M61
Common Courtesy not so Common
April 20 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
Can't reply to all the messages and flirts I receive in a day.. It's not because I'm rude it's because I don't have time.. I normally just check main pic of the profile and move on if not satisfied.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just make sure to read the ladies profile to ensure you are what THEY are looking for, because it could simply be a matter of , "He hasn't read my profile because I clearly say..blah blah" which can be a little annoying for her??? Remember she is here for her wants as well Could save some heartache and get you the response you're wanting. Best of luck with it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'butterflybabe90'Can't reply to all the messages and flirts I receive in a day.. It's not because I'm rude it's because I don't have time.. I normally just check main pic of the profile and move on if not satisfied. Thats cos you're a sexy lil thang and can afford to be fussy, as you should.
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RHP User
14 years ago
First off...I wouldn't loose much sleep over the ones that don't reply or even the ones that reply with a one liner and/or add you to the "friends" list. I cull mine out regularly after letting it get up past about 40 odd at one time. | To that one that just laughed and said "how many times have I added you back" my humble thanks. | Quoting 'dontgothere' Just make sure to read the ladies profile to ensure you are what THEY are looking for, because it could simply be a matter of , "He hasn't read my profile because I clearly say..blah blah" which can be a little annoying for her??? Remember she is here for her wants as well | And DGT summed it up...this site is not exactly like walking into a nightclub where the playing field is level and the number of players on each time is even close to matching up. Forget things like your "presense" that mght come through in either talking with someone or not totally relying on your pics...or theirs. Then stick to what YOU are looking for too...simply because it says female and perhaps "in the zone" does not necessarily mean that I would be that interested if I saw them walking down Collins Street on a lazy Saturday night. It's still a two way street...even though our side is six lane highway and theirs is one lane with a sign post saying "My Way or the Hiway". This place wouldn't be much fun if you lacked self confidence or actually had a rejection complex in the first place. | Just roll with it and enjoy the adventure of it all. Some do, some will, some can and some won't so just relax and always remember that you ask the lady to dance... | ...that's tapping her toe along with the music. | | And some like teasing really nice guys and making them cry all the time.
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RHP User
14 years ago
To be honest I have done the "thanks but no thanks" and I still try and do that as often as i can but sometimes even with that they still send messages asking me why I'm not interested and blah blah blah....so alot of the time now I just don't respond and that seems to get the message through easier...though i don't do that all the time as I know its pretty rude...but yeah also to be honest (without trying to sound conceited) alot of guys on here have messaged me when they are attempting to punch WAAAYYYYYYY above their weight....any guy that doens't have the balls to come up to me at a bar shouldn't try it on on here just because its writing instead of talking...hope that makes some sort or sense good luck :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'butterflybabe90'Can't reply to all the messages and flirts I receive in a day.. It's not because I'm rude it's because I don't have time.. I normally just check main pic of the profile and move on if not satisfied. Sweetie...its simple...set up a quick template reply ...tick the little box next to the message in your in box...template reply...and done! Only takes a couple of seconds...how hard is that?? . Flirts - use the same process but choose group reply and they get taken care of in one hit... . Not having the time to say thanks but no thanks is no excuse...thats just laziness . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'dontgothere' Quoting 'butterflybabe90'Can't reply to all the messages and flirts I receive in a day.. It's not because I'm rude it's because I don't have time.. I normally just check main pic of the profile and move on if not satisfied. Thats cos you're a sexy lil thang and can afford to be fussy, as you should. Yeah but she makes the guys assume that women are arrogant and never reply. If you don't have time to write a simple reply then maybe you don't have time to be on here.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I went and had a shower before, not gone for more than an hour all up, and came back to 47 views since last log on, 9 flirts , and a few msgs. I would reply to those msgs EXCEPT I have already sent back a sorry dont see the planets blah blah flirt previously so see no need to bother with the msg. They clearly dont read the actual flirt once they see the little red heart or they just dont care......anyway nuff said. If I bothered to make it any clearer to them Id have shares in windex and wouldnt have time to ramble on in the beloved forums
