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Charged with fellatio
August 02 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
That sucks..
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RHP User
11 years ago
If dis was a man who did sumfink to da wooman without her consent, we'd be screaming our mofo arses off!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Us guys have been fighting for years to be waken up this way.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Simple.
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RHP User
11 years ago
If I woke up with my ex between my legs, I'd scream bloody murder before punching him in the face and dragging him out of the house by his testicles. Violation is violation, damn straight.
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subgal_gc
11 years ago
I agree that violation is violation but without knowing the full story behind this, who is to know if they have had an agreement that one may wake the other by performing oral sex on them. I have had partners in the past that have mentioned to me that it is a fantasy of theirs to be woken in this way.
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RHP User
11 years ago
do we assume that a man would welcome anyone sucking his cock regardless? The sexual abuse of boys and men has been hidden because of this assumption....and of course, because of the shame that men have been made to feel so abuse goes unreported.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I never condone sexual assault/violation ..... the context of this post is more in line with RHP male fantasies that are regularly mentioned here. Glad to see some of the men here see the irony of the situation! SF
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
It's not as simple as it sounds. The mans penis was called to offer testimony.... ..... but it didn't stand up in court. :-) DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
That he'd been sexually assaulted unless he felt very strongly about it. He's surely know he'd be subject to various kinds of ridicule. As someone said earlier, if it had happened to a woman and people here were making a joke out of it, there'd be an uproar. Not cool. Not cool at all.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I had to see the funny side of it. But the problem with this story is we dont know the facts. If she is an ex wife that he is no longer in a relationship with, then yes it could be considered rape. How long have they been split up for? Also how did she get into his house/bedroom?
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RHP User
11 years ago
sorry but if they are "ex's" why are they in the position where they wake up in the middle of the night next to each other???? Last place id want to be with my ex!!!!!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I say dear, I say love.I accidentally went to my ex's place, saw him sleeping in bed peacefully, did not want to disturb him and my mouth tripped and fell onto his penis.FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' It's not as simple as it sounds. The mans penis was called to offer testimony.... ..... but it didn't stand up in court. :-) DG Pardon me your honor...I do have two nuts as witnesses!FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
anyone for a cup of tea...........yes.......no?
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madotara69
11 years ago
and let you have your way with us whenever you feel like it. We have other things to think about than just sex. As it is, Ain't got time to fix the shingles, Ain't got time to fix the floor, Ain't got time to oil the hinges, Nor to mend no window pane and we have other responsibilities, Like shit to do in the shed.And someone has to go to Bunnings, we have drum kits to set up and you try waxing a surfboard as well. The list is endless and we get tired and need our sleep.But Women just think they can wander in all hours of the night and expect we men should wake up so she can give a blowjob. Men have rights too you know!!!...???,,][;',,$~-~~***. . :Mado
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'submissivegalgc'I agree that violation is violation but without knowing the full story behind this, who is to know if they have had an agreement that one may wake the other by performing oral sex on them. I have had partners in the past that have mentioned to me that it is a fantasy of theirs to be woken in this way. If they had an agreement and it was his fantasy he's hardly likely to have her charged is he?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Geek_on_wheels' But the problem with this story is we dont know the facts. If she is an ex wife that he is no longer in a relationship with, then yes it could be considered rape. Rape involves intercourse. This would be considered sexual assault (especially if done with force), or molestation at the very least. SF, with the "" and the "!!!" I did not read your post as tongue-in-cheek, and I didn't really see the humour I'm afraid.
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RHP User
11 years ago
sucking my dick I would definitely voice my concerns, probably along the lines of ," stop, stop, you've got 30 mins to stop doing that"!!
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wingman2014
11 years ago
There is an arsehole next door who can back up the story.
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chevtrek
11 years ago
Could it be he was just fussing over a little thing
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RHP User
11 years ago
He was in a very sticky situation with his date named honey, at the time of the incident.FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Glad to see most of us still agree that no means no despite the role reversal. Sexual assault is sexual assault and the offence of sexual assault replaced rape so it could include all the other nasty things people do to each other involving penetration of various forms. Previously it was pretty limited in its interpretation. It's kind of a pity it doesn't sound like any physical evidence was gathered or it probably would have meant a conviction for her. No still means no and at least that's good to hear :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Some of the comments ridiculing the victim though. Reminds me of those terrible days where people would drop the comment about if a woman was wearing a short skirt she was asking for it. Sexual assault every time I have dealt with a victim has been a devastating psychological and often physical trauma. I don't really see the funny side, but I am hoping nobody seriously feels there is a lighter side to is terrible crime.
