times she may even really enjoy herself? Shizen...what a question.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I absolutely love watching (and joining) Mr Cum with one or more people, but he doesn't get off sitting back and watching me. If his attention is elsewhere or we are both in the mix it's ok. So not that weird a topic at all...every 'swinger' is different and I don't think we should all be seen as such. Shaz - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
big turn on for me, though single at the moment so to give a full report, I'd need to comment when I do have a partner. But I'd get turned on watching and play with myself lol while they were playing with each other, so long as the other chick was happy with that. But more than that, My future partner will be able to play freely with whoever, whenever, without having to get my approval. Sexual freedom leads to horny play together. You hear a lot of couples talking about how they get in on when one or the other gets home after playing with someone else, still horny and ready to jump your bones. That would suit me just fine. I wouldn't have sex with other people just for the sake of it. If I was feeling satisfied, happy days, but I'd never question him or expect him to tell me his movement, entirely up to him
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RHP User
8 years ago
great to see you back
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Sawadee
8 years ago
For all your fishing the answer is NO. I wasn't always single and no I didn't have and still don't have any the issues you mention . If the topic unsettles you I'd suggest it's something you need to deal with .
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Thank you for your comment.. I thought it was a funny heading saying it does seem a weird topic only to conclude with , it's not so weird at all.. lol.. But I knew where you were coming from... Alls good.. Jay
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madotara69
8 years ago
It depends on whether by answering your question, 'handle watching' summed up as insecurities and or jealousy the specific reasons, then no I don't nor Tara have difficulty watching each other with other people, Araps hit the nail on the head, 'compersion' opposed to jealousy, also wiping out insecurities, a possative experience indeed. But I've been uncomfortable with guys that show signs of jealousy, even humiliation dressed up as sugar coating shit, uncomfortable with me being there, disgruntled with our play together condition and somehow have an inkling with negotiating Tara all to their self, once they get a sight of wet pussy. So that's a thing I guess. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
and thanks for posting the question Jayme. I will go against the grain here and say I'm married and in an open relationship but under no circumstances does my hubby want to see me with others. I go out and do my thing and come home. He doesn't get any sexual gratification from it at all and finds it difficult most of the time.
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asiacouple
8 years ago
Each couple is different. I know of others who feel sick about this sinful swinging scene. Yet there's bunch of couples who would share each other in a heart beat. As for us, have seen her fuck and being fucked by other guys. She's perfectly happy that I've fucked other girls, with or without her around. Not really a big hurdle if you keep open honest communication and don't piss off each other in the process. And if you're married, just make sure she's number one at the end of the day.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yes my guy loves watching me fuck other people and I love watching him do it too - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
while i(him) have been to parties/events and played in my single days, i know what t o expect in terms of environments, the people, etc she has never done any of that. so now as a couple, being a bit more adventurous with each other and sharing some of our fantasies, its a whole new different journey. i dont think I would have a problem with her playieng with others, but the reality could be totally different. i guess its just something we will have to wait and see, when the itime and situation is right that we either allow each other to explore individually, or make the decision to play together, even if its just same couple/same room activities. definitely a "to be continued..." journey
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RHP User
8 years ago
We both find it very exciting really enjoy watching each other with others
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RHP User
8 years ago
I love watching Mrs girlguyhavingfun with another guy or girl I love letting them start then walking in on them I love it when she comes home and tells me all about it And I love being involved as well Just because she has sex with someone else doesn't mean that's 1 time less we are going to do it , actually it's the opposite - Posted from rhpmobile
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PurePeony
8 years ago
Quoting 'asiacouple' Each couple is different. I know of others who feel sick about this sinful swinging scene. Yet there's bunch of couples who would share each other in a heart beat. As for us, have seen her fuck and being fucked by other guys. She's perfectly happy that I've fucked other girls, with or without her around. Not really a big hurdle if you keep open honest communication and don't piss off each other in the process. And if you're married, just make sure she's number one at the end of the day. If you are with a partner who appears to be jealous, is it because : 1) he/she has a naturally jealous personality; or 2) have we given our partner a reason to be jealous? I ask that because I've been with guys who put me at ease so much that jealousy never rears its ugly head at all and I can freely let go and let them be, etc. I've also been with men who somehow do not gain my trust and it does make me feel very unsettled / jealous / uncomfortable / suspicious a lot of the time. Same ol' me, different emotions coming to the fore, different levels of trust, etc and the only variable is who I am with at that point in time. asiacouple, I feel your words sum it up well! "Just make sure she's #1 at the end of the day". If there's frequent open communication, if the couple is sensitive enough to each other and gentle enough to discuss all sorts of issues in a patient, kind and loving manner, then they will be confident enough in each other's love to let go and set each other free without feeling jealous because deep down, they are fully assured and they know that their partner will return to them and they will always be #1 in his/her life. Some couples bring out the best in each other whilst others... it's best they not be together at all lest World War III breaks out! LOL!!! However, in spite of and despite, some personalities / characters just aren't made out for swinging and all that, no matter how stellar their mates are in loving them, assuring them, communicating with them, etc.
