Changing teams mid game?

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  MissSarahCurious

  12 years ago

  Perhaps you're experiencing the normal experimental phase a lot of 30somethings feel. Just because you had until now always been attracted to men doesn't mean you're any different to people who are heterosexual into their 30s and then start thinking about trying the other side.And I don't think it's a problem that you've only been with men, at least you know what you like and what works for you when people do it to you. It's a good basis to start with.xx Sarah

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Dear KuleI think that self-interrogation is an important part of being self-aware. Each of us has a story in how and where we have come from, to be here today. Be assured that people do 'change teams' in their 30s, 40s and later. I can't offer you in-depth advice, others may be able to, just reassurance that you need to be comfortable with your own identity. I can say that for me, I am attracted to a person for who they are, not because they have a particular gender. Dating from Column B instead of Column A (or they other way around ...) should be like any new 'encounter': listening, communicating, trusting, exploring together and not getting hung up about not doing something right or wrong. Be open to new experiences and build on your 'repertoire'. Enjoy honing your new skills, new techniques and the new dynamics.Rox

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  is a continuum and how wonderful that you are so open about exploring yours with the other fifty -percent.Any woman who is closed minded to your sexual history would not be an attractive lover anyway. There are no teams,just lots of players with different jumpersx Hugs H

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  to the RHP> team conversion I am sure there are lots of lovely sexy women who are open minded enough not to worry at all what your preferences were or are or may be in the future.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  But what I'd like to know is. What are the papers saying and how did you manage to get your contract release forms signed so easily?You'll need to be tough as some of the old fans will Boo you at the first away game.

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  playful4u

  12 years ago

  Why not change teams and what has age got to do with anything?   You may not be gay after all, perhaps you are bi and prefer to bat for both teams which may make you twice as popular :)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  There isn't a particular age at which you have to make a firm decision as to your sexuality. With some of the people I've talked to who are bisexual/bi-curious, it generally takes one particular person to come along into your life, turn your head, and make you question yourself. This happened to me just earlier this year with a stunning, beautiful married woman off here, but before then I thought myself quite firmly hetero. This 'person' can come along at any time of your life, and when they do, it can really open your eyes to possibilities :)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  hi im 53 ,,,,,,,,i dont know if being a transexual is counted as changing teams ,,,,,,,,lol xxxxxxxx catherine ,,,,,,,

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I think that's more a managerial change. Enjoy your time running the bench and rallying your steads..This thread reminds me of a couple of girls I use to know who shared a pad with a gay guy. They were quite comfy wandering from bathroom to bedroom in various stages of dis-robament (is that a word?). Then one day he bought a lady home.. Talk about panic in the camp!! LOL..@CtKt thanks..

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Thanks for the comments; I greatly appreciate your feedback! It’s wonderful to get confirmation that this is possible as I was very uncertain of how it would be look at from a woman’s perspective. Now just to pop the cherry for the first time, so to speak Could take a while, one very shy/inexperienced RHP'er

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  hey kule,   i believe i mite be a team changer also....except the other way round. ive always been in hetero relationships but iv been single last few yrs& been getting turnd on by a hot guy when i see 1, problem is id still rather have sex with females.   iv known for a few yrs now im bi but just didnt know if i leaned 1 way further. i was with a woman bout 7 yrs ago who got me experimenting but i wasnt prepared to go the whol way with men like she would have wanted(maybe i should set you pair up..lol). im probably not much help to your question but id sure like to hear how you go.....,maybe even swap pointers beforepopping cheries

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