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'dontgothere'I went and had a shower before, not gone for more than an hour all up, and came back to 47 views since last log on, 9 flirts , and a few msgs. Wow! I am skipping over the part where you mention getting in the shower (wandering minds can be a dangerous thing ;) and getting right to the number of page views, flirts and messages. I am usually happy to see the number 47 next to my monthly total for page views. I had one page view all day today, and as you might guess...no flirts and no messages. I have to admit that seeing those kind of numbers (yours, not mine) makes me more understanding of why sometimes people don't respond. I hope that makes sense. I mean, I understand the need for common courtesy but I am gaining an apprecaition for why some people might get tired of being so polite....like all things, there is far more grey than there is black and white.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' Quoting 'butterflybabe90'Can't reply to all the messages and flirts I receive in a day.. It's not because I'm rude it's because I don't have time.. I normally just check main pic of the profile and move on if not satisfied. Sweetie...its simple...set up a quick template reply ...tick the little box next to the message in your in box...template reply...and done! Only takes a couple of seconds...how hard is that?? . Flirts - use the same process but choose group reply and they get taken care of in one hit... . Not having the time to say thanks but no thanks is no excuse...thats just laziness . Kisses Focusbut isnt replying with a template just as bad as no reply?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' Quoting 'butterflybabe90'Can't reply to all the messages and flirts I receive in a day.. It's not because I'm rude it's because I don't have time.. I normally just check main pic of the profile and move on if not satisfied. Sweetie...its simple...set up a quick template reply ...tick the little box next to the message in your in box...template reply...and done! Only takes a couple of seconds...how hard is that?? . Flirts - use the same process but choose group reply and they get taken care of in one hit... . Not having the time to say thanks but no thanks is no excuse...thats just laziness . Kisses Focus They are like 'out of office' work email info messages... I don't think it is personal enough, i don't like getting them, i prefer nothing to a template reply... But that is just me! OP people get busy and lose touch with RHP at times too and when they get back into it they sorta just start from scratch, some peeps are on multiple sites and have full lives, so it wouldn't be a priority for many. Don't take it to heart! I want to reply to lots, i start and then i get interrupted, and come back another day and it is like oh crap, have to start again... might just check the forums for a minute first... (5 hours later! and no more real time posting booo!)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Sidd72' Quoting 'dontgothere'I went and had a shower before, not gone for more than an hour all up, and came back to 47 views since last log on, 9 flirts , and a few msgs. Wow! I am skipping over the part where you mention getting in the shower (wandering minds can be a dangerous thing ;) and getting right to the number of page views, flirts and messages. I am usually happy to see the number 47 next to my monthly total for page views. I had one page view all day today, and as you might guess...no flirts and no messages. I have to admit that seeing those kind of numbers (yours, not mine) makes me more understanding of why sometimes people don't respond. I hope that makes sense. I mean, I understand the need for common courtesy but I am gaining an apprecaition for why some people might get tired of being so polite....like all things, there is far more grey than there is black and white. Let me make you feel better now though, cos there were only 20 views overnight LOL. But it's not bragging rights at all, it's just what some girls are dealing with each time they log in. We all know about the 'outnumbering' on here and until some guys see the actual figures , the 'don't have the time to reply' really does sound like an excuse. God the numbers even blow me away 3599 views this month, and without a lie that is around my average each month......I can't tell you how many flirts cos the ones I reply to disappear, and msgs geezus........147 for the month of April alone . And thats with me saying on my profile that Im not taking any new playmates. Sure some of them are back and forths, but they're still msgs that need replying to. So for the girls that say it gets a bit much at times, maybe we can just take their word for it a little bit .
