MsJonesy

MsJonesy

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Chaning your mind... or having it changed for you?

October 14 2014

(AKA Shiny new forum) The big day has arrived, you're heading off to meet the hottie with whom you have been steaming up the monitor and keyboard for the last week or two (or day, or month - it matters not!). You have specified you meet and greet the first time; no hanging off the chandelier, no swapping vertical dancing for horizontal. Just strictly a chat/drink/coffee so you can 'form an opinion'. But maybe you can be convince to meet and play instead. What would change your mind on the night? How far into the meet would you get before you declared your interest in seeing them writhing beneath you in ecstasy, and how would you let them know? And..... the killer question... Did you go to the meet all prepared? Did you sip on your good undies, a sexy little set, pack the condoms, all the while reminding yourself "I only meet and greet!"

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    at the front door:-) xxQ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Tickle me under the chin, and I'm yours, no matter what we agreed too. I just can not resist...knots

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I don't fuck on a first date and will not shave my legs on purpose, so I won't be tempted after one drink too many.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Just how many Patrons is that Meander? I usually carry some condoms for justin but it's been a couple of years since I've needed them on a first date.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Meet for a drink only at Wolloomooloo.. After a few and feeling quite relaxed ' she excused herself at the same time planted a cheeky lil kiss on the cheek. The chemistry had already kicked in and things just happened.. She originally told me she lived in Nth Sydney, but turned out it was less than 100 mtrs for the pub.. lol.. The games we play.. lol..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Forgot to add.. we both vowed we were to meet for drinks only.. and I meant it at the time..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'd check the expiry date if I were you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Do not sip on you're undies :) Using shoes as a drinking vessel I have seen before lol just nuts, definitely not a practice I engage in :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If only they were all like that Shells :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You don't plan it or have a box to tick, it just happens, the light is right the breeze conspires, the chemistry sets and your into each other there and then. You can dream, but never expect.

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    10 years ago

    Okay, I know the slip of leaving out an 'L' has made for some scary imagery, although it may be someone's kink (feel free NOT to share with me!). Please forgive, and insert it where required. Same with the 'G'.

  • Twisted_Mister

    Twisted_Mister

    10 years ago

    Sometimes the electricity, the chemistry overtakes you both so be prepared, I say, despite vowing to only to the 'a drink in a public place' thing!!! Seems to happen more on interstate trips than here at home though.... But when it does - look out! ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    when I had my studio it was easy, as I never want a coffee or chat anyway. Its just chemistry for me. If its not there then they would have a chat and walk out the door and I would get back to my painting. I would be in just ordinary clothes anyway. Usually with paint all over them and just some normal undies, and in odd bra and top. They never last ten seconds on anyway. If its a second meeting and maybe a hotel tryst then yes i will dress up, I go to the room first and get prepared. No way can I even walk in bloody heels let alone stagger to a meet and greet like that, nor with corset that takes you breath away. I just prefer to be undressed out of my ordinary clothes, thats my turn on. I meet a guy like that last week, I meet him and the more we talked about ordinary things the more the endorphin's were kicking in and then he just took my hand and led me to his bed and I was putty. I do not really meet any new guys these days, have a really good FWB and now and again a few of my lovers come in and out of the frame. I guess i have become very specific now, want something nice and regular and local. I know so many women get all dressed up, and then get to a guys house and its over in five seconds, dispite all the sweet talk. One guy got my friend to drive up to perth a good hours drive, never even offered her a glass of water. Recently I did go and meet a local guy and he had a bedroom like a teenage boy( he was a mature guy) unmade bed, dirty sheets, track suit pants on and no condoms. You can imagine my lust just went through the roof, the stained track pants did it for me. He even said its ok to go without a condom, I get tested all the time. I said ok , so all that will do is tell you that you go something...lucky you. I went out the door five minutes after I got there. I did screen this guy as best I could and spoke on the phone etc he seemed on the same page, but we were not even in the same library

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I meant the clothes never stay on for more than ten seconds....though there might be a few that never last that long as well.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    For bringing that up :) I'm not worried about G :) Continue, as you were :) after me going off on a tangent :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Not even in the same library.....love it, looking forward to meeting up, girl! xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    my hormones are not and a lot of my meets turn into fuck fests. My bad

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

    I have it and I use it.............well.

