M47
Confidence killer
May 22 2011
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N4November
14 years ago
Get your gorgeous ass down here and I'll get you home again with a smile and a whistle on your lips mmmmmmmm
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well it shouldn't be common, and it was bloody well rude to get up mid sentence and leave too. Not clicking is no excuse to be a rude bitch. I wouldn't take this on as your personal baggage, it was hers obviously.
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RHP User
14 years ago
We'll be singing When we're winning We'll be singing I get knocked down But I get up again You're never gonna keep me down . She was rude cutting you off mid sentence, no doubt about that. Are we all like that? I doubt it. :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I would have at least finished the coffee and conversation. Whiled away a few hours and then made it clear that sex was not gonna happen. Unfortunately there are people, both men and women, that think because this is a site predominantly for those looking for sex that we have no feelings and should not be treated with the common curtesy that you would expect when meeting someone from anywhere else. It sucks I know but thier is precious little we can do about the behaviour of others. From the looks of your profile pics I dont mind turning cougar for you sweetie...only in the interest of giving you back your confidence you understand. We cant have a gorgeous thing like yourself lacking in the confidence department. What a loss! l If you are passing my area...please send me a message and I will take you to my dungeon and nibble on your.....bratwurst
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RHP User
14 years ago
.....comes from the other point of view. After chatting extensively with a guy off here we arranged to meet. I drove all the way across town to meet him. He seemed ok at first, although I did think "nah not gonna shag him, there's just nothing there". But I didn't want to be rude and leave mid way through the meet.Somehow or other the topic got onto politics......I tried to steer the topic but to something light hearted but he kept going on about issues that I have rather strong opinions on, and was using words which I found offensive. When I did try and challenge his statements (which were rather ill informed and uneducated) he got a touch aggressive which was the point where I stood up and said "I'm sorry but I have to go. We are not going to get along", to which he said "Ok". And I walked out.He later sent me a text and apologised for wasting my night, as he knew my time to get out is rare. I replied saying something along the lines of "No worries, chalk it up to experience". Even though i felt like sending back "Good luck finding someone with your racist, bigoted views Mr".....LOL
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RHP User
14 years ago
This is why you need to get the sex out of the way early. You said something that hit a raw nerve and she up and went. So what. Say Next dude. You don't really need any highly strung trigger happy, stomping, dummy spitting, tantrum throwers in your life. She spared you. You should buy yourself a lotto ticket as your luck is on a run! Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
If the next one does the same I would say change your brand of mouthwash. In the meantime hang in there. Not all women are going to be rude. Sounds like you dodged a bullet.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hey Bratwurst, . I know it seemed like the silly bitch took your confidence but really it was YOU that gave it away ! . She was very rude. I have NEVER done that and never would. Knowing me I'd probably chat to a serial killer for a couple of hours and then politely say good bye and wish him the best of luck in his next "rampage". . Seriously... you are young, there are so many yummy and NICE women on here that you just have to keep looking. . Taking a break now and again is a good thing. But get back on your horse quick pronto and start galloping in confidence again. . Good luck, Saturn
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RHP User
14 years ago
He's a bit old for you isn't he ?? Offering to rub men up the wrong way too now LOL at the typo
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RHP User
14 years ago
Mate, if thats all it takes to kill your confidence, then I can only assume theres something underlying going on with you. Yes, granted it's very rude, and would probably make all of us feel a bit shit for a little while. But to let it get to you that much...?Learn to laugh it off mate. And take solace in the fact that being the rude human being she apparently is, she won't get very far with many guys. We're all flawed in some way...so maybe just think that she would've been a dud in the sack anyway? Whatever helps you sleep at night, in the end, is always the best remedy...Besides, after this post, I can see your inbox slowly filling up with messages from plenty of enthusiastic women, hoping to help you "get back on that horse"! But just remember, confidence is a winner. Don't let ANYONE take that from you.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I kinda hope that not all the ppl here are rude like that cos if they are it would not be too much fun. I think Charles_Dickens is right and you should just leave before they do if you can beat them to the door. haha but is sounds like she left first anyway.Too bad about that fucked typo cos you could send me a massage too Charles_Dickens haha. I think it would be funny getting a massage from a man with no pants on like you.Duck Me
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RHP User
14 years ago
That's just so rude and lacking in manners. I'm sorry to hear that you had your confidence shaken by such a twat.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I could not imagine someone just picking up midstream in a conversation and walking out...unless of course she had suddenly been hit with gastro or something. But even then a polite "you give me the shits" may have been in order. I wouldn't waste any sleep over it either way...just move on and scratch that name off the list. | Quoting 'dontgothere' Offering to rub men up the wrong way too now ...LOL at the typo| You are just an ol' meanie sometimes, DGT... | ...which one was the typo.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm pretty sure she's either a f__kwit or she had a massive problem with something you said , either way don't sweat it , crank up some sounds that you love , really loud , and say NEXT. I got one that didn't turn up at all the other day , found out the next day she didn't have permission to play without her husband , guess she got busted before the meet. Then I had another one didn't turn up , found out the next day that SHE lacked the confidence to turn up , WTF? She didn't think she was hot enough for me , but she was. So what I'm saying is sometimes you just don't know what the hell went wrong but it really doesn't matter , just put it to the side and go kick some f__king ass!!!! My confidence is at an all-time high for real , so is yours , hint , fake it till you make it , one solid and you'll be back on your feet lol it's funny coz it's true , Loz
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm pretty sure she's either a f__kwit or she had a massive problem with something you said , either way don't sweat it , crank up some sounds that you love , really loud , and say NEXT. I got one that didn't turn up at all the other day , found out the next day she didn't have permission to play without her husband , guess she got busted before the meet. Then I had another one didn't turn up , found out the next day that SHE lacked the confidence to turn up , WTF? She didn't think she was hot enough for me , but she was. So what I'm saying is sometimes you just don't know what the hell went wrong but it really doesn't matter , just put it to the side and go kick some f__king ass!!!! My confidence is at an all-time high for real , so is yours , hint , fake it till you make it , one solid score and you'll be back on your feet lol it's funny coz it's true , Loz
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RHP User
14 years ago
Or maybe she was confused by the fact that your profile says single but you are clearly wearing a wedding ring in your pic which I assume you wore to your date ! That would do it for me as well. Or maybe those photos aren't really you perhaps? xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
So...you are not just another pretty face, cute butt, nice boobs and not too tall sort of lady after all? | Quoting 'Meeka100'...your profile says single but you are clearly wearing a wedding ring in your pic | You actually did look at his hands? And folks here tease me about... | ...great legs and nice shoes.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Chasingmidnight nobody has ever describe my boobs as "nice" before. I admit after drooling over the lovely chest & arms my eyes completely bi-passed that cock and went straight to the wedding ring. xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
You know, this is starting to be a pretty tough crowd to play to...if we act like gentlemen, you make fun of us or ignore us completely. If we arch up and act like the ratbags that we really are...you tell us we are rude. Some even seem to like to trick us and tease us...oh well, that's life in the fast lane I guess. | Quoting 'Meeka100'Chasingmidnight nobody has ever describe my boobs as "nice" before. | So can we agree that you have "bodacious ta-tas" that would make you stand out in a crowd even if you were laying down on your back? Okay so naked would help, but no more nice...we can save that for the shoes. Just one question though... | ...I have never noticed, do you have feet?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Chasingmidnight, yes I have feet but they are small feet, and yes I have a shoe fetish. I have had a cupboard especially made for all my shoes. :)xxMeeks
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Or maybe she was confused by the fact that your profile says single but you are clearly wearing a wedding ring in your pic which I assume you wore to your date ! That would do it for me as well. Or maybe those photos aren't really you perhaps? xxMeeka Meeks you obviously have an eye for detail and an inquisitive mind. All I got when looking at his profile pic was "upgrade to view" hehe.HugsStalky
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xFunlovingx
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Or maybe she was confused by the fact that your profile says single but you are clearly wearing a wedding ring in your pic which I assume you wore to your date ! That would do it for me as well. Or maybe those photos aren't really you perhaps? xxMeeka As I can't see the pic I am soooo glad that you pointed that out! I have walked out on guys before...guys with old pics and they look NOTHING like the pic...One guy had a fake pic up..it wasn't even him! And the one guy that I met at a busy coffee shop that didn't have a wedding band on .. but had the tan marks!! Yes, he had just taken off his ring before meeting me! I let him have it LOUD and CLEAR in that coffee shop for all to hear! It wasn't the fact that he was married that got me angry (as I do occassionally see married men)..it was the fact that he LIED and said he was single!! He took away my rights to choose if I wanted to meet him or not!! And btw...I was applauded by 2 lovely older women sitting at the table next to me as I was walking out! < If you are married...be open and honest about it...it might limit your chances, but at least you are giving the other person the CHOICE into who they want to see! xFunlovingx
