Casual Conversation

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  MsJonesy

  8 years ago

  Not unusual for everyday life to factor into the conversation....cos we are all just regular folk you know 😊 Anytime you want to amp up the conversation, just dive right on in. Don't wait for others to start. You can preface the change in conversation with "not sure how you are feeling, but we are liking your company. How do you feel about x, y and z?" But for gawds sake make sure you and the wife have the same thoughts about the people you are talking to prior to launching Operation Naughty Talk. Nothing kills the mood more than a death stare from your partner if you hit the launch button without their go ahead.

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  Dirtyandfriendly

  8 years ago

  Honestly you need to just ask, every single conversation I have with people always turns to some sort of sexual conversation, I dont even mean to do it. Idle chit chat is okay, but there comes a time when you have to ask the hard questions, things like "so how long have you been doing this?" "What experiences have you both done?' things like that that aren't too personal, but you're all there for a reason for sex. I did a foursome in December and I can get people talking. I'm great at reading people and breaking the ice.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I talk about sex. That's it, and I never get any complaints 😜

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  That regardless of the event types I have been to, if someone not involved accidentally walked in during "social time" prior to play, they would have little clue what we would be up to - just another gathering of friends they would think. We would talk about anything and everything. Sometimes, the hosts have mentioned it is time to play, and have had to come back and give people the hurry on because we are still too busy chatting to undress ;) Later on (perhaps when people need a break!) people can be naked and half naked and still happy to chat about anything. It all comes from being comfortable with the company. And because of the circumstances, such open minded people are more likely to chat about other general life topics and opinions you might not bring up otherwise for fear of being judged by regular society. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I was a bull at a gate ;) and maybe because I am a woman, only one man said no, even though his girlfriend was seducing me to join them. Jonesy is spot on when she says 'be on the same page'. Nothing worse than making someone feel awful :( Hubby and I always look at each other if we get hit up by a couple, we check if the other is interested! I never have taken one for the team, and won't. Currently with my boyfriend, playmates are selected carefully ... again I won't take one for the team :) At parties to get play started I used to flirt incessantly ;) Compliment people on how they look, how they smell (only ever at the start of the night lol). If they have tattoos, ask the story behind them ... I don't have a tried and true approach, each person/couple is different. Often I would start play with hubby, invariably a lot of couples asked to join us because they liked the look of what I was doing to him .... Just be yourselves, the rest will work itself out. Mary xx

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Thanks for all the responses guys. The information is spot on and much appreciated. Keep them coming please? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Livingandloving2

  8 years ago

  Very interesting topic! I myself need to feel a connection to someone before I could start to engage in sexual talk. Without a fair deal of talk to feel that safe connection I wouldn't be able to engage in intimate discussion. Puts me in the time waster category for most :) Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I bet you don't 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  lol I've tried normal conversation, but it doesn't interest me and not what I'm there for. Most of my meets have been hardly any words spoken, maybe a breathless 'hi' if I can get that out, then walk up and, well you know 😉 The few times I have met them for a drink, I think only about 3 times, it hasn't worked. I'm just too horny, and RL is no different. Conversation is overrated IMO 😀

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Hahaha you are soo honest and truthful. I love your openness, it's a huge turn-on. You are right about conversation and it does depend on the individual, the situation plus your mood at the time. - Posted from rhpmobile

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