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Cheating persons on RHP
December 30 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
We are here to have fun. We aren't here to "catch out" cheaters and then tell their partners on them. That would make us a "snitches" and no one likes "a snitch" !!! As far as I'm concerned, we should just mind our own business !!! Amy
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inspirit
10 years ago
Mind my own business and I do. People cheat for what ever reasons - let it be.
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Cheekyarses
10 years ago
We know some ppl on Rhp that have single profiles and are married or have a profile with their partner but only one plays! That is their business and that's on them - we all live our own lives and no one knows what other ppl go through - we aren't here to judge ppl - we just want to have fun n make friends along the way x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
we just take care of our own journey and destination, not others...
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
What someone does with their secrete.... is their business.... as long as its safe.
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TallBaldSexy
10 years ago
Every individual has their own story their own reasons and their right to privacy. It's a foundation of the Australian constitution.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I get involved in too much as it is...
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RHP User
10 years ago
I went to the Club a few months ago with my lady friend, ended up meeting up with the sexiest couple and had a great 4some with them. They later went to tell us that they were married but not to each other. They have a profile. I never judge people, its none of my business
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RHP User
10 years ago
If it impacted someone very close to me, I'd handle it the way I'd hope they'd handle it if the tables were turned. I'd likely tell them. Other than someone very close to me, I'd stay out of it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Individuals on social networking sites are not covered by the Privacy Act...however if you defame someone then they could possibly sue you for defamation... Would I let someone's partner know that they were here ..no. xxFreya
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
There's plenty on here with out their partners knowledge. Cheating is not something that just happens - it's not like just slip and fall onto a vagina or penis. What ever choice they make to "cheat" just remember they gotta live with that - not you. As long as it doesn't effect me or my private life - it's no concern of mine. Revenge is not my plan or agenda - in the end they fucking with thems-selves on their own. Sometimes people cheat for all sorts of reasons - very unwell partner, had an accident and confined (say something like that) and one wants is human touch/intimacy as they missing that. Best to say nothing, cause who are we/anyone to judge???? Foxy xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
This is a ment to be an adults internet site where ppl using it are adult enough to make their own decisions on what they are looking for! There is no place on here for ppl who want to find ppl out and dob on them!.. To all the "do gooders" on here, fuck off and pay more attention to your own life's!.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
That's really not anyone's business, their choices, their life, their decisions to make....
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On_Safari
10 years ago
As for other peoples tangled webs that's their business. I wouldn't want someone meddling in my affairs, "the messenger is the one often shot". Thing to remember folks is there's always 3 sides to every story, yours, mine and somewhere in between the truth of it all. Sometimes the truth just isn't palatable (though I prefer it that way good or bad) but destroying someone else' happiness, be it real or conceived; is no one's right. Case by case scenario perhaps for "telling" but think about your motivations for doing so, the potential outcome and/or the devastation you're about to wreak in someone else' love, life, happiness. Maybe approaching the cheater for this conversation is the more direct and just approach instead of narking on them. You may get a punch in the face or shunted so you can do no harm to their "arrangements" but atleast you made them aware someone else knows. Maybe that would be enough of a deterrent....who knows? Tattling may cost you mote than you thought or were prepared for.....loose lips sink shits. Just my 2 bobs worth. ~ Indy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Be aware when things go pair shape you may get dragged into it one way or another... Some things are best left we'll alone... Just my thoughts
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RHP User
10 years ago
There will always be cheaters. I met a guy off here, we arranged to meet again and then I saw him in the city hand in hand with his girlfriend. He still texted me again, saying it was "complicated"! No more meetings occurred. I've been chested on, I don't respect cheaters, but it's their business and their mess to deal with if they get found out.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've been cheated on, not chested! Although......... ; )
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On_Safari
10 years ago
I've been both, I've also been found out, dobbed on and outed myself so I think I have a very well-rounded and balanced view based on firsthand experience. I try to be philosophical and fair in most instances. (Sigh)
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Seachange
10 years ago
it's their business. I'm an adult and will exercise that right to let what comes into my life and what stays out. Not the moral police so will not shove it down anybody's throat. Met a lovely guy who said he was single a while back, we had a great time. Then I find out from a mutual friend that he is married with a toddler and a baby. he works locally and it is a small suburb where everyone knows everybody. So no more meets but not likely to break the family up. His life to lead, my choice to leave. Simples.