  • 6exxy

    6exxy

    10 years ago

    Honestly we have all had experiences but really I go with no expectations and happy to go with the flow. Most meets have been disappointments. Would love to see y'all walk the walk😏 seems more rejection than connections.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Once we messaged a guy and then met him for coffee and all good , mrs gghaving fun was impressed I thought he seamed a nice guy so we arranged a night away and met him for what he promised would be a great night Started with him being half an hour late then figiting while mrs finished her drink and up to the room for romance as he put it , well he took his cloths off and helped undress mrs with my help and it all started then in 5 minutes it was over and he was getting dressed and gone I'm sure he never had time to take off his socks and left us sratching our heads I've had enough of this mrs said not doing this again , ok I said we will go out for tea and forget about it , so off we went for tea and had quite a few wines each both ending up quite tipsy then a message came through on rhp saying Hey I see you are just nearby do u care for a drink I showed mrs gghaving fun and she laughed saying he prob won't show up so I dared her to message him back and see if he would Ok but I'm not playing she said sternly Well he did show up and straight away bought a bottle of wine and chatted quite easly to mrsgghaving fun , went to the toilet and when I came back they said the bar is closing we can all go up to our room if you want mrsgghaving fun said ok cool I said and off we went and ended up playing till 4 am and never even caught his name So you can never tell the guy we did everything by our book was a disaster and the guy we broke every rule in our book with we had a ball - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit' I have it and I use it.............well. I like to think I offer the same..... but... I can see the response now if I said that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I purposefully refrain from any dirty talk in initial messages or texts, because experience has taught me that no matter how well things go in cyber land I will never know for certain if someone floats my boat until I meet them in the flesh. Having said that, I have no issue with fucking someone on the first meet if everything aligns and the chemistry is there. Basically I go to a first meet with no particular expectations one way or the other, so generally I will be 'prepared' just in case it should end up being all systems go .

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    I carry my SMEXY where ever I go.. It just follows. 😊😊 Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If you can't be good, be good at being bad :p What's next ? Perhaps a German beer fest :) for complete and utter debauchery :) If you follow my suggestion, don't blame me if it all turns to custard the next day :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Sorry about the name typo ! A genuine cock-up on my part :( - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Kissk,chaning my mind...kinda a cross between channelling and chaining...chaning, the act of freeing concrete thought :-) xxQ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Ralph :) Where all these weird associations come from is beyond me lol. Obviously I have had too much time in my past to search out and find classic’s from yesteryear’s :) History is a fascinating subject :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    imagining that every guy was Mr.Tatum:-)

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    What panties and I always carry condoms in my bag, yep prepared.......💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Putting on my granny undies didn't work for me one time on a coffee date ......made no difference to him either lol

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    10 years ago

    people actually don't fuck on first meets? Huh, Well go figure you learn something new every day! 😇

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'tall_guy_1' If you can't be good, be good at being bad :p What's next ? Perhaps a German beer fest :) for complete and utter debauchery :) If you follow my suggestion, don't blame me if it all turns to custard the next day :) - Posted from rhpmobile sounds great, would sound better if I actually liked beer. I have no objection about anyone licking it off me though :D

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    10 years ago

    I like the word chaning. It could be used to describe the altered state of reality one achieves when in paroxysms of lust.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'inthekiss' I know so many women get all dressed up, and then get to a guys house and its over in five seconds, dispite all the sweet talk. One guy got my friend to drive up to perth a good hours drive, never even offered her a glass of water. Recently I did go and meet a local guy and he had a bedroom like a teenage boy( he was a mature guy) unmade bed, dirty sheets, track suit pants on and no condoms. You can imagine my lust just went through the roof, the stained track pants did it for me. He even said its ok to go without a condom, I get tested all the time. I said ok , so all that will do is tell you that you go something...lucky you. I went out the door five minutes after I got there. I did screen this guy as best I could and spoke on the phone etc he seemed on the same page, but we were not even in the same library .......the above type of scenarios occur ALL the time.Such a shame that there are SO many people out there who make no effort for their lovers whatsoever.I take pride in always being clean, polite and hospitable to everyone and always ensure the house is clean and tidy before I invite anyone over.It's a pity many others are too lazy to put in the effort, honestly what the hell is wrong with some people!!??!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The computer says, No. Its a celebration tonight :) loll feel free to run amok :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm going to be upfront and call you out on this one Q lol since you have started a trend :) Is chaning Aussie slang :p ? Or a new term and word invented by the inventive Q :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Nothing wrong with something more sophisticated, would cocktails be you're preferred flavour :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm just as shocked as you :) OK lol this topic can continue where it started, sorry kissk :) - Posted from rhpmobile