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Communication Cock Ups

March 06 2017

Earlier this morning I was exchanging texts with a work colleague... male, much younger than me and very much married. Conversation was partly work-related and partly general chit chat. In the middle of this conversation, I get a text from an FWB starting to set the mood for catching up next weekend. He asks me what I'm wearing, and I tell him I'm not wearing anything because I'm about to get in the shower. I also send an accompanying nude photo. 10 seconds later, I get a text from work buddy that just said "Nice!". Immediately broke into a cold sweat and started panicking that I'd sent the nude pic to the wrong person. Fortunately I hadn't, but I'm still freaked out at the close call lol. It made me wonder if anyone else has done something similar... sent a text/kik/message/e-mail to the wrong person by mistake. Tell me your horror stories, the fall out and how you recovered from it 🙂

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    yeah thats why i only use kik for those kinds of messages because the only people on my kik are those who wouldnt mind if they got the wrong message lol. I once sent a text to my ex complaining about my mum and it went to her instead. I also sent my bestie a nude but managed to send her a zillion messages telling her to delete it before opening on other platforms which she thankfully read first so she never saw it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    No more texting without my glasses The first one was flattered and a bit deflated when I said whoops sorry. lol The second time (different boss) thought it was hilarious but I was panicking. He had a real scary wife and I would have been dead if she saw the text. But he was really cool about it. Now I try to keep that sort of thing to kik. And wear my glasses when texting. x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I was having sext with a lover when the ex texted, yep, you guessed it, the ex copped a filthy one. Must say she was pretty good about it ! 😇 I think she said " I'm pretty sure that wasn't meant for me " Oops. 🙊

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    ...I sent a text that said ''You've totally ruined my life you rotten bitch''. Followed by... 'Opps sorry, what I meant was I'll be home at 5:00.'' *shrugs* stuff happens. I blamed it on the auto-text complete and spell checker...go figure, she didn't believe me?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Can't think why she didn't believe you lol. Too perfect an autocorrect perhaps?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Similar thing happened to me, except I was on the receiving end of the text. Sent the same response to my ex i.e. I don't think this was meant for me. Turns out he did mean to send it me... talk about an awkward conversation 😏

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    8 years ago

    I only use kik for sending sexy stuff, whether it be messages or pics. Mind you....I so rarely send naked pics they don't even flag as a concern. In the work I do, some clients whose young & impulsive nature gets the better of them, have had their future plans go completely pear shaped due to pics being sent to the wrong person, or their trust in the person who 'loves' them being sadly misplaced. 😔

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Omg I've royally screwed up a few times and some close calls like yours, but with family 😱 I was sexting one fb one day and also texting a new guy who I was close to meeting, but our convoy hadn't yet got to the hot and full on stage. So I sent a text or sext to who I thought was subject 1, but I sent it to subject 2 instead haha I'm laughing hard thinking about it now. The message was something about fucking me over the bonnet of the car, there was a problem with hosting 😀 I realized the second I sent it and let out a scream nooooooooo fuck fucj fuck, lots of fucks come out of my mouth. Then I fell on the floor, crying laughing. Then his reply, which was VERY positive, he was really turned on and up for it 😂😂😂 so I regrouped and carried on the convo, albeit a lot sexier at that point. I meanwhile told the other guy, and was losing it, still crying laughing 😁 I never told the new guy, but we met and he was amazing, saw him a few times on and off for a while. But talk about a train wreck. I also screwed up not long ago and sent my Dad some texts lol thank God they weren't like that message, a string of other ones though, that could have ended badly lol I always now try to remember to look at the recipient before I send a message but when I'm rushing, doesn't always go to plan 😃

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Convoy lol should be convo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    No way, you Mum, did you really? Omg that's classic, that would have been devastating. Ouch 😀

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    But last year my bi fwb was sending a pic of his dick to a guy, and was having a group text with his 2 sisters overseas. Yep!! Sisters got the pic.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Meant to send a pic to my new then partner...a very explicit pic illustrating the ''effect'' she had me? Her name the dreaded ex-from-hell are quite similar and yes you guessed it. A text comes back... ''You never sent me pics like that when we were married". Recovery and quick reply.. ''I know as I had given up on sex back then, go figure." I could here the delete key being slammed into the phone keypad.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quick note to P2P users of programs like Kik et al? Those programs have more security leaks than you can imagine and there is no such thing as a ''free'' anything on the 'net...depends on the ultimate real price of what you may pay. Have fun! Best...... Midnight

  • lakesidecouple

    lakesidecouple

    8 years ago

    We had gotten a great sexy text from another couple just a photo saying they wanted to start chatting but it also had what they liked. Wife meant to send it to me but put it in the group chat to her mum her dad and me. I couldn't stop laughing but they just wrote "that's nice darling" and ignored it. Hahaha had the wife on the phone devastated once she figured it out. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    8 years ago

    Last year when we won the rhp sexpo comp ,was so happy and sent a red hot text to my wife that we had won and some things we may buy and get up to , whilst sitting on clients drive way ,went and knocked on the door of known church goer,and she smiles and says got your message ,I say huh????? Didn't send you one ,yes you did and shows me ,FUCKKKKK , she just smiled and said it's ok I stopped reading just before the last full stop ,you know your going to hell but at least your earning your way there apparently enjoying yourself .i said thanks and it's never been mentioned again ,lol. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Livingandloving2

    Livingandloving2

    8 years ago

    I sent a very x rated message to my husband about what I was going to do to him when he got home. Unfortunately for all concerned I was also engaged in a text with our eldest daughter . So... I thought I sent message to Mr LAL but it went to her Upshot is... daughter now needs therapy and can't look me in the eye 😂 Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Recent close call that made my heart stop. I was messaging my Dad and my lover at the same time. And, I accidentally sent a pic of a room (an idea for his renovation) to my lover instead of my Dad. Considering what was the conversation with my lover, that would have been just awful if I mixed it up, in the reverse. I've had lots of low grade mistypes / misfires that were enough to make be very cautious at how badly it could go wrong. So far nothing I have't been able to get out of, but some close calls. *touching so much wood, I have splinters*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I was chatting on kik with a woman who I'd recently met online. We were talikng late at night and trying to plan to meet to see if we would take our affair further. There had been no mention of sex at this stage but some slight innuendo about needs but mostly just playful banter. It was getting late so I suggested saying goodnight when she said she'll be up for a while as she was home alone and in the mood for BBC. I gagged and panicked at the same time and immediately wrote back to her saying I could come straight around if she was too tired to masturbate and I couldn't provide BBC but a medium flat white might do the trick She responded with a question mark and then said because her husband had set up a VPN she could access British TV. We met the next day briefly but I'll never be sure of her reason for not wanting to get together but I suspect that chat message probably contributed massively - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    A few years ago I was at work talking to an interstate supplier on the phone talking about our cats. He volunteered for a cat rescue, and as I'd raised my cat from a 1 week old abandoned kitten, he asked if I could send him some photos to show that such young kittens could survive. I said sure, and quickly fired off an email with the files "puss1 & puss2". I got a phone call about 5 minutes later from the same guy, and I asked him if he got the email? He said I don't know what kind of person you think I am, but I'm happily married, and have no interest in that sort of thing! I asked him what he was talking about, as I got back to my laptop, opened the email attachments, and saw that I'd accidentally sent him photos that a fwb had taken the previous weekend lol I was so embarrassed, but thankfully he said he wouldn't say anything to my boss at the time! But yeah, I avoided speaking to him for the rest of the time I worked there lol