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Confused

February 02 2013

As some of you know I have been on RHP a very long time (since I was 19). Back in the day when I use to be single and I use to hook up with guys (how I met my partner). I never once got stood up, or had a dodge meeting or had issues with men leading me on or tricking me. Every guy I've ever met from RHP in the past has been a gentleman.Today I was meant to have my first meet up with another female from a "couple". There where no alarm bells, other than the fact I couldn't seem to get her to send on the spot photos and It looked like everything was going great. Now I know what I say next may sound stupid and I've never met a girl off rhp before so I wasn't quite sure what to do. "She" asked for a Skype chat, I accepted and since then I have not heard from "her". (I could not see or hear her in the Skype call as she said she was having problems with her lap top). I sent her a message on rhp and I know she has read it, I have texted her, no response from either method. So I've given up on today's meet with the feeling that I've been played. My weekend has somehow gone from lots of sex, to no sex and an empty hotel room. Has anyone else had this problem? Please tell me its not just me.Taby x

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RHP User

12 years ago

to that extent Tabby,I have once or twice turned up to meet someone whose pic I hadn't seen and they weren't there ,but it was only for coffee. She may have been a he,or she was attached and the reality of actually meeting you was all a bit scary,or she looked nothing like the pics she sent you.. Unfortunately there a many people here and on other sites who are completely fake,I think you just encountered one of them.

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RHP User

12 years ago

I went to cam with someone the other day. I was embarassed as I thought because it wouldn't work they would think I was a fake. Possibly it was just a guy masquarading as being a couple so that he could speak to girls. I have been played on a relationship site by someone not confident in meeting women so he had a fake profile pic and said his computer wouldn't cam. FAKE.

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RHP User

12 years ago

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RHP User

12 years ago

Smells totally "rat" to me Taby! Do not EVER go on a proposed meet (with a girl) without first camming up with person.Id go as far as confirming that her other half wont accidently be there too if it wasnt planned to be that way.As a friend of mine says "Seriously- its 2013 " If a person can't cam up, the MINIMUM would be a quick ph call. When you are going to a meet with full intent of knowing its a guy, there usually is no issues. When it comes to meeting a female off here all sorts of issues can arise.Even a friend of mine on here regales me with stories of chatting with "women" only to have the "My cams not working" scenario when he brings it up to verify who he is speaking to.I blame it on fact he looks like a gay porn idol(doesn't go down too well with him) .Seriously if there is a PC tech out there..there is a boom industry of fixing cams in the RHP world!!

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RHP User

12 years ago

Wasn't having a go at you hon, you did the right thing and followed your gut instinct. Hope you got to enjoy that hotel room one way or another!x

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RHP User

12 years ago

But I'm surprised it's taken so long for you to come across this. The rest of us are up for this sort of disappointment from time to time. It's a reflection on the other lasses taste, not you. So don't take it to heart... Oh 50 other people already said that. See I'm right.. ~smiles~Send her the link to my forum post..Cut and paste "Sorry, but No" lines..And she what she gets back to you with?~smiles~

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RHP User

12 years ago

I had a couples profile for 2 years on here with a great friend of mine... I stayed out of the chatting and meeting so that people wouldn't assume it was just me parading as a couple. She would offer skype, pics on demand but, She became so sick of the fakes, let downs and 'single women' who turn out to be either just a guy or a girl who wants to take only her home to her BF that now i'm here on my own again, :( We'll stick to pubs and clubs to meet other real women these days. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

12 years ago

,,this thread reads like a lot on other site forums..and i give the same answer as people have given on there...forget about the long chats and messaging between each other... to start off with arrange to meet up asap in a public place,,if they not go with that then move onto the next person..

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RHP User

12 years ago

We know your pain Senorita_Taby! It's not a regular occurrence but it does happen from time to time and it's annoying as all hell. It's such a waste of time. Most recently, we've been speaking to the guy half of a supposed couple who has ignored my numerous requests for face pics of both of them before meeting. The other night he was messaging us on Skype and offered to meet with a woman (who wasn't the supposed female of the couple)... Needless to say we were like "uhