Confessions of fantasies of a guy with a partner

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  My thoughts: if you are stimulated by lingerie and stockings from a visual and tactile aspect, I can understand that wearing it on your own body would have a similar effect to a partner wearing it. So its the feel of it, the look of it, that is the main trigger for you. Nothing wrong with that. As for getting your wife involved in that, I agree with your suggestion of bringing it up jokingly when you are being intimate. Maybe say that you wonder if you would look as sexy as her in her lingere. 😃 I wouldnt tell her you go home at lunch time and wear it while you bat off. If that wete me, I would be pissed off that you are going home and not taking the washing off the line or something productive. Lol.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I'm going to start by saying our RHP family does have members who won't see things the way you do, or will be positive in their responses - expect that and don't take it personally. This may be a 'sex site' (it's more than that to me) but everyone is turned on by different things and may not find your interests/kinks even sexy - they are entitled to that :) I see nothing wrong with your fetish! I love people to be comfortable and turned on and as long as it doesn't exceed my boundaries, I'm all ok! I won't be involved in any skat for example, watching or participating, but if that was your thing, I'd leave you to it! Wouldn't judge you or comment, just quietly leave if that was about to happen! I'm not necessarily into dress up for myself but my hubby loves the masculine power dress. The pin stripe suit, pants etc on me and I indulge him occasionally lol. I'm sure he'd love to see me in some kick ass lingerie, again not my thing! I love nothing more than a sexy, feminine bra and G! I'd like to showcase everything else. I know one sexy, hot transgender person that I'd like to strip naked, regardless if they were being 'male or female'. My point here is they are sexy despite the clothes they wear! I'd say by that body shot in your profile, you'd be in a similar position 😉 In terms of your partner, I'd start by exploring that sort of porn with her first! We women are strange creatures 🤗 If she saw you dressed up and wasn't expecting it, her first reaction may not be truly representative of how she feels if she hasn't had time to explore and think about it! Think about how it may impact your sexuality together etc! Prepare her without making it too personal for the first couple of times :) Lastly, bi play is hot! I love the fact that everyone is having such an awesome time and are relaxed. It's the only time I'm a vouyeur, I love watching guys together 😘😘 I use the information on profiles here to determine whether someone will be into bi play. If they're not experimental at least, then they may not be open to bi play! Good luck in your search :) Mary xx

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  My thoughts are that there are so many kinks and fetishes out there that I know nothing about. And although I enjoy dabbling I am definitely not a real kinky person in the true sense of the word. My partner however is.. A bit. So he has introduced me to bisexual men and lacey girly knickers on men. It's not something I ever considered before. However because it's him and I see the pleasure on his face and in his body and how slutty he feels in girly knickers, that turns me on and makes me happy to see him like that. I don't know why, when you love someone you love them. That's my experience anyway. I was in a Victoria Secret shop overseas recently and I really wanted to find a pair of frilly or lacy undies for him with Victoria Secret stitched on them. I think that would have been great. Unfortunately didn't find anything suitable. :(

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  naughty girl here, you could wear anything you wanted if I could get some time with that body and I'd wear anything you wanted mmm bi action mmm haha it just gets better

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  (Firstly can I just say that Mary nailed it!) Although I do not get turned on by men that dress, I absolutely do get turned on by people that are true to themselves and have the strength to not hide their real self. John, everything in your wildest dreams is available to you! Make it happen.... Your partner may initially struggle to understand, but she obviously loves you so I would suggest being honest with her about who you are and your desires. Living in fear of rejection is not living.

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