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225Special
8 years ago
We normally have great sex after watching each other pleasure or be pleasured by others. We just made the decision to always play together. Mr 225Special - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I was talking to a friend who went to meet a couple. As soon as he started getting on with the wife, hubby cracked the shits and threw him out .So its not hunky dory for everyone. Could I do it? I wouldnt know until the situation came up but Im thinking there would be lots of discussion beforehand.
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ReyandJean
8 years ago
We've had occasion to play with some first timer couples. Often there's initial trepidation on their part(s). It's to be expected. Sometimes the actual act becomes too much for one or other of the couple to handle and the engagement is broken off. So, despite the best will in the world, you'll only know when you try. Suck it and see. For us it's compersion all the way.
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Sawadee
8 years ago
The experiences and open advice is invaluable to everyone , specially newbies.. Goes to show how each experience is the same yet different ( if you know what I mean ) ..
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Sawadee
8 years ago
I've actually called it quits before the event because I felt one or the other wasn't ready. This is why I insist on a coffee first up. If the couple are relaxed with each other it's usually good.
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
If they did, we'd all be fucking everywhere. A small minority can do it and that's why they gather in here out of normal view. I find it hot and can bring you closer to your partner with the openness. But not for everyone
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RHP User
8 years ago
love your honesty. It's very very endearing
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RHP User
8 years ago
I would love to share my girl and watch a guy have his way with her 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Katkat
8 years ago
It's a turn on you can't be greedy sharing is caring. I love watching & I love being watched. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think every relationship has a different dynamic depending on the type of relationship, individual personalities and levels of attachment. I've also got a play mate who isn't sure whether they would like to see me with another guy or not yet. Maybe all my guys want to hide me away in the cupboard? 😝
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goldcoastcple69
8 years ago
I also like to watch my wife with others. At first i really..and i mean really enjoyed watching her with other women. But after seeing her with another guy i found its also a turned me on. Sometimes , just the thought of her with another guy or guys or couple without me even present was a turn on.. I kind of feel like a weirdo for going against the norm like that, but its just how i feel .. If my wife came home and told me she fucked 3 guys ...I would totally be turned on by it..She knows this, but will only sleep with other men if im there. Fair enough i can accept that. There was one time she met a couple at a night club who invited her back for a 3some: She almost went with them.I told her go for it !! But her girlfriend who doesn't swing or share ..was right against the idea and unfortunately made her feel shameful so she didn't go..I really don't like her vanilla friends lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
I used to love watching my ex get punished , her love for big cocks is why we broke up after 8 yrs...for her birthday she chose to stay in the city and handpicked an 18yo kid with an 8-5" uncut cock to pamper her as I filmed......seeing her face her body squirming and the screams and begging for more I knew my cock was useless to her pussy.........she would get the big cock as deep as she could an then put my cock in her ass !!!!!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Does a bear shit in the woods
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Sawadee
8 years ago
What does that mean ?
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RHP User
8 years ago
It means yes, he enjoys watching. Is a frogs arse watertight? Is the Pope Catholic? Is the sky blue? Does a one legged duck swim in circles? 😎
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RHP User
8 years ago
Is your husband finds it so difficult, how long do you think it will last? Why do that to someone you love??
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Fuckmywifexxx
8 years ago
Quoting 'SoftandCurious'I've also got a play mate who isn't sure whether they would like to see me with another guy or not yet. Playmate, not husband. No mention of love. It's push pull for my husband, it excites and kinda scares him at the same time. But most of all it excites him, I think the uncertainty is still tied up with societal programming. That it's wrong. He doesn't really get jealous although he's envious that it's not easy for him to garner attention from ladies, the way I can from guys. He likes the idea of balance but in a swinging world it's not a concept that marries well with hotwifing. The way I see it this is his kink too and as such it's an experience we share, and that's where the balance lies.