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Hanna_ybbn
14 years ago
lmao Meeks LOVE your work girl!As I can't see the pic I am soooo glad that you pointed that out! I have walked out on guys before...guys with old pics and they look NOTHING like the pic...One guy had a fake pic up..it wasn't even him! And the one guy that I met at a busy coffee shop that didn't have a wedding band on .. but had the tan marks!! Yes, he had just taken off his ring before meeting me! I let him have it LOUD and CLEAR in that coffee shop for all to hear! It wasn't the fact that he was married that got me angry (as I do occassionally see married men)..it was the fact that he LIED and said he was single!! He took away my rights to choose if I wanted to meet him or not!! And btw...I was applauded by 2 lovely older women sitting at the table next to me as I was walking out!Brat but I think you just screwed the pooch Takes all sorts.....Han x
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RHP User
14 years ago
Webcam photo's often flip around so it looks like the right hand is left and vice-versa. (Note: I can't see this guys pics). I actually hate how webcam does that because a picture of me looking super awesome, when it's flipped doesn't quite look as awesome. It's weird and annoying.Also, I know guys who have been married (and divorced/widowed) who still wear the ring years after. Kind of like a security blanket. They're still 100% single (well, at least physically). Quoting 'Meeka100' Chasingmidnight, yes I have feet but they are small feet, and yes I have a shoe fetish. I have had a cupboard especially made for all my shoes. :) OMG - I have a friend you should meet. He has a cupboard made especially for shoes too! I don't have a shoe fetish (for my own feet) but I surely appreciate you lovely perves who make lunchtime in the city so nice to be outside. :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
So then if I promise that from now on I will refer to your ass as "grab-able" and your boobs as "exquist"...is there a chance you might just show off the upper end of this shoe collection? I can only assume that you would have some very "exotic" lingerie to go with them...you know, sexy hosiery and dare I suggest it even garter belts? | Hell, you could even make it an "RHP Hot Chick Challenge" just to boost the morale of the guys and gals here a bit? Just make sure the Queenslanders know that Crocs and flip-flops do not pass as shoes. | Quoting 'Meeka100'...yes I have a shoe fetish. I have had a cupboard especially made for all my shoes. | I did say please...and of course stilettos and fishnets work for me. And besides... | ...you know you want to do it. | | I don't have a fetish...just an "appreciation".
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RHP User
14 years ago
Nothing about that outfit or pose screams "lack of confidence" to me it even scares me a bit
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RHP User
14 years ago
Meeka...do we need to talk? It looks like "somebody" broke this thread again too and evidence would point at your little butt? No, but if you look at what happened...we kinda know where this turned into the bold and beeee-you-tiful yet again? | Nice....just love your work. | Just teasing...big and bold is just loverly, too.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Charles_Dickens' Quoting 'Alpha_Bitch'.....comes from the other point of view. After chatting extensively with a guy off here we arranged to meet. I drove all the way across town to meet him. He seemed ok at first, although I did think "nah not gonna shag him, there's just nothing there". But I didn't want to be rude and leave mid way through the meet. Somehow or other the topic got onto politics......I tried to steer the topic but to something light hearted but he kept going on about issues that I have rather strong opinions on, and was using words which I found offensive. When I did try and challenge his statements (which were rather ill informed and uneducated) he got a touch aggressive which was the point where I stood up and said "I'm sorry but I have to go. We are not going to get along", to which he said "Ok". And I walked out. He later sent me a text and apologised for wasting my night, as he knew my time to get out is rare. I replied saying something along the lines of "No worries, chalk it up to experience". Even though i felt like sending back "Good luck finding someone with your racist, bigoted views Mr".....LOL eeww.......You poor woman........now that is one bad experience, BUT, take some effort in future to make sure your not wasting your time......is my advice. I think some people need to spend more time chatting/texting/emailing/phone calls before you date....is which I try to do.....I find it works well. Cheers Charles xoxo Charles you must not have read my post correctly.......I stated that I had in fact extensively chatted, texted and spoke on the phone with this guys..........So i had taken the effort, otherwise I would not have met him. Just saying.