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RHP User
11 years ago
be laughing if the genders were reversed, like justforfun I fail to see the humour
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wingman2014
11 years ago
It is a serious subject , as many have said Sexual assault is NEVER to be condoned. But Im sure most know how to distinguish the serious side from the humorous side. It's the laconic Aussie sense of humour , it's a foundation of what makes us who we are. The ability to laugh at ourselves as well as others in a laid back way , no chips on our shoulders. It's all good as long as we continue to keep it in context.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just like an earlier thread on suicide, joking about a victim of sexual assault seems very tacky and quite offensive to me. I get the black humour thing, really I do, my occupation is full of it and it is often a coping mechanism of the "laugh or you'll cry" type but I cannot forget the faces and demeanour of the sexual assault victim. It's like the old domestic violence joke......What do you tell a woman with two black eyes? Nothing....she's been told twice already. It's not very funny really and if the article were about me being charged with gong to me ex-wife's house and going down on her while she slept, I doubt many would condone jokes being made at her expense. I have to disagree about this one, its too serious an issue.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'd have my ex charged I left her for a reason I don't want her touching me ! If it was reserved he'd do prison time !
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'justforfunisall' the offence of sexual assault replaced rape so it could include all the other nasty things people do to each other involving penetration of various forms. Previously it was pretty limited in its interpretation. When I was around twenty, legally "Rape" included the insertion of a penis into a vagina. As a result men could not be raped. It really disturbed me and I'm so glad the law has changed since then.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Wingman,the so called laconic Aussie sense of humour is a very lame excuse,if you were sexually assaulted I doubt that you would appreciate the ''Aussie''sense of humour quite so much. Considering that there are probably many people,both male and female reading this thread,who have had this experience,poor taste indeed.
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madotara69
11 years ago
He is not a victim until the magistrate found him a victim and her guilty. If the case had made it to a hearing then the media would make a show and the penalty would move to district court and a judge would hear the submissions. All that time The woman is still innocent for whatever anyone says she has done. I would be inclined to see the charge was dropped, and the man had his day in court to tell the world he thought his ex was a cunt. And she has been ridiculed for whatever she was trying to express in privacy with ex? her cunt of a husband.No it is not that funny, Poor lady trying to save her marriage without his consent.Sexual crimes are serious. And if were to call a police man a cunt he would charge me. He could not do a thing if I told him I thought he was one because that is what everyone else said.If you are going to make serious matters, Matters. Then don't use silly matters to protect them.Tara has woken me performing one of the greatest blowjobs of all the great ones without my knowledge, but I knew it once I did wake up, thank fuck I did, I would have missed out there. If down the track, we had a tiff and she locked me out told me it was over. I am the ex then she hears me telling her i don't give a fuck because she locked me out to the tv room and kitchen. Then when she feels like saying the door is not locked husband and gives me a blowjob to wake with some sincerity for being sorry. I call consent. I gave her consent. I would have to tell her she can never give me another blowjob when I am sleeping. I would have to be a fuckwit. Or absolutely serious and have her sign it.I think this is funny because she was the victim. A charge is only procedure carried out, even if a fuckwit insists with annoying everyone for his little victory for saying see how much power I have over you woman, now get home and do what you are told. And suck my cock to show me how sorry you are, or else.And I have not called any policemen anything. I am sure some would say I did.Mado
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
...if the guys whove commented would be so forgiving if they woke up and found they were being given a blowjob............by a guyDG
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RHP User
11 years ago
I get you, and I get what you're saying about Aussie humour, but some things are black and white. If this whole thread was about a woman being assaulted, or as DG suggested a man waking up to an unwelcome blow job by another man, everyone would be horrified by the jokes. I can't understand why people don't take more care with what they say. Making light of things like this makes victims too scared to come forward. Given the stats around sexual assault, that would mean a bunch of forum readers have been impacted in some way - including perhaps men - and instead of main sure they know they're safe to come forward, they once again have to contemplate ridicule and humour at their expense. Sure, the story can be funny. But of course that depends on whether you're hearing about it or living it. Be kind people.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'justforfunisall' Some of the comments ridiculing the victim though. Reminds me of those terrible days where people would drop the comment about if a woman was wearing a short skirt she was asking for it. Sexual assault every time I have dealt with a victim has been a devastating psychological and often physical trauma. I don't really see the funny side, but I am hoping nobody seriously feels there is a lighter side to is terrible crime. If the role was revered and this was a woman, I doubt the jokes would be happening. This si why sexual assault on men is barely discussed, let alone other male issues. Cup of concrete etc come to mind.