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Sawadee
8 years ago
What chance does a 1 legged man have of winning in a arse kicking competetion ? Yep , I know what ur saying. I just didn't know which way the bear was standing. Meaning it goes without saying, but which way.. for or against ?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Fuckmywifexxx'Quoting 'SoftandCurious'I've also got a play mate who isn't sure whether they would like to see me with another guy or not yet. Playmate, not husband. No mention of love. I think you picked the wrong one of Soft's posts, and that Candy was talking about her first post in the thread Quoting 'SoftandCurious'I will go against the grain here and say I'm married and in an open relationship but under no circumstances does my hubby want to see me with others. I go out and do my thing and come home. He doesn't get any sexual gratification from it at all and finds it difficult most of the time.Quoting 'CandyDelicious'Is your husband finds it so difficult, how long do you think it will last? Why do that to someone you love?? Fuckmywifexxx - this is the correct way those posts should have been read IMO
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RHP User
8 years ago
excuse the formatting fuck up - even when it looked fine in the comment box.
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RHP User
8 years ago
That is correct. The one about her husband finding it difficult.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sorry, I can't reply with quote on my iPhone or IPad. Not sure if that's just me.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Love watching my partner be pleasured and give pleasure,and have enjoyed solo trysts with the odd photo sent after the event awesome fun .But not for everyone.Love is love and Sex is sex and watching your partner have sex can certainly add too your love for them ,but alas not for everyone.
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lookintoplay_qld
8 years ago
hi its a great turn on for us not a issue watching we talk after just great fun
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suncstcpl1
8 years ago
How ever we generally only play with other couple so that both of us get to enjoy giving and receiving and playing with someone else. after all, variety is the spice of life.I feel for me, I enjoy having my wife as my favorite porn star. Watching her being pleasured is equally as enjoyable as being involved.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'suncstcpl1' How ever we generally only play with other couple so that both of us get to enjoy giving and receiving and playing with someone else. after all, variety is the spice of life.I feel for me, I enjoy having my wife as my favorite porn star. Watching her being pleasured is equally as enjoyable as being involved. Best line ever!!
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chevtrek
8 years ago
At the moment I have no permanent partner butin the past both partner and myself have had no problem.However because I have good looking ladies in my lifeit can be very annoying with other guys prowling aroundlike they are wolves and she is the prey it makes it hardto go out and just enjoy an evening.
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RHP User
8 years ago
My ex had been in a very strict and old fashion marriage. Look after the house and kids, nothing more. When I met her ,I broke that mould. She had many fantasies, and one was being watched, having sex with both guys and girls - both if she could. And yes I had no problem at all watching her enjoy the sex and enjoy being watched getting used and pleasure. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I will answer the question as there are many others in my position. But to be clear I'm not "doing it" to someone I love. We have made the decision to open our relationship together. He isn't forced to stay with me and vice versa. He understands the journey I'm on and fully supports me and understands my reasons. We've been together 16 years and this isn't the most difficult challenge we've faced. It's hard for him for me to be away from home, knowing that I'm fucking someone else. But it's still very new in the scheme of things. And he wants to explore as well, but is taking more time. We talk about it most days, he loves me and encourages me to continue despite his difficulty with the process. When i said I wanted to stop because it was affecting him he was adamant I continue. He can see how much I've benefited from it and that makes him happy. When you e grown up with an idea in your head of how a marriage should be and how two people should remain "faithful" until the end of time it takes a big adjustment. I didn't know that I wasn't monogamous when we married. And I'm not forcing his hand. Just because he doesn't want to watch me with other men or women doesn't mean he doesn't get some benefit from it. His benefit isn't sexual but more knowing that despite my new lifestyle I choose to continue my life with him and love him. It's made us much stronger as a result. And each time it's getting a little easier for him. Like everyone in this position communication is key.