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'butterflybabe90' Quoting 'focusliason' but isnt replying with a template just as bad as no reply? No, because at least you have let them know instead of leaving them wondering...and again it is only polite afterall...my profile clearly states don't bother contacting me as I am not looking for anyone new right now but I still send a response....and when I have my real location (surprise surprise I dont really live in Windorah) I get a huge number of messages and flirts still so a template reply is what I use....leaving the message sender in no uncertainty about whether I am interested or not and not just thinking about what to reply to them with. Its that not knowing that gets them. . Quoting 'dontgothere'I went and had a shower before, not gone for more than an hour all up, and came back to 47 views since last log on, 9 flirts , and a few msgs. I would reply to those msgs EXCEPT I have already sent back a sorry dont see the planets blah blah flirt previously so see no need to bother with the msg. They clearly dont read the actual flirt once they see the little red heart or they just dont care......anyway nuff said. If I bothered to make it any clearer to them Id have shares in windex and wouldnt have time to ramble on in the beloved forums Set up a template that says I have already rejected you can I make it clearer for you??? While not a nice nor polite response its a response none of the less and besides sometimes its fun to mess with the ones who clearly cant read.... . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'dontgothere' Let me make you feel better now though, cos there were only 20 views overnight LOL. I am guilty of one of your page views this morning, dgt. But it was because I had to check out your bunny pics Hell, I might even go back for another peek...they are hot! I did resist sending a flirt, just to be wiseass. That has got to count for something. As for 20 overnight, people do need to sleep! :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
And here's one perfect little reason why some don't deserve the keys they're typed on..... fkn ell This just in.......... im a tall guy seeking some fun can provide pics via emailid love to jerk off for you . . total disregard of anything written in my profile ,which states I DONT want to watch you jerk off, jerk off!!!! . Oh but I was very polite and replied to him
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RHP User
14 years ago
While I only just officially joined RHP. I have been member of some other dating sites. one of the things that really found rude, and it has already happen with me with one user here already. Instead of no thank you email. they just block you, without any remorse in doing so. when that happens, I go back on the logs, and see if I've said anything offensive. And so far as I'm am aware. those users block for no reason. and no reply of disinterest. which can make a male very insecure. specially if he doesn't know why. and lot of time I'm sending out messages for a friendly hello.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'animal9997'While I only just officially joined RHP. I have been member of some other dating sites. one of the things that really found rude, and it has already happen with me with one user here already. Instead of no thank you email. they just block you, without any remorse in doing so. when that happens, I go back on the logs, and see if I've said anything offensive. And so far as I'm am aware. those users block for no reason. and no reply of disinterest. which can make a male very insecure. specially if he doesn't know why. and lot of time I'm sending out messages for a friendly hello. In my first few weeks, i got two separate guyz abusing me coz i hadn't responded to their ever so massive effort 2 liner messages WITHIN 24 hours, I swear, it wasn't even like a day and a half, JUST 24 hours! They were jaded guys and i just happened to be the person that coped it? Then around the same time a freak's first message to me, was offering me money to spend a night with him!! i found that far more offensive!! i reported him! I have been on here 6 months and only recently did my first block another jaded male, but this one thought abusing me publicly in the forums was the way to go, which made it a girls vs guys fight...nice.... I'd never ever communicated with him!! The insecurity quickly turns to anger Animal, you'll be growling at the bitches b4 u know it lol! The cyber world is i think more of an instant gratification mechanism for a lot of peeps, so they like the power of like: yes, maybe, no and to then i guess in this anonymous world wanna exert the POWER they have and block etc? If i were you i'd be glad that these types of girls blocked you, because fancy arranging to meet them, they'd be fickle, unreliable, selfish, not really worth your time, unless u enjoy being treated badly etc etc It may take a bit of time, but you learn to sift thru the types of peeps here and u get a better feel for who is suitable 4u and who is NOT! I am a sensitive person if someone say abused me in real life (although i'd get angry at the time, but i'd feel pretty bad/hurt later), but in this cyber world i take everything with a huge pinch (handful) of salt! Expect little and you won't get as disappointed lol! That is my 6 month spin on it anyway? I find abuse slightly funny now hehe except that when i abuse back they take away my instant posting rights boooo hooooo!!! P.S. there are some fakers and scammers thou, u need to weary and some people just like to be a pain in the ass i think?! Some people maybe are just a little too weird and i miss their humour or something! who knows...? Best of luck
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RHP User
14 years ago
Unfortunately animal, some idjitts like above spoil it for the rest of you.
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RHP User
14 years ago
in my post I was talking about, not Boobi's, blows extra big kiss to Boobi mwah
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Sidd72' Quoting 'dontgothere' Let me make you feel better now though, cos there were only 20 views overnight LOL. I am guilty of one of your page views this morning, dgt. But it was because I had to check out your bunny pics Hell, I might even go back for another peek...they are hot! I did resist sending a flirt, just to be wiseass. That has got to count for something. As for 20 overnight, people do need to sleep! :)yes they do cheeky bugger
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'dontgothere' And here's one perfect little reason why some don't deserve the keys they're typed on..... fkn ell This just in.......... im a tall guy seeking some fun can provide pics via emailid love to jerk off for you . . total disregard of anything written in my profile ,which states I DONT want to watch you jerk off, jerk off!!!! . Oh but I was very polite and replied to himI agree with Dontgohere. I hoped the punishment fitted the crime.I also apologize if I came across a little jaded. And yes I also copped those fakers and scammers. Unfortunately I copped those over four different dating sites. 500 plus so far. most of those try to get you join another web site after chatting to them for half an hour. Unfortunately I also copped the ones (6 so far), that are interested something long term. after two weeks they ask for money usually anywhere between $500 and $2000. and you learn to say "Next".
