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M28 F27

Cant seen to find any single girls on here.

December 25 2016

My partner and I are looking for a girl to join us but can't seem to find any, even when searching for just girls, it shows up with couples. How do we find just girls on here?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    For a start fix your profile and put up a pic! And get rid of heading - We need a girl to join us. Any girl is fine. If you want to find a unicorn you have to stand out. At the moment your profile reads as if its from a single male. Pusscat

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Looks like you are desperate, And girls have some self respect.

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    8 years ago

    It is not easy to respond to post like this without sounding harsh, rhiandrob, given your young age (F18, M20)! And your age could be one of the reasons why you seem to cannot find any single girls in your search. But beside that, it also depends on your location (where you live that is), as that is another factor contributed to the lacking of "audience". Also, your profile needs a major "makeover"! Reword your profile content properly so that the unicorns would stop for a second and read your profile. It may sound harsh, rhiandrob, but you must realise that your age is somehow a barrier to some mature unicorns, as some of them could be having children, or nieces and nephews, around your age and that would not be easy for them to give you a chance. Therefore, reword your profile content and make it sounds interesting, and worthwhile, instead of the loud scream of "just give us your pussy" description! Another option for you to start out is, attend one of the Meet & Greet drinks nights near you, if you are near one of the major cities that is. That way, you would be presenting yourselves in person to other RHP members, could show them who you are and it's a good way to start making connection with other RHP people. Of course, going to the Meet & Greets is not an easy path to walk either, especially at your age and given that your girl is a shy person. But you need to start somewhere, in life, in order to gain experiences :) Good luck with your journey on RHP rhiandrob, I hope you find what you've come here for, eventually :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MrPlayful

    MrPlayful

    8 years ago

    I noticed you check out our couples profile and so had a look at yours. I too saw the bit that said any female would do and thought well that won't get you too far. We all think another person might just like us because of who we are, not just because we are anyone that will do. Apart from the things listed above, are you checking the box that says "looking for me" when you do a search? You may have noticed that the average age on here is above yours, and you've also noticed that there are not that many ladies looking for a couple. So put two and two together and you may just find that there aren't too many ladies looking for a couple of your age? Perhaps that is the problem when you search? Have a good read of the feedback here and try not to take it to heart. Make sure it is what you both want and stick it out. Then remember that everyone else is here for themselves and not just you. Be nice and think before you message... And see how things go. Good luck.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Seems to be a common theme here. I think there's a very long queue. Good luck......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Nice feedback all... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Your profile needs some serious work. It's basically saying "we don't care what you look like or what your personality is like, we just want your pussy". I'm also thinking that it's odd that you have selected "relationship" as one of the things you're open to. Being a smoker will hinder your likelihood of finding a woman to join you. Your age will too, because of your lack of experience and maturity. Not having any photos means that many women will not even bother looking at or replying to your messages. No pics, plus the other things, also makes your profile seem like it's written by a single guy, not a couple. If you put in some effort, you may meet someone, but you might be better off getting along to some events. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Your profile needs some serious work. It's basically saying "we don't care what you look like or what your personality is like, we just want your pussy". I'm also thinking that it's odd that you have selected "relationship" as one of the things you're open to. Being a smoker will hinder your likelihood of finding a woman to join you. Your age will too, because of your lack of experience and maturity. Not having any photos means that many women will not even bother looking at or replying to your messages. No pics, plus the other things, also makes your profile seem like it's written by a single guy, not a couple. If you put in some effort, you may meet someone, but you might be better off getting along to some events. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    8 years ago

    Here's the deal Zero effort invested..... zero result returned. You make the "any girl" sound like an object for your use.... not a person to INCLUDE for everyone's enjoyment and benefit. As it stands, I'd say your profile is a perfect representation of what others should expect of you. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Awful profile = Awful results

  • Seachange

    Seachange

    8 years ago

    Agree with all above. When I look at your profile, alarm bells go and all I could think of, 'this is a fake profile, a troll. Don't engage or reply to '. People on this site may be open about their sexuality more than the normal population, it doesn't mean they have less or no self respect or do not deserve respect. You'd be surprised of the number of intelligent, smart and good people here. But the sound of it, I get the impression that your young partner seems like a reluctant participant in your quest for a third wheel for Fmf. Maybe save up your lunch money and pay for a 'professional entertainer' instead? That is what it looks like, you just want a hole to fill, regardless of looks or anything else? so, you see, we all want to think we are something more than a cumbucket for your pleasure as we too have needs. Treat people how you would like to be treated. I would say you may have some growing up to do. Good luck.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Be prepared for honest answers. This isnt Mummy Snugglekins Q and A. I just think that putting "anything will do" on a profile doesnt read well. Im sure they are a nice couple looking to start a new journey but they did ask for feedback. If someone said to me that my profile wasnt very good ( which has happened) Id look to changing it.

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    8 years ago

    About Us We need a girl to join us. Any girl is fine. Ask us. We Are looking for I got my partner. Just need girls for fun. The above, for us. is very off putting. So, anyone who has a vagina, and who is still breathing, will do? Do you realise what this sounds like? Are you desperate ? You just need ? So it is all about YOUR needs? Then there is the "safe sex if required " and the smoking aspect. The rest of your profile lacks detail & input. Makes us suspect that you are not a couple at all. That once again it's a make trying to lure a female to meet, under the guise of a couple. Good luck in your search. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    8 years ago

    Make should read "male" - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    The free advertisement campaign is turning into a nightmare. Any feedback OP? Even some adjustment to your profile to give us a sign there is a young couple willing to learn.

  • Firery

    Firery

    8 years ago

    I have watched for many years even back to when I ran the biggest swingers club in Australia. Couple start out wanting a single girl, adamant that they want a single girl ONLY, no one else EVER, not even couples, you try talking to them saying why not explore with another couple, but usually the male half is adamant that it will be a single lady only. Over time and of course NOT finding a single lady at all, they progress so soft swing, or may even say, seeking couple but the male of the couple is to watch only, and they want the other couples wife. Well this fails over time so then they agree to the couples together but no penetration of his wife, but he will be fucking both girls. This fails so then its onto full swap. WOW WOW WOW, the alarm bells go off, they loved it so much, because sadly all along the male half of the couple wanted another girl for him only, he never even considered his wife's needs, just his. But no matter what, this cycle will continue, over and over for many more couples entering the lifestyle in the future.

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    8 years ago

    Lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Dorey12

    Dorey12

    8 years ago

    Your looking for what is called a "unicorn". Good Luck!