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On_Safari
10 years ago
A home wrecking whore or slut. I've also NEVER slept with a friends partner or had designs on their interests. It was done to me a few times, needless to say that kind of betrayal.....from someone who says they love and care for/about you.....kills. How do I justify my position as far as wives, girlfriends are concerned? I don't know them, most likely will never know. Can't know, can't care. What I do care about is not becoming someone else' scapegoat. I guess that's why I've no desire to be any married men's Mistress again.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Wouldn't go out of my way to turn them in but if asked wouldnt lie for them either. But definitely wouldn't knowingly sleep with a married partner knowing they were cheating. I just wouldn't want to be part of the betrayal of someone, regardless of if I know them or not. Each to their own. I'm not judging, just my point of view.
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RHP User
10 years ago
you are on RHP the likelihood to recognize someone on here is possible. I for myself stay out of judging. How do I know why he /she is on here, its not my business, even I would know their partner. The same as they should stay out of mine. We all no angels and being here already is outside the "Norm" so to speak, this means for me, I live my life and don't care what another does on here.
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RHP User
10 years ago
What people do on here is their business.. Sounds very much like you want to cut out the competition and keep it all to yourself ? Bad call...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Take them to the town square and stone them...Who are we to impose our morality on this issue on other. What if you discover some one you know is gay...should you tell the world...What if they say they like cross dressing. We are not Puritans so lets not behave like Zealots. LC
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_me'Sounds very much like you want to cut out the competition and keep it all to yourself ? Bad call... The only person that said she may say something was B_L, and only if the person cheated on was very close to her. So who exactly is the thumbs down for? (Don't say me, that would be too predictable :-p)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Can you ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
That was a fair question, your comment did not make a lot of sense.
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Seachange
10 years ago
To be fair, meander is correct that there was no such reference to tge OP trying to make headways or take advantage of other people or cutting down tge competition as you refered to. I did not read it that way and the OP did not imply he was going to turn in anybody to his advantage. So I maybe I misread his OP or you have. HaveI missed something? Most of the responses were within the context and confines of his question. Why detour from that and make it an attack on his integrity? Not sure how you came to that conclusion. Big jump from a hypothetical to Machiavellian. So let's stick to the topic and give respect to the Op. My opinion. Cheers.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Depends on what you want to make of it... Not every comment is going to suit exactly what you think it should be. Hanging on my every word doesn't help .. Time to move on ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have been pleasantly surprised by the absolute consensus that the right thing to do is nothing..unless maybe it's someone close...but even then a difficult call..maybe as someone said iit would be best to let the person themselves know that you know xxFreya
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Seachange
10 years ago
Yes my dear. Time to move on.. :-p (skipping away)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes.. Your'e right.. After going back and re reading this about 5 times.. I too wondered where the hell I got that from. I got it wrong... Sorry OP, Sorry Lily and sorry , mm Mmmm Me Mea. Merh Mean Meander.. Thank you ballboys , thank you linesman...
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RHP User
10 years ago
That's appreciated.
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_me' Yes.. Your'e right.. After going back and re reading this about 5 times.. I too wondered where the hell I got that from. I got it wrong... Sorry OP, Sorry Lily and sorry , mm Mmmm Me Mea. Merh Mean Meander.. Thank you ballboys , thank you linesman... What's that saying about 'Drinking and posting'? Hehe.... P.s. You forgot to thank the academy.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
I caught my now ex on date sites including RHP. He's still on here even though he has since started a new relationship. Men who cheat are lowlifes IMO.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I appreciate that you appreciate means were both on the same page for a change.. how about that ? even if it was at my expense.. walks away with tail firmly between his legs ...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quote : What's that saying about 'Drinking and posting'? Hehe.... You know something ' you may be right. hehe.. But no excuses.. I got it wrong and I put my hand up to say so..... Oh ' The academy ... OK ' here goes.. and I wish to thank the academy for recognition of my .... big... heart opps' wrong academy... hehe
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