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Cheating
May 20 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
it's cheating both ways, not sure what women wouldn't see it this way as well
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RHP User
14 years ago
Cheating is cheating....if one member of a partnership is doing something sexually behind the other one's back, without consent and openness (regardless of gender), then quite simply it's cheating.I've personally never heard of anyone say anything different. Interesting.J
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RHP User
14 years ago
Cheating is cheating...it doesn't matter who's doing it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Some women think this way, they are the ones who love to take it hard. It definatley cheating
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RHP User
14 years ago
It is probably the mans fault in the first place for with holding sex until she does all the housework, or maybe he said "not tonight I am too tired" once too often. Doesnt he know that if he holds out she is gonna go looking? Sheesh you men, dont you know anything at all about the way a woman thinks?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Fiona, it wouldn't hurt if they put on a bit of lippy occasionally when we got home from work either . God is it so much to ask ? Lounging back in their trackies with their open box of bon-bons 3/4 empty mind you, and where's my dang dinner man?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Now that is an interseting looking curve you have happening there. That could work!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Fiona I kept looking to the right wondering what the pointing was all about. Dean you could hit some verrrry interesting lady spots
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RHP User
14 years ago
Of course, the attitude of a man is usually different when it's his partner doing the cheating.... but let's be honest here... Guys don't really care if a woman is cheating... I mean, he'll probably bang her anyway if the opportunity and circumstances are right for it.Women and men looking for a long term relationship will likely resist on the basis that there is no long term reward by investing emotions in a cheater. That doesnt mean that they won't root them though. I mean when the horn is blowing, genitals rule the roost.... unless somone is out to make a personal political protest.HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
cheat together all in the same room, all over each others whoever lol , whatever, sheesh it's sex, not love. Save the love for home when you both get all sooky
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RHP User
14 years ago
I was once told by a man that oral sex is not cheating??? Think he may have been trying to spin me a line. Oh and I have actually had the comment from my husband "not tonight dear I'm too tired lol" WTF.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think both men and women who cheat do it for a variety of reasons and who knows how they feel about it? However, I'm pretty certain that most people looking in think a cheater is a cheater is a cheater, no matter their gender.I cannot recommended highly enough a book called The Ethical Slut. Everyone who enjoys sex should read this book.
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RHP User
14 years ago
It all depends on your definition of cheating we suspect but if it is being part of a sexual relationship without the partner's knowledge or consent than it is cheating whether or not you are the male or female acting it out.But again, that is only where the act is without the knowledge and consent of the partner as that will break the crucial component of a relationship which is trust.But let us throw another spin on it, when does it become cheating?When do two people going out become a relationship?Also to throw in another tangent, does it manifest itself if the 'new' partner is unaware or aware of the 'cheating'?Asking as it is possible that some people are seeing person A but not ready to commit, so start seeing person B.Should also say that for us we are not here to judge innocence or guilt if someone is 'cheating' nor are we to judge the people involved as that is an individual choice and one only really has to see our profile to see where we sit.Shell and Gaz
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RHP User
14 years ago
Doesn't matter to me. Will not mow someone elses grass. First thing I look for on a profile is anything but married. Just personal choice.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I agree,but how about here,in this site?Many woman are married here and they are have an order of lists how and who may slide into them.How is possible,they are "aloud" but guys not..
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RHP User
14 years ago
who says the guys don't either Did someone tell you off? just because they are married doesn't mean they can't have a list of likes and dislikes. Personally I prefer unattached so I'm not biased as to who is allowed out of the married men or women. Just think you may have a slightly jaded version on this??
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'here4uplaywith'I was once told by a man that oral sex is not cheating??? Think he may have been trying to spin me a line. Oh and I have actually had the comment from my husband "not tonight dear I'm too tired lol" WTF. Tell THAT to Bill Clinton, Hillary and Monika Lewinsky. LOL.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Actually, it is cheating both ways, but I find it is usually the opposite. When a man cheats, it's ok and he's allowed to do it cause it's the man thing.... but when a woman cheats, she's classified as a "slut". I see a lot of married men on this site and other sites looking for fun on the side... believe me! So it's not just the women sweetie.
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