RHP

RHP User

F34

Complete noob, in every single way

August 10 2014

hey guys and girls :) newbie here. Just thought id say a quick helllo and tell some things about me. My profile is still locked, dont know why, i just made it tonight though, so maybe I need to change this somehow? Anywho, for the past few months i know ive been leaning into the more bicurious stage. I know my way around a man, but for the past few years all these thoughts were creeping into my head. ive had my fair share of "drunken kisses" between freinds (or so they thought), but everytime i go out to the LGBT clubs, I guess i just look to dam straight. I hail from Perth and so you people from there probably know of "the court". Many straight girls go there because they dont want to be hit on by sleazy perth bogans (fair enough). however, as much as a try, people just think I'm straight, or the fag hag. (yep, im a girly person). I myself prefer a feminine girl, and when i do try to approach a girl ... yep.. straight (or so they say).. how the hell do i get myself out there? at the risk of sounding noob. I need someone to kinda "teach" me a few things in regards to women. Just being one doesnt mean you understand them :P any advice for noob central over here ? where do i start? p.s the perth part of this forum is quite quiet ive also noticed. not much happening there

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    What about trying The Pleasure Lounge swingers club in Burswood? They have an Under 35's night this Saturday evening. ;-) Plenty of nice open minded people there, and not seedy or dirty. ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    "I need someone to kinda "teach" me a few things in regards to women. Just being one doesn't mean you understand them" Well I'm a male and would love to help you there, but when you find the answer let me in on the secret please. ;-) I would think it would be the same as a guy trying to pick up a woman. Start a conversation find a common interest you both share and build on that. Its not easy it takes a lot of courage to in lack of a better term cold call. The only other thing I can suggest is hang out in the forums post up in the treads, some one will notice you.You sound like a nice woman, and I'm sue it wont be long before some one does notice you. You will be hit up by Hundreds of guy, but you probably realised that one buy now. some time the forums can get a bit bitchy at time just remember don't take it to hard and remember to have fun All the best with finding what you are looking for

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Hi foxgirl....Your pics are hot, Hot, HOT!!!!!! And yr profile is genuine, open & friendly....But, maybe just a Lil bit tooooo honest... It seems to read that u r inexperienced, nervous and in need of a teacher, not a lover. Why not state something along the lines of..: "After years of wonderful and fulfilling sex with men, I am now finding myself having erotic, sensual and kinky fantasies of mind blowing sex with women. I would love to explore this new side of my sexuality. I am not sexually experienced with women, but will more than make up for it in enthusiasm and a willingness to learn, to, be led, and to pleasure my partner in return. As a sexy, feminine, girly and passionate woman, I would prefer a feminine woman" ....Good luck, but you won't be needing it. I think u will be inundated with responses. Relax, enjoy and take care...xxx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    10 years ago

    and welcome to the neighbourhood ! I'm from good ol' Sydneytown, so I can't really advise on your situation per se, but try and get into the chatrooms here. There are normally a reasonable number of peeps from your home state on there, and you may be able to find out things a bit more quickly (as well as meet up with a few agreeable bodies). Good hunting. Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You're not picking up girls at the Court because you're not gay or even bi (yet). Just curious. That's not a bad thing, but the girls there are probably so used to newbies who want to have a "just-in-case-I'm-bi/gay" romp. Nobody (well I'm sure there are some, but not many) wants to feel like an experiment, or a trial run. Kissing at parties and actually doing the deed are worlds apart. In saying all this, welcome to RHP - you'll have no problems finding a really gorgeous girl who will hold your hand and guide you through. Lol, they'll find you, trust me :-) xxx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I sympathise with your dilemma and hope it all works out for you... ... but we men can't help but feel a small nugget of schadenfreude when women finally discover how bloody hard it is to pick up women.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm not in a position to help, obviously and wouldn't presume to be... Just curious. Just to clarify... Your profile lists FFM in the 'Interests' section... Does this mean you are looking for a 'couple' or do you have a man waiting in the wings, that you would like to include? I just think people may want to know.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I would recommend that you undertake the simple steps to verify your profile. Have fun!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    when i am out at night clubs i tend to get more flirts from other women than from guys..........if you smile and chat and dance and flirt with the girls and just be yourself and relax and not try to come across in any fake manner that is not just you.....be yourself open honest and happy and those that are interested in you will gravitate toward you.......if you like what a girl is wearing comment on it.wow what a great dress.kool shoes....etc...bump into people brush there arms grab them by the hand and twirl them around like you know how to dance and just have fun...........i was at a family party and my cousins lesbian friend introduced herself to me and told me she was very attracted to older women and that she was gay...........i replyed that she was cute and i was bisexually......and that my family were not yet aware of it.....and we had a great night of just dancing like girls do ...but she kept telling me girls are so much more fun than boys lol.......i hope this helps a little.but try them out and see how you go.......