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RHP User
14 years ago
To all you people who can not see his photo.. he has a lovely strong naked chest, he is wearing leather pants with no crutch and he has quite a large penis he is holding there with one hand. AND YES HE HAS A SILVER RING ON HIS COCK AND A GOLD WEDDING RING ON HIS FINGER. xxMeekaPS How on earth did I break this thread???? Wasn't me I promise.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sounds like a pretty good pic! Not enough to make me rnew my membership at the moment though.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Since when does wearing a ring on your right hand mean that your married ??????????????????? I'm not from east Europe !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Leather chaps? really? Personally I think 26 is a little young to be getting married anyway. :p BTW Meeks.... where's Munchkinflower? Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
And no, you didn't do it Meeka...not this time anyway. |What's a munchkin? Gawd you two are going to start talking about sex with relatives again... | ...are you.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well CM some would say that I am an albino munchkin .... if you like I can strategically hide the flower on my munchkin body, so you and Stalkers can find the Munchkin flower if you like. :P xx Meeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Eeee-haw! This ain't Kansas, Dorothy and I am starting to like Oz...so make that flower small and hide it where it's tight. | Quoting 'Meeka100' ... if you like I can strategically hide the flower on my munchkin body, so you and Stalkers can find the Munchkin flower if you like. | | This is the best offer I have had from Sydney since I bought that goofey bridge that looks like a damn coat hanger! Come on, Stalky...sing it! | We represent the Lollipop GuildThe Lollipop Guild, the Lollipop Guild.And in the name of the Lollipop GuildWe wish to welcome you to Munchkin Land| Amen........
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'bratworst' Since when does wearing a ring on your right hand mean that your married ??????????????????? I'm not from east Europe !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! When you photograph yourself in the mirror.. it is on your left hand!!HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ????????? !!!!!!!!!! lol.HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
They all look like professional shots to me Stalky... no mirrors in site or bathroom cabinets. Still looks like a wedding ring to me Brat :P I need to take a photo of myself in front of my LURVELY shoe cabinet in nothing but stilettos...... just for CM. xx Meeks
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RHP User
14 years ago
Are you sure you ain't from Eastern Europe? I mean with a name like Bratwurst???? Come on, you can tell me. :P And by the way half my relatives come from Eastern Europe and I haven't noticed any weird tradition with wearing wedding rings on the other hand?? xx Meeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Come on Bratworst....though if its the reference to the sausage it's Bratwurst...yes I know very pedantic...however.....seriously dry your eyes princess.....I'd much rather a woman be as straight up as that. Not everyone is for everyone it's part of life mate. Maybe it's because no one has ever refused you before that you feel so shaken up, welcome to my world....lol. Once you have been dropped like a hot potato a few times you will most likely get over yourself and not feel so crushed, although I think this is ust a clever ploy in order to get women to offer themselves to you. In which case I would just like to point out I flew to Perth to meet a lady and after 15 seconds she stabbed me in the eye with a fork then ripped my eye out and ate it in front of me. I am still in total shock over the incident and have been unable to become erect since.......and doubt any woman could ever make me hard again.....(please god let someone fall for that one)
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RHP User
14 years ago
were you sitting there with your cock in your hand, might have scared her off. Or maybe she had realised that she had rooted you once before and didn,t want seconds.