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'dontgothere' And here's one perfect little reason why some don't deserve the keys they're typed on..... fkn ell This just in.......... im a tall guy seeking some fun can provide pics via emailid love to jerk off for you . . total disregard of anything written in my profile ,which states I DONT want to watch you jerk off, jerk off!!!! . Oh but I was very polite and replied to himI agree with Dontgohere. I hoped the punishment fitted the crime.I also apologize if I came across a little jaded. And yes I also copped those fakers and scammers. Unfortunately I copped those over four different dating sites. 500 plus so far. most of those try to get you join another web site after chatting to them for half an hour. Unfortunately I also copped the ones (6 so far), that are interested something long term. after two weeks they ask for money usually anywhere between $500 and $2000. and you learn to say "Next".
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'shyandsincere' Have just read some of the comments posted and feel a little saddened and perplexed. I thought this site/forum would be an outlet for fun and light hearted frolics. Surely it is not a place for personal attacks or making judgements on fellow RHP members. Have fun and enjoy this site for what it is xxx haha your funny...keep reading hun, it will turn you heart hard my advise is to get out while you can...dont hang round the forums, a lot of the times it just is one insult after another roxxy
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RHP User
14 years ago
About passionn81 - sounds like this guy has issues!!!! If someone doesn't reply to your message - just move on and get over it! It's not like you bought them flowers and took them out for dinner!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'shyandsincere' Have just read some of the comments posted and feel a little saddened and perplexed. I thought this site/forum would be an outlet for fun and light hearted frolics. Surely it is not a place for personal attacks or making judgements on fellow RHP members. Have fun and enjoy this site for what it is xxx ...okay but only on the butt lol Come on guys it used to be fun, sometimes serious, but never hurtful. Just kiss & make up already so we can enjoy the frolicing again. tess
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RHP User
14 years ago
Guys...one of the reasons you're not getting as many profile views is a lot of chicks have their profiles set to "dont let anyone see that ive viewed their profile"And as for being blocked after sending a message....perhaps she has locked her entire profile??Dont assume its just about you.And really...if you dont get a reply...is your life gonna end??are you gonna curl up and die??No!!!!move on...shout NEXT!!and stop obsessing about the ones that ignore/reject/block youand look for the women who actually WANT to meet you!JMO...BJxxx
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MissSarahCurious
14 years ago
Honestly, just remember it's got absolutely nothing to do with your worth as a person, you're approaching strangers who are here to service their own needs, not yours. You'll never know which of the dozen reasons for non-response caused them to ignore your message so move on. So forget the ones that don't reply and focus your attentions on the positives, the replies you DO get are the only ones worth your thoughts.If you look at it as a self-serving community, nobody here owes anyone ANYTHING, not even 10 seconds of their time to courteously acknowledge that you hit on them. And if they do reply, you still need to serve your own needs first, don't take any bone that's thrown at you, if it doesn't look tasty it's not going to be enjoyable.xx Sarah
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RHP User
14 years ago
As soon as you say no thanks or make a excuse, you have rejected that person and that may hurt things in the future. By not responding, you can blame lots of things in the future, didnt recieve, accidentailly deleted etc etc. Once you accept the rules, you just move on to another profile without a 2nd thought. Cheers
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RHP User
14 years ago
change your profile to looking for women and couples only. stops the bullshit straight away, because you won`t show up in the `show me everything with a vagina and a heart beat within 5000km of my penis` search... altho I still get the odd guy who obviously can`t read, i`ve gone from 20-30 flirts in one day to maybe 5 a week. I love the guys who want to know why i`m rejecting them. Block. Best msg ever tho? and I think this was from a couple a good 3 hours drive away - subject: hornymsg text? `now`If I had a magic time&space transporter whatsitsface thingo machine, i`d be visiting hot ppl interstate, not using it to visit somoene who can barely type two words...
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tyandeb
14 years ago
Didn't justlean start a similar thread a while back, got all hoity toity at the replies and now she's spat the dummy and gone. Careful people, others sometimes don't like what you write and get all ansi.
