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Condoms
June 19 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
Get the woman to put it on (ie with her mouth). Pusscat xxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
i have never had that problem I have always though you have to dress for occasion. There are some very inventive way to have the condom put on. the way to have one put on is using a mouth now If you sag down during that something else is going on !!! LC
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'woody_pusscat' Get the woman to put it on (ie with her mouth). Pusscat xxx Great Minds...i swear your post was not there when I started to reply !
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Practice...... lots and lots of...... rubber coated practice. I can't state that will work... but, it'll be a lot more fun.
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RHP User
10 years ago
After 10yrs in a monogamous relationship without a rubber in sight this was an issue for me. When we started playing with other people it was embarrassing, which of course made it worse. Just had to get into training for a bit. There's worse things to do in your spare time.
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RHP User
10 years ago
instant soft on.. The trick is to do it super quick while throbbing and hope it works Hahahaha I get my greatest pleasure from my skin.... Anywhere on my body, touch, kissing, licking sends me into heaven... So putting rubber over the skin of my cock gives me as much pleasure as kissing a person wrapped in glad wrap lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
dont say a word and keep your lips firmly around that cock , then he must with no hesitation and like a venus fly trap , bag that fucker as quick as possible , and make sure the roll is out bahahaha i always carry spares not because i am in a purple patch because i always fuck it up 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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tylannister
10 years ago
Putting it on thing with the mouth really work? I was always pretty skeptical when I heard that suggestion. Then I happened upon an episode of The Inbetweeners where one of the guys is trying to get his girlfriend to do it, she accidentally inhales and starts choking on it. While I was losing it laughing my thought was, "Yep, that's what I'd expect to happen."
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am not into performance sex any more. I will not perform as trained monkey, or a self heating fucking machine, which for many in the swinging scene seems to be what they want. If someone is after the on/off switch hard/soft cock, go else where. I want a connection first, and a relaxed environment, I want to know I get more than the privilege of getting you off. Make me feel sexy, get me horny then no amount of plastic will dampen the mood. Just a wink will do, if you know how. So over being just a dick. Women call it foreplay, some of us men enjoy, want, and need foreplay as well. Nobody will get anything if you cant warm the engine up first.
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Missb4u
10 years ago
BigO that's a lovely photo. As for condoms and a man going soft. There are ways to make him hard again once it's on. Nothing to be embarrassed about or worried about.
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chevtrek
10 years ago
First of all good on you for letting her play as a lot of men don't.As for condoms I hate them as I like to feel flesh but the girls and I invite others to play so hell yes always condoms.Its there issue not yours.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Does any one remember the film where the 2 guys wear illuminous condoms? Was it soul man? My advice is don't try it. My ex put one on after seeing the film and when I got under the covers to see I fell off the bed laughing. Owwwww! The only thing soft after that was him.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm not allowed to have extra marital sex without one so I have to rise to the occasion or go without.They're not that bad once you get used to them, a small price to pay for getting a bit of action.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'chevtrek' First of all good on you for letting her play as a lot of men don't.As for condoms I hate them as I like to feel flesh but the girls and I invite others to play so hell yes always condoms.Its there issue not yours. It thought it would be an issue for both as well as being very frustrating. I have had a couple of lovers where it was an issue and no matter how much help/encouragement I gave them it killed the moment. It seemed to be guys who had been in long term relationships/marriages where they hadn't needed to use condoms for many years. I guess it is another hurdle to overcome for some and comes down to retraining the brain to think past the application, and reduced sensitivity and look forward to the actual play and intimacy. Reduced sensitivity can be a bonus as some guys say they can last longer because of it. I've had guys say they can't use condoms and then try and pressure me to play without one. In other words they tried to make it my problem!!! At the end of the day - No condom, no play = very frustrating. LG
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RHP User
10 years ago
Many men refuse to use them (errrr ... Condoms) on this site. Maybe blind man is right. When you are just a dick it only takes a small film of rubber to turn you off. With soooo little substance there's norhing to keep it up. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Remember.... I came from a time where NOONE used them....I had a few "Issues" for awhile... BUT... "The little blue pill" was out then..So, I would cut them in half or quarters...and it got me over that first shitty bit.. Now.. It comes "Naturally.."Which is a stupid fckn statement really.. considering HOW un-natural it REALLY is
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RHP User
10 years ago
Most times I stay hard but there have been times when it just wouldn't come to the party. Me and condoms don't agree, I'm allergic to latex and took me a few years before finding out about the non latex ' Skyn's ' they're OK but still a passion killer... Your Misses looks fine , so it could be your guests getting stage fright with another male being there.. ? I'm guessing...
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Mr_MrsAraps
10 years ago
then why not masturbate with condoms on so you start positively associating condoms and orgasms in a non pressure environment. Had to do the same thing with mrs Araps as she wanted (and still does) to have condoms on for us both exploring anal for the first time. Hmmm going without or using condoms for getting to have anal ... Hard decision that was lol. Anyways I initially had the same problem of getting soft with condoms on after long term period without them. After practicing with myself with them on it became a non issue now and the payoff has been awesome - Posted from rhpmobile
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