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I do NOT condone rape or sexual violence against anyone. I only posted my joke as I could see a funny side to what happened. As I have had a lot of girlfriends and still havnt had a blowjob to completetion. So in a way the joke relates to me. I would love to be woken up that way. Would I say my joke to the guys face? no. Do I know rape victums and how messed up they are from their experiences? Yes. As for being so forgiving if I woke up to find a guy giving us a blowjob? Now thats just semantics, not to mention a bit sexist. Not everyone is straight. But yes if I woke up to a guy giving me a BJ, then yes I would be screaming blue murder. Not that it would happen as there isn't a chance in hell of some stranger getting into my house. I also have gay and bisexual friends and we all respect each other boundries. Now as for this story, we don't know all the facts. Like how she got in? how long have they been divorced? Its his ex wife and we dont have the context of what happened. Its not like a stranger tried to rape him. We dont know why they split up. For all we know she wasn't getting the sex she wanted... Yes it can still be rape, I'm not saying it isnt. "Too soon?" It's funny how humour works, some jokes are ok while others are classed as distasteful or too soon. Take all the jokes about Steve Erwin or Michael Jackson after they died. These jokes spread like wildfire but would a person say it to Bindi Erwin or to Mj's family? No. Im also in a wheelchair and Ive heard plenty of wheelchair jokes as well, does that make me angry? no, if I couldnt see the funny side of things, I would be a very sad, unhappy man. That doesn't mean that another person in a wheelchair won't be offended or upset by the same joke I find funny. Anyways life is too short to always be serious or cynical. "Always look on the bright side of life" "Live, Laugh, Love" - words to live by.
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' ...if the guys whove commented would be so forgiving if they woke up and found they were being given a blowjob........13 up to 18 years old, I was nearly 13. we were Navy Cadets at T.S Condamine based on the Queenscliff Lagoon in Manly Vale. It was run by the Navy and the Commanding Officers were Reserve Navy. I was a nearly Thirteen, Thirteen was the minimum age to join, He said I was special and organised a Weekend posting for the cadets to celebrate my birthday and make the rank Able seaman official. It was pretty exciting as it meant the start for training to Join The Navy at Officers School at HMAS Leuin Perth. A career in the Navy Starting as an officer, was to be my destiny, and I nearly made it too. John Beserick Was his name and I am not vilifying or defaming him, A jury and Judge in the high court did that.We were allowed to go up to the officers Mess and drink anything from the bar rum and port was the main liqueur because we were sailors. My 13th birthday landed in the sick bay down stairs mostly wishing I could sleep, when I did get to sleep was when I woke up to the CPO (Chief Petty Officer) Beserick, sucking my penis.To cut a long story short, at 15 years old when it stopped. Some detectives came and sat with me and began to ask questions to form a brief to hand with a charge relating to Pedophilia. I for myself (not the others that is up to them) was told that my story would be told, though law stopped the evidence from a minor being accepted as evidence so John B would not be found guilty. I was 19/ 20 years old when the trial was summed up, I had spent many days over those years in that court room, but the judge protected me from being tricked by the Barrister for defense. And the day I stood up and yelled at him for calling me a liar. He blew the case with that one. And the jury told the judge that they refuse to not accept my evidance as a minor and found him guilty and The judge made a new law to give the jury their verdict and there was the first pedophile in prison unprotected from the minor clause. It was a pretty bad time through all that, and the Navy stayed right out of it, Going to Officer school couldn't happen because of the trial days/years. But there was something good that came for it and that is what counts over my importance. "Pedophile rings" were a big thing back then. When minors gave evidence it was not accepted by law to convict, though recognition was noted and Victims Compensation was awarded. Up to $20 000 so those pedophile rings would throw the kids in court, walk out of the trial innocent of any charges and take the kids to the lawyer to collect the $20 000 Bet you did not know that.So my outburst won the respects with my peers the jury and the judge and any other kid that is told it won't count but needs to be said. And changed history to end the pedophile ring industries.I am pretty happy about that, I am not very happy with our Navy they never even said sorry to my mum, and I would have told them to get fucked if they came to see me. Rather join the Army.I am not ashamed, and I am not afraid to have this known. when I was thirteen I was though. And you learn a lot of things you never would with something like all that. People especially and there was a lot of good tired people who sat with me during the event.I can see why some of you get upset with topics like this, but that is just the best in you speaking. Don't get to upset with the joking around, because it is a way for speaking for it, keeping the pain out a bit can help, even a victim. Unless you are a sick person that sexually assaults people. All the rest are on the side for the victims, if there is a place for some humor a light hearted break can raise some spirits for some pretty horrible feelings victims will be going through. The victim is just one of all you anyway, just fucked up by some cunt, but just that cunt. but