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xFunlovingx
14 years ago
Quoting 'MistressT' Quoting 'dontgothere' Quoting 'butterflybabe90'Can't reply to all the messages and flirts I receive in a day.. It's not because I'm rude it's because I don't have time.. I normally just check main pic of the profile and move on if not satisfied. Thats cos you're a sexy lil thang and can afford to be fussy, as you should. Yeah but she makes the guys assume that women are arrogant and never reply. If you don't have time to write a simple reply then maybe you don't have time to be on here. I agree with MistressT here. You say you don't have the time...yet you have the time to add 260 friends to your list? That takes up more time as it does to send a template back to the messages and flirts! So glad I am not a male on here! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
See the thing is, a lot of these women get swarmed with messages, and just like you would they are going to respond to the ones they find most appealing. It is no different to any other social situation, such as at a bar. You can't strike up a conversation and expect the other person to always devote attention to you, particularly when there are other men in the same situation eager for the same woman. The way I see it is if you are not having any success with your reply rate then there is something that you need to change. Whether it is restructuring your profile, or changing your target audience. A simple guide, I occasionally is if you can't see yourself talking and interacting with the recipient in real life then you can hardly be upset if it doesn't work online. Can you see yourself going over and talking to that 20 year old bombshell in real life? There is no problem with taking a chance, we all do it and thats what makes laugh great; but understand the attraction may not be mutual.But yes I do agree, in a perfect world everyone would reply, even if it was just a no. But the fact of the matter is that we do not live in a perfect world and these things happen. I'd also like to apologise if this seems directed at you in particular, or if i am being condescending & harsh. I wrote this referring to all members that have this problem. Good luck and I hope your luck improves.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'rickytan2000'See the thing is, a lot of these women get swarmed with messages, and just like you would they are going to respond to the ones they find most appealing. It is no different to any other social situation, such as at a bar. You can't strike up a conversation and expect the other person to always devote attention to you, particularly when there are other men in the same situation eager for the same woman. The way I see it is if you are not having any success with your reply rate then there is something that you need to change. Whether it is restructuring your profile, or changing your target audience. A simple guide, I occasionally is if you can't see yourself talking and interacting with the recipient in real life then you can hardly be upset if it doesn't work online. Can you see yourself going over and talking to that 20 year old bombshell in real life? There is no problem with taking a chance, we all do it and thats what makes laugh great; but understand the attraction may not be mutual. But yes I do agree, in a perfect world everyone would reply, even if it was just a no. But the fact of the matter is that we do not live in a perfect world and these things happen. I'd also like to apologise if this seems directed at you in particular, or if i am being condescending & harsh. I wrote this referring to all members that have this problem. Good luck and I hope your luck improves. A great healthy response from someone who obviously takes the time to look through someone elses eyes. Good on you Rickytan
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RHP User
14 years ago
I also think it is common courtesy to be honest about your age. Passionn81 used to be on another dating site and he was 56! Emmm - don't know about you but I think it is courteous at least to be upfront about your age! And this guy is looking for dates in the 25-45 age group. I could state the obvious about this guy but will be nice
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RHP User
14 years ago
Wow! This post is proving to be far more interesting than I could ever have imagined. A number of members who for what ever reason didn't bother to reply to my messages have found the time to ad a comment to my post and theres even a pot come on here to try and call the kettle black.
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RHP User
14 years ago
When I first joined this site over 5 years ago I had literally hundreds of messages, and I'm no looker. I will not do a template reply, guys is this not MORE insulting than the 'thanks but no thanks'? On that, besides the fact it would still take me all day (no longer hundreds, but I am not spending all day on this site, seriously), it doesn't work. I've been contacted back with the 'why, just give me a chance' because my nice-put-down reply has given them an in. I have been downright abused, to which I could only say - look, this site is like people shopping for each other. If you can't handle that it's just that shallow (on the surface, obviously deeper things develop) or your ego is shattered by the way it works, take yourself off the supermarket shelf. Perhaps the men have more invested in this? I don't know. Also, someone said it before. Read my damn profile before contacting me! Why should I spend time being polite to you if you clearly haven't done that??? I have some conditions in big capital letters on my profile which some people so bluntly ignore that it's offensive. I also won't reply if you Rite like dis n tink u R gr8 (ugh) or if your name is stupid or your profile doesn't tell me anything or if what YOU want doesn't match me (yes, see, I read your profiles!) and I definitely don't answer if you don't have a picture! ARGH! You are the product, how the hell do I know what I'm getting into without a pic? I even get the 'damn you're hot, what do you think of me?' flirts from people without pics! With that kind of stuff, can you blame us for not answering every single message? And for the ones I do answer, I have my fair share of idiots, rudeness and inconvenience. So I don't think it's fair to blame us for not sending consolation notes to every single person who doesn't make the screening process. Harden up guys.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well I try to answer every single wink or message I get. I find it is common courtesy. However, the one thing that I find is that if I tell someone they are too young for me, or too far, or just not my type, instead of just leaving it there, they write back to me and ask me why, and try to explain all the reasons why they are for me. That is a put off, and that might be one reason women don't answer back. I mean if I say I am not interested, the last thing I really want is another message asking me to explain it all to them. I will answer the first time, but I don't like to be harassed and bothered, so if a guy messages me back again with some kind of reply like well, I like older women, or hey I can travel, etc... and won't take no for an answer, then I will not bother to answer him back the 2nd time. So that might be one reason women don't answer back, because men just won't take the first no for an answer.