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RHP User
14 years ago
We are all looking at this womans behaviour from his point of view. Maybe she gave so many hints that it wasn't going well that she just thought bugger it I'm out of here. I wonder how different her story would be. P.S. I noticed the ring but didn't notice the belly button so had to go back for another look. mmm
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RHP User
14 years ago
Politemale................LMAO to funny...men and their sob stories ....it happens to everyone sooner or later on this site....ive done it and ive had it done to me.....for me it has been because the person ive met..normally male is pushy and just wants a easy root basically
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RHP User
14 years ago
Really searching for a reason other than she was just rude aren't we. Honestly, rings and belly buttons. The ring is obviously on his right hand (and the Russian's I know wear it on the right, as Bratworst implies in his response). And belly button looks consistent to me (not to mention the rest of him).If she's bold enough to just walk out, she's bold enough to at least interrupt him and say "sorry, we don't click". It was just plain rude.
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RHP User
14 years ago
a bit hard to do that pose in the mirror mate ! No I didn't take the photos myself, a guy did in London a few years ago, he was looking for naked male models, so I did it ! was awesome, loved it !
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hoooray!! | Meeka...try not to trash out this page too? Thanks, you little munchy-muncher ...just love you work and especially standing in front of that shoe cabinet. Bending over at the waist. Turned around to show off your munchkin butt. Oppss....that's not a flower, is it? | | And watch who posts just above where it screws up and blame them!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'sevenup777' a bit hard to do that pose in the mirror mate ! No I didn't take the photos myself, a guy did in London a few years ago, he was looking for naked male models, so I did it ! was awesome, loved it ! lolz sevens. A sluggo model eh? hehe.HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
I can't see your pictures but judging by how much this rejection has messed you up I'm guessing you're attractive enough that you haven't developed the thick-skinned resistance to rejection that some of us down here in the trenches have to deal with.Granted, yours is a pretty severe rejection. I wouldn't want to be detached enough for that not to hurt for a few days. In the meantime you can remind yourself of everything that gives you worth and be glad she got none of it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Mate, I've know a couple of guys that are serial shaggers, and they're teflon coated, they let knock backs slide of like they aren't even there, so don't worry about it mate. If some chick got up mid sentence and bailed on me I'd be embarrassed for her, to have no integrity or soul is pathetic.Look at it this way, you've described what happened and I wouldn't want to know her. I couldn't click with someone willing to be that shallow and gutless that they can't have a chat and say "look I'm not feeling it with you, but thanks for the coffee".The thing about fuckwits is that you never need to take one with you, because you can always find one when you get there.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well your date was pretty rude to just get up and leave, but it does happen... sorry to say. And the big reason was just that... you just didn't click. That doesn't mean that anything is wrong with you... and there is nothing wrong with her.... it just means that the 2 of you didn't "click together". That's all. And beleive me, with practice, you will not feel so bad. It happens, and you have to prepare yourself for the fact that it does happen. She was rude to leave, but even if she stayed and told you later that you didn't click, you still might have a tinge of insecurity. Don't worry.... it's not you... I have met many men, and believe me, there are quite a few that are very nice men, but we just don't click, and I can't see myself being with them. On the other hand, you will know if you click, and that's what you should be anxious for... to meet those women. So pick yourself up again and keep going.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Girl'Webcam photo's often flip around so it looks like the right hand is left and vice-versa. (Note: I can't see this guys pics). I actually hate how webcam does that because a picture of me looking super awesome, when it's flipped doesn't quite look as awesome. It's weird and annoying. Web cam note: Put a mirror up behind your computer, face web cam at it and you've pulled a double reverse. Apply this same idea as needed depending on if computer is in fixed place etc. Confidence takes a beating from time to time, but it has a way of bouncing back- lessons learned and all that. Be honest to who you are, can't ask for more than that. Have you ever noticed how complimenting someone can not only boost the recipricants confidence but also give you a boost too. Give someone a sincere compliment and feel the afterglow.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I did well then hehe xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
ivann humpalot im having trouble contacting u, can u message me. would love to hook up
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love you haha baygirl2315, only a woman can fix that problem, talk wont work but an offer like that will, your awesome
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