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rick181au
8 years ago
We started going together when we were 17, I took her cherry when we were 18, married at 21 and had our family in our late 20's. In our early 30's in the mid 70's, we met a couple who invited us to the nudist club they belonged to, we went and enjoyed it and ended up joining, we soon found out their was a lot of sexual playing + swinging going on there, we talked about it, even tried giving it a go, but the wife chickened out at the last minute (it was a big step for a Catholic girl - woman to take). We still talked about it, we had made friends with couples who were swapping partners, it was rather funny leaving a party knowing that when you left they would be swapping partners, and next day they would all be together as if nothing had happened, we came to the decision that if she wanted to change her mind at any time it was OK by me, under any circumstances! We were at a party and I got called away to work, we arranged for the wife to get a lift home after the party, when I arrived home the next day she told me that she had been a naughty girl with Joe a friend of ours, my reply was a bit of a kiss and cuddle never hurt anyone, her reply was "it was more than a kiss and cuddle", I bared up and made love to her as she told me what happened, in great detail. Two days later Joe and his wife came to our place and we swapped partners, word soon got around the nudist club that we had joined the swinging scene and we were invited to so many swinging parties it was heaven. After two years our family situation changed and we left the nudist club and stopped playing with others, after a year or so things got back to normal and we started talking about playing again, it came about that we met a guy the wife was keen on so we had a M F M threesome with him, we both found it a turn on, it was a lot easier then setting up couples for swinging, so that was the way we carried on. We are now mid 70's, married 50+ years and still very much in love, and a threesome is not out of the question if the righ guy comes along.
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RHP User
8 years ago
yes and people move or evolve, at a different pace. Just because you're together as a couple, doesn't mean you have to be clones. You are both individuals who will change and evolve along the way, just not necessarily at the same time, and they key to making it work is in my opionion, as you said, communication and love, wanting the other to be happy, which strengthens your relationship. That's not to say it's plain sailing, but is anything in life easy. It sounds like your husband is doing exactly the right thing. He may or may not embrace the same open lifestyle, but his respect for you will grow stronger, I believe. He's allowing you to be you, and yeah, I think he sounds like a great guy
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NewVicCpl
8 years ago
When I see my gorgeous wife being pleasured by one or more other gents, she is insatiable at times like this and remains so for several days to follow
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Sawadee
8 years ago
That's a wonderful insight to what this post is all about. Finding that happy medium isn't always a bed of roses but at least you are both trying. The attitude of the of you both of is spot on so I'm sure that medium isn't too far off.. Good on you both for stepping outside your comfort zone and thinking of each other's needs, not everyone can do that. Jay
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RHP User
8 years ago
When the female experiences 9" of new blood pumped muscle how it must be hard to go back and enjoy the old dog
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think it is a, big turn on. At first I was not sure how I would feel, but after one swinging session, it turns out it was an exciting thing we did together, and it made us feel incredibly close afterwards. The feeling was indescribable! So, ye, it is nice to watch her have fun and she watched me. Great night, will do again. Love, Anton - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'AntonJohn' I think it is a, big turn on. At first I was not sure how I would feel, but after one swinging session, it turns out it was an exciting thing we did together, and it made us feel incredibly close afterwards. The feeling was indescribable! So, ye, it is nice to watch her have fun and she watched me. Great night, will do again. Love, Anton - Posted from rhpmobile you're showing as single on your profile
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RHP User
8 years ago
We are a very happy couple and as a couple only i have sex with others. My hubby is very hapoy for me to be his hotwife and play with others. Wether he is in the same room, seperate room, at work or i go out to meet someone he couldn't be happier. We both would live for me to meet that guy for a great friendship. Our lifestyle makes us happy and we both wouldnt change it for anything.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Personally I (f) find it really challenging it's taking a lot of getting to grips with. Even now we are hesitant because of how I feel and what I can cope with. It's hard - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
8 years ago
Those that know Meeka's wealth of knowledge with anything debaucherous, a five foot'n maybe a little bit fiery, feisty and reckoned her strap on would fit very nicely, she actually offered to body guard us with her strap-on at the ready for any annoying type's of people, and that would be who she found to be annoying and cut them down to size, ensuring us safe passage into one of the swingers clubs in Sydney, we could not attend that night, but we did attend the Meet and Greet, Thanks again Meander ; awesome experience and a privilege indeed. Meeka often wrote of 'a connection' swinging couples had when playing up at the clubs, she saw it in most couples and all a little different, unique, in their own ways, holding hands, eye contact, communicating with each other, even when separated while playing with other partners and such as. That thing that seems to be in that couples can enjoy their partner having a good time with sex and other's, still sharing the love with their connection together. Jay me, jealousy