that cunt is sick, so I should not say cunt, if they are not seeking help they are.Mado....by a guyDG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mesmerised' Rape involves intercourse. This would be considered sexual assault (especially if done with force), or molestation at the very least. SF, with the "" and the "!!!" I did not read your post as tongue-in-cheek, and I didn't really see the humour I'm afraid. Mesmerised -Interesting that you point to the emoticon I used as "tongue-in-cheek".... i see that emoticon as meaning "WTF"!!! The story as reported, leaves many holes open to its interpretation as to what actually happened. It doesn't explain how the woman got into the house, bedroom or his bed. There is no mention of any Break and Enter used on her part. Yes, shock, horror, some ex's do have sex after separation or divorce. - Was this a case of they had a night together, had a tiff in the morning and he decided to make a false accusation? - Were they in fact at her house? - Was she hoping to re-gnite their failing relationship as the incident could have occurred while they were still married and it has only made it to court now? The only people that know the full story of the circumstances are the 2 parties involved. If you read further down I also said: ___________________________________________________________________________________ "Sexual assault! hmmm... I never condone sexual assault/violation ..... the context of this post is more in line with RHP male fantasies that are regularly mentioned here." ______________________________________________________________________________________________ Seriously, I would be surprised to hear that no woman has ever been told by her partner that he would love to be awakened by receiving oral. I personally, have been encouraged to do this on a number of occasions. Surely I am not the only one on RHP with this experience? Please consider that your assumption isn't necessarily correct nor does the article give enough information to form a definitive assumption either way. SF
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Sensory_fun' Mesmerised -Interesting that you point to the emoticon I used as "tongue-in-cheek".... i see that emoticon as meaning "WTF"!!! I said because of your use of that emoticon I did NOT read your post as tongue in cheek. I understand this forum went a completely different direction than you intended. And yes, we certainly don't have all the info. But it's also important to remember it's not every guy's fantasy.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I understand this forum went a completely different direction than you intended. And yes, we certainly don't have all the info. But it's also important to remember it's not every guy's fantasy. I think that is pretty obvious don't you? SF
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madotara69
11 years ago
Just another post, on topic. And It may help someone looking for answers. And no one has given me feelings to be offended for what is being said, just typing thoughts that come to mind when reading the topics lists. there is all kinds of thoughts being posted and they all mean something if is said.If I saw people being judged over a post I shared, I would have preferred not to have said anything, banter, sledging,debating, dreaming, charming and caring like ladies and gentleman makes these forums. Adding some experiences and what meanings we have for them is important to be expressed, even if some may disagree. And it can be a good conversation even if it ends with agreeing to disagree.And don't for even one second think I am fragile, I am a cheeky bugger.Mado
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wingman2014
11 years ago
SEXUAL ATTACKS CAN NEVER CONDONED If the victim in this instance was a RHP member we would all be respectful and simpathetic naturally. None of the humorous comments posted would have been repeated if that were the case. I would never make fun of someone with intent to hurt. But we have to remember that while we have serious issues discussed on these forums , it is to my way of thinking , a primarily fun social network . While I understand and respect what you are saying , where do you draw the line ? We can't make poop jokes anymore just in case someone out there in the world is suffering from irritable bowel syndrome, And might be offended? No more blonde jokes in case one of them actually gets it? Again, as I said lets keep things in context .
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RHP User
11 years ago
Field!!! Too many variable's here. He woke up to find his ex, who he has decided to spend the night with, sucking his cock. He rolls away and says no. If she has stopped after he made it clear it was not what he wanted then where does that leave us. If she has then held him down and forced him to take the blow job then it is a serious sexual assault and she should do time. He would have to have been naked for her to be able to start to suck him so is there implied consent? That is one tough scenario as many of the comments here point out you do not cross that line ever but what was said before they went to bed? I think that is where the matter lies.... but surely you could get a cab or sleep on the couch.... What a mess................. leave that one to you guys, the mess and all
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RHP User
11 years ago
How did she happen to get as far as getting her mouth around his cock without him knowing.... Ex?... Hmmmm .... The ex husband obviously knew his ex wife was in his house and probably his bedroom......Maybe he prefers to be a Wanker..... each to their own....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thank you for sharing.... you are a very intelligent man and even though you have experienced the dark side of life you have shown a very balanced way of thinking and living your life. Hugs to you SF
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love your attitude.... SF
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