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Confused?
November 25 2011
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RHP User
13 years ago
yea funnily enough it is to some...its about the chase, but once you're caught, interest wanes pretty quickly. but dont fret, for every one that runs away theres 3 more one handed typers lurking in wait......
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RHP User
13 years ago
The thrill of the Chase just as mike and shel state, but also I think that people have trouble changing from online flirting to actually meeting people. why don't you try talking online or by phone break the ice and eliminate any preconceived ideas or expectations that may cause one to chicken out. I think if you have both got the same goals desires and there is some level of attraction, maybe trying to make the other person feel that there are no expectations or pressure for anything to happen may put the other person at ease, and hopefully no chickening out. Don't rush things and enjoy. So what if you have to put little extra time and effort into it if means all partys are going to have an experience that is so much better. Any thoughts?
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RHP User
13 years ago
how many have done the run and hide given the chance to meet and enjoy ???
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RHP User
13 years ago
Its all about the chase and they are hiding behind there pc's
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RHP User
13 years ago
In my experience, if you say "yes" straight up, you are in their mind too easy (pfft) If you say "no", you are a rude bitch who won't give them a chance And if you say "maybe" they pull on their hunting pants and get ready for the chase...because at the end of the chase is a big prize ;P . Make em work for their prize :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Maybe your silhouette scares them. Nah just kidding. There are some strange men out there by the sounds of it?
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RHP User
13 years ago
A lady friend claims she has had 4,000 male encounters, yet is still trying to find the right chap. Thats more than a decade of daily one night stands.I'm sure she's exaggerating, but then may have been on the game?So with all that experience she is still single... Not sure why the chaps are running away? A woman would need to be wearing her false teeth down there to scare me away.Dogs breath capable of melting my spectacles would do it too.
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RHP User
13 years ago
It may be that some people lack confidence in a face to face meeting scenario, especially with someone they've basically never met before. It can be confronting.I used to run a small business and have done a lot of selling, so it's no drama for me to talk to people I've only previously met via phone, text, email etc, but for some people it can be stressful. I suspect they sit at home regretting not going out, then say something like "It'll be different next time" and get back on RHP to repeat the process.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why should only one side be considered a "prize" ?Seriously, is it not a mutual interest/desire ?We're not here seeking affirmation, are we ? Quoting 'Morticiaaa' In my experience, if you say "yes" straight up, you are in their mind too easy (pfft) If you say "no", you are a rude bitch who won't give them a chance And if you say "maybe" they pull on their hunting pants and get ready for the chase...because at the end of the chase is a big prize ;P . Make em work for their prize :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
To be purely honest, it all comes down to attraction for me...I've had girls that aren't that physically attractive have me coming back time and time again; on the other side of it, I've had girls that are very physically attractive, well I just haven't bothered going back more than once or twice.Attraction is a totally weird thing, but needless to say... if I'm really keen on you, I'm coming over!Personally, I don't have a lot of time for the internet, much prefer real life things (even if they just end in wine and good conversation).... if you meet people in the real world then you're on a safe bet, cause they're already in front of you.If you'd like to meet for some real world fun, drop me a line :-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Lmfao Morty. Maybe the guys she is chasing are holding back to make her work for her prize. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
13 years ago
I dont know why they would waste their time then !!
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montyv12
13 years ago
Hey therenot all men are after the big chase and some just will give up at the first point and go for another ladyWhile there maybe lots of men out there good one s are a few betweenin saying that there is also a lot of nice lades all looking for the perfect match also I find that there are a lot of people out there that are just looking for a pen pal and not a sexual friend or lover /GFBeing honest plays a big part in the beginning to many people say they are into this and that but when asked change there tune a lot and back away before the connection occurs When you have little to no connection with a new person its easy to loose interest and stringing them along only sends the the wrong message and proves that there maybe baggage attached brought on by a bad experience prior to your connection
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes it's all about the hunt but at the end of the day it's hand over the goodies or gooooooo awaaaaaaaayyyyy. It's a prize, not a feckin olympic gold medal! It's only worth a certain amount of attention. Sure i like a boy to chase me until i let him catch me but i don't like to nancy around for too long. When it becomes too much of a game it's tiresome. There's just a right amount of hunt/chase..............too little and that's no fun for anyone................too much and i get bored to death, i have the attention span of a gnat y'know. Also, Hunting is fun but if the prey is too stupid to know it's about to be captured and devoured.....well........NEXT! There could be a whole host of answers honey, they might be bored, might be looking for more fun and excitement in the chase, nervous, all bark no bite (all talk no action) who knows. I do know on thing though gawjusthere's no shortage of fun toys....erm....boys to play tiggy with I have to go.....my monkey needs me xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
1. Men want what they cant have 2. Its ALL about the chase 3. Once they get what they want they are done Just my opinion....
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RHP User
13 years ago
It may be about the hunt but once the doe is in your sights you still take the shot. It's not like you think "Oh yeah I could've gotten that one" while you're walking away. I'm normally pretty straight forward online and in person and believe it or not sometimes I am just after a good convo while I have a beer or two and not looking to have a wild night of passion. But having said that if the guys that have run have put in the yards telling you how much you're going to love shagging them and then done no-shows it's because their profile pics are fake and their married looking for a little escape from their real lives.shit this made so little sense even I struggle with it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think a lot of chicks are the same. Hell once satiated and have finished purrrrrring.....I'm thinking about my shopping list or something. Very nice....thank you.....shake hands.....slap arse with an encouraging "good job!"......have a nice life...aaaaaanddddd. we're done here I can count on one hand the people i have seen more than once cause they are THAT fabulous and THAT much fun
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RHP User
13 years ago
Can't speak for all guys on here but me personally and I am sure there are plenty of other guys on here that are the same, are after friends with benefits. The guys that talk it up and chicken out or blow you off are either prob getting it elsewhere as well or are just boys. I am only 25 but I do what I say I am gunna do and do a darn good job at it and won't run nor chase.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Honey?! You don't chase/persue?! Seriously? Well what the hell is the fun in that? Gawd........do they just come to you? Inconceivable!!!! You're much closer friends with that dolly than you're letting on Well we'd be no good because i don't chase/persue either so there would not even be a starters gun going off. Sigh...oh well.................just as well boys are like buses..........miss one and there's another cuming around the corner in a jiffy
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RHP User
13 years ago
Never used the blow up doll. Only ever gets blown up to have a laugh with the boys. Sure boys are like buses and girls are like bikes. I am not a boy nor are you a girl so chances of us are nil lol. But seriously why chase there is plenty more and more times than not better out there than what your waisting your time on in the first place. Negative with them coming to me and when they do they usually arnt my type anyways but good things come to those who wait.
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