and insecurities are powerful emotions, "the green eyed monster" and not only Meeka saw the troubles come of them, Blindman, great to see having a break from studies and posting again, (of recollections, not direct quoting) a seasoned swinger, artist in the mix and has made mention where even the most seasoned swingers have been known to have troubles with their partner having sex with other people, sure of it Blindman expressed those swingers had something happen with emotions of jealousy and insecure the situation unpleasant. I know the feelings and emotions in that connection with Tara and can relate to the enjoyment other's have expressed in this thread because of it. I can also relate to uncomfortable feelings where we lost our connection, more so my emotions because we mostly play up with other guys and it is a lonely kind of experience, confronting, confusing and disheartening, I had problems with erections that I'd never had, it's the connection, which is of many things, intimacy, a bond that gives me courage and confidence, yes jay me, security in self, in us, I reckon if you reflect on what feelings come to you in mind of .. say, when you sit at the table in good company with friends, perhaps when you join your couple friends as a bull for the likes, that part of you in person or spirit, character, self, the cheeky grin that dilates her pupils as she arouses bright eyed and horny, you in part and roll with the fantasy, she's about to be well and truly fucked !!! wouldn't you agree ? That feeling and you know you want to fuck her with hubby, your mate but something ain't right as you start fucking but he sit's aside, not quite as aroused as normally, lost his erection and it's as new to him as is all of you and shrugged off as some stress with stuff going on around that time in day to day life, a bit of a downer and a little awkward for carrying on, so things wind down to it just is what it is and at worst for the atmosphere and conversation, a bit of a mystery, better luck next time. If you can get a feel for it put that way, then and it was a transition of feelings, caution (instinctual) alone, Tara is my best mate, I don't know how to describe what it is to how it feels when our intimacy, our connection, 25 years friends of it too each other, everything for why we chose the lifestyle and experiences with only one rule we agreed, we cruise together and share what we have with others who want to share what they have, (the spirits of people) we are not takers, we are not possessive of each other, it's trust and care and love all the way, on a wing and a prayer and it faded away, blocked. Tara is a wonderful mother and our children come first, we had family matters that bought on such a mind shift for Tara, not intensional, she would never knowingly hurt me , my feelings on purpose, but they hurt and they hurt for a reason, I'd rather better understand the feelings and emotions than to not have them alert and wearing them on my sleeves. All good again too. Good question
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RHP User
8 years ago
There's no manual for the non-monogamous lifestyle. And I'm using that term rather than swinging because there are so many relationship and activity variables on this site. What are the things you find difficult? Is it seeing your partner get pleasure from another person, give pleasure to another person or both? Do you have an issue with being pleasured by another person in front of your partner? You need to work out your own boundaries and comfort levels. Relationships have been broken when one partner isn't feeling secure. Would you rather play separately? You need to work out the root of your uneasiness, and that might be an evolving thing depending on both your past and future experiences. I never thought I could see hubby with another woman. And he definitely doesn't want to see me with another man. But just in the last week, the thought of him being with another woman - specifically a dominant actually turns me on. You need to keep talking, be clear about your feelings and don't take one for the team. If the lifestyle really isn't for you, putting yourself through stress and grief by continuing to play isn't the best idea. You might just need some more time. And look up compersion - it's the opposite of jealousy. Quite interesting to read up on. And best of luck. Some people just fall into the lifestyle with no issues, while others stagger and struggle for a while.
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RHP User
8 years ago
As a single woman, I've found the challenge to be - keeping the lady comfortable. The dynamics can get a little tedious when you just want to let yourself go. I'm often invited into a couples world but then have to be careful that hubby isn't enjoying himself too much. I've walked away from many a cool scenario when I get the vibe from her. Many couples think they can handle it! When it works - it's magical & they get to go home into each other's loving arms... And I get to go home to my magical single life... That my lovelies is a win - win in my world. :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Saltysunskin
8 years ago
I think it's The sexiest things to see your partner in the throes of passion with another lover !! I'm getting turned on just thinking about it !!!!! 😈😈😈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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donnamick
8 years ago
I've changed during our journey, never any jealous moments but over time of playing same room and groups, Mr Mick has found that l get off just knowing that Mrs Mick has had a good fun time, don't even need details, just a mmm that was fun does it for me. Besides the sex afterwards is woah baby!!! I am very voyeuristic though. Cheers Mick - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lens_Addiction
8 years ago
I could watch other guys take my wife all day every day And have enjoyed the show a number times I film her being fucked and make hd movies that play almost every day I can't get enough of it, my personal porn star Shame suitable men are so thin on the ground and half that make the grade have no idea what they are doing
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peteranick223
8 years ago
no problems at all