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RHP User
14 years ago
(whether it be through a template or well thought out reponse) and they still contact you THEN I say you can ignore...it is they who are then not showing any commmon courtesy by respecting your wishes. my block list is growing Recently I have had a couple who fall into this catergory or who felt the need to call me rather offensive (to some) names...ok I will admit my template response for messages at the moment isnt very nice (actually it is down right rude) but if someone sends me a message that is blatantly asking for a meeting etc and not just offering a compliment (I still get a few of those) then they are asking for it - I do warn in my profile that you wont like my response. I also do say I'm a bitch....lol My current profile has shown to me many respect my wishes and do actually read but the odd few dont and its them that I enjoy messing with and even in one case have traded some lovely insults with - he was fun....lol... and creative too Kisses Focus
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uneventful
14 years ago
Politeness has definately gone out the window .. here is an example of a message I received this morning .. because I declined someones demand to meet ffor sex .. BECAUSE he decided that he was the only one who could possibly make me happy and satisfied sexually .. and for me to move in with him .. after only 10 hrs acquantience .. something i declined to do .. "its not. you are here ripping into me for asking a simple question which you couldve easily said non of your business or dont ask or ignore me completly .instead you make an issue of it. you are right .i made a mistake chatting to an old rinkly woman old enough to be my grandma. fuck off ugly bitch . you lost big time .i mustve gone made thinking that i would fuck a witch like you." this person is 36 yo according to their profile but possibly 19yo bassed on their conception and attitude .. AND guys wonder why women are so reserved and cautious .. go figure ... PS .. in 6 months here .. HE is the only person in my blocked list ..
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xFunlovingx
14 years ago
Quoting 'celebree' Politeness has definately gone out the window .. here is an example of a message I received this morning .. because I declined someones demand to meet ffor sex .. BECAUSE he decided that he was the only one who could possibly make me happy and satisfied sexually .. and for me to move in with him .. after only 10 hrs acquantience .. something i declined to do .. "its not. you are here ripping into me for asking a simple question which you couldve easily said non of your business or dont ask or ignore me completly .instead you make an issue of it. you are right .i made a mistake chatting to an old rinkly woman old enough to be my grandma. fuck off ugly bitch . you lost big time .i mustve gone made thinking that i would fuck a witch like you." this person is 36 yo according to their profile but possibly 19yo bassed on their conception and attitude .. AND guys wonder why women are so reserved and cautious .. go figure ... PS .. in 6 months here .. HE is the only person in my blocked list .. That is just one side of the story....obviously he wasn't happy with something you wrote! He even has it in his message that you were ripping into him for a question he asked! So, are men supposed to take our shit but not have the right to give shit right back? < Sigh, why do women try to make out they are innocent so many times? xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Funloving, after reading his wanting her to move in with him after a 10 hr relationship lol Id say his perception of normal and acceptable is totally fucked up hence his version of being ripped into may be a little off to the side, such as her just saying 'no' And if he wants to be so nasty in calling names afterwards, it begs the question, why was he so gung ho to move in with his Nan in the first place. He is just one of those men who handles rejection really badly, and doesn't sound at all stable. Phewww !!! that was a near miss Celebree
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14 years ago
Some guys just dont get the message, if we like what we see, we will contact you.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I find it rude if you get no response at all and no mention in the profile that you might not get a response. To the people here that have responded even with a short 'thankyou, we are working through our responses' or 'thanks but youre not what we are looking for' etc. i thank you for your politeness. Thats all i ask for. There are a lot on here that i can see that i don't think are real profiles. A template response of something is better than nothing. I have had flirts saying they are interested and when you reply there is nothing back. It does get annoying especially when their profile says things like 'i want it' or come on boys, i'm here'. i read it, it sounds good, i seem to fit everything and no response at all. Oh well, what can you do?
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