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December 30 2018

It always surprises me when I hear how guys have a phobia about cum, even their own. It’s strange how we like or even expect a woman to give us blowjobs yet many guys then refuse to kiss afterwards It’s good enough for someone else to have our cum in their mouth but not us? I understand not everyone is into everything, for various reasons, but I think many of us are limiting our enjoyment of sex and intimacy through misguided ideas of what is and isn’t SUPPOSED to happen. I’ve found that as I get older I’m becoming more open minded and the more open minded I’m becoming the more I’m enjoying sex and in return that makes sex more pleasurable and exciting for my partner too. We should all be open to trying things and if it feels good then do it. If it doesn’t feel right for anyone involved then just try something else Am I the only one that thinks like this? - Posted from rhpmobile

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Mischeviouslad

6 years ago

Do you..... think you’re the only one who thinks like this?!

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MsSuperFoxy

6 years ago

Not "everyone" has a mind and thought process as yourself. Not "everyone" should all be open to trying things nor should they be told "if it feels good then do it". People want choices and want to try and do things when they are ready, not when others want them too. Anyone who does that to me, I'm out! *blows a cum raspberry* 😝 Ms Foxy

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RHP User

6 years ago

now that would be a fun thing to watch.. A CUM raspberry... :)

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OkeyDoke45

6 years ago

Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' *blows a cum raspberry* 😝 That would be messy. So long as none of it ends up in my hair - a nightmare to get out.

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OkeyDoke45

6 years ago

Some blokes may dig the taste of their own cum lingering in their partners mouth, but I'm sure there are plenty that don't. I get what you're saying about people not exploring because it (whatever it is) is considered taboo for that gender or in general. They may want to do things but are too scared to. I think this is a diminishing problem these days though. I personally think that internet porn freed people to explore their fantasies. In the days of VHS (which seems a glacial age ago) you either had to mail order gay porn (for instance) or do those furtive runs to your local adult shop and hope nobody saw you buying "Thumpin' Members Volume XXIV''. Now of course, click away in the comfort and privacy of your own home and watch whatever tickles your fancy. My point being, I think people in general are more inclined to try different things these days than, say, 20 years ago. Still doesn't change the fact that if the thought of sucking a dick makes you recoil, no amount of people coaxing you to just relax and let it happen is going to change your mind. I was a member of another website for bisexual people (mainly men of course) and there are so many blokes out there that think every man is bi (at least) and all they need is a cock thrust in their face to coax it out of them. I would imagine a good number of those blokes will cop a fist in the face should they try it.

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RHP User

6 years ago

I agree we have ‘cum’ a long way in the last 20 years or so. Just to be clear I wasn’t advocating coaxing or pressuring anyone. Maybe that’s how it reads but it wasn’t my intention. I was trying to point out that sometimes with an open mind things sometimes happen and if you enjoy it then that’s ok. There’s nothing wrong with enjoying it if it feels good.

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RHP User

6 years ago

A bunch of us were sitting round drinking and talking shit when this woman came in and announced she needed someone to fuck her "right now" most of us blinked and thought about what we'd just heard. One bloke didn't blink or think he jumped up and said yeah it's on... Shortly after that he came back with a smile on his dial and she disappeared. Later it transpired that she had a client outside waiting for her and that he wanted to eat her out after she'd been fucked by someone else.It may have happened in the 80's but it didn't stay there...

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mango69er

6 years ago

It feels good having a wiz after you been busting to go. But im not going to drink it

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MsSuperFoxy

6 years ago

*blows one each to Cavey and Okey* 😋😃 Ms Foxy

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MsSuperFoxy

6 years ago

My lover is BI. He doesn't mind the taste of another man's cum. He has stated to me, he has met a few BI men who go ewww at the thought of tasting another man's cum. But yet they are willing to suck cock and let a woman cum all over their face. I find that a little odd.

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RHP User

6 years ago

The next part to this discussion should then cover kissing after rimming. 😆

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countrytouch82

6 years ago

It doesn't have to be both ways. The female of a couple might like anal, but that doesn't mean the man then has to like it and/or try it. Likewise, the man might actually like it, and they might do things like pegging, but that doesn't mean the woman has to like or try recieving. Liking (your own) cum, for what they might say as a "cleanup" activity, or general play with a partner or on your own during masturbation, does not have to have any reflection on your sexuality or interest in another's. Nor is liking someone else's that you come into contact with indirectly so to speak. I'm also sure that there are 100% gay men out there, that still do not find receiving anal sex enjoyable. This can be in the mind, but also our bodies are not built the same and some may just not get anything positive out of it, even if they have tried. A man might have an interest in performing fellatio on a shemale, because he relates to her as being a woman, yet have no interest in even kissing a man. If you are with someone, it doesn't mean you have to enjoy every activity you can do together. Just as many women do not like receiving a man's cum in certain ways, a gay/bi man also does not have to. There are so many combinations of likes and dislikes, interests and lack of interests/curiosity among all people, very few will fall into what might be describes as an ideal or "nuclear" straight/bi/gay man/woman/etc. The main point I think the OP has, is that you set your own limits on where you want to be in your sexuality and what you wish to try and/or enjoy, but not to worry about what society or other people think (not that other people will be aware about your private life). Some people may have friends that engage in truth or dare, or "have you ever" type conversations. Sometimes, we might not want to try an activity, that goes past an acceptable "normal", simply because we do not want to have to either admit it or lie about it, if the topic or question ever comes up. Some do not care at all of course. For others it's the worry about having to keep things you do an individual a complete secret that has an impact on whether you wish to try, just like many couples have to keep their activities as a couple a secret.

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RHP User

6 years ago

Youll find quite a few people on these forums are quite narrow minded and get personal if they dont like what you have to say; as youve probably already noticed. Everyone is an individual and has their own tastes (no pun intended) as thats what makes us unique. Some like the taste of cum, some dont; and not everyones tastes the same either. I personally dont enjoy it that much, so the oldest trick in the book if you want a guy to cum in yr mouth and not taste it is to simply deepthroat him as he's cumming and you dont taste it. If any guy says they have never tasted their own cum at least once they're either lying or very suppressed.

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