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RHP User
8 years ago
@soft It's all of the above a bit I just feel the more we do it the more he will want to until it seems like every weekend we're planning or it's all we talk about. I just don't like the visual just seeing it I feel kinda ill and gross afterwards like eating one too many bits of cake - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I use to love watching my ex gf take on 10-15 cocks at the same time. Which was every weekend for the last 9 months of our relationship. I need my partner to be willing to do this, i enjoy joining in to but when i fuck her i want her to be sucking and wanking off other guys stiff cocks at the same time - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well said softandcurious u just need to be happy which ever way u go,it's all about being happy, life's to short - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sometimes it's just better having a group of singles play together with no expectations and just a mass of bodies together ;) The only time I've experienced jealousy was from my partner when I was married and she thought I looked at another woman (I didn't) which was ironic as she was having a secret affair at the time which I only found out about much later. Honesty and openness is always best )on that note, you are very hot yourself Mtview8) ;)
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Sawadee
8 years ago
some thought it a strange topic while others thanked me for starting it. Just goes to show how much our emotions can be stirred when it comes to sharing someone we love. For some ( I'd say most in this thread ) it's exciting to see thier partner in the throws of pleasure with someone else and seems they can't get enough. For others , it's still a bit of a struggle . I'd suggest that after a lifetime of thinking one way , the hurdle can be a bit daunting. But at least you're out there trying even if it is a struggle. You know what they say, practice makes perfect.. lol... So you can still have fun finding your way..
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RHP User
8 years ago
I love watching my partner playing with other guys. Love to see her eyes fixate on their cocks and i can almost see her thoughts. Lol. I get to see her at her most sexual moment, IMO. I have yet to just watch her and not play as i know that is not what she wants. I have been the one being watched to and at first i found it strange. But then i got turned on by the way the two people i was with were getting so excited about the play we were having. It also struck me how close they were with each other. I mean they must be to be able to share their most intimate times with another. It must be so nice to love someone so much that you know they can play with others and they still love only you. Cheers
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Mctag9
8 years ago
I love watching my partner playing with others - I can come just watching and enjoying her sluttiness.... :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ive only known a couple of Wives to allow their husbands to seek out their sex fantasies, even fewer who actively seek for their spouses.. Its seemed to me for a while now the prevalance of Husbands allowing or accepting/understanding the needs of their wives to seek out (vice-versa to above)...I'm more so interested in adding a side-topic to this one : For the spouses who are allowed (more frequently than the other ) to engage in extra marital encounters, are they just as accepting and understanding as the spouse who originally gave them the green light to go ahead..?? I've researched this and found its most likely that one spouse can handle being allowed to seek outside romance,but not being equally accepting for the partner that originally accepted this train of thought...Think of it like this : Wife has had sex others (2 or more times and Is currently in the lead) and similarly The husband sought outside the spousal boundary, and the wife feels the marital score isn't even and seeks to even it up... Love to hear everyones thoughts on this... I hope its not too complicated to figure the concept i've raised here...Sincerely Saphire76
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NewVicCpl
8 years ago
Looking forward to watching it all happen at S&S on Friday 🙌🏻😜👍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
We married very young at 22. Ill be honest. Id had 10 partners before my wife. This is only a guess, Im tipping she had 20 or so. I was jealous for years, that she knew more and had more partners than me. That was then. Now, 36 year later, our sex life isnt happening much. Hench why im here. Since being on this ssite, Ive found myself more and more interested in the couples scene. Its now a fantasy of mine. I would love to experience it with my wife. Hopefully fix our sex life up. Watch her with others, now turns me on. I feel, its because i could also be with others I just cant find myself to talk about it with her. Its a strange situation, we are in
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swingalingson
8 years ago
WTF you say!!! Well hear me out. If a man is open minded the thoughts go through a man's head alot. I wonder what she would be like with a different man? How she would react being satisfied by another? Simple Now you jealous men out there that do not wanna share. How would you have any urge to share her? Well the jealous types, their minds always tend to wander. They always make things that are not there appear. That is where the FANTASY kicks in everytime!😉 The jealous person thinks, is she with another? What is she doing with that other? How is he or she fucking her? What is she doing with that other lover? Is she any different? What goodness is she giving or getting or sharing? So yes most men do fantasize about their lover being with another person if they are willing to share or not. They just have trouble explaining it because it is hypocritical to admit that they have thought and imagined it.
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RHP User
4 years ago
I have organised a lot of male partners for my wife, I love watching her enjoy herself and then joining in. nothing better than listening to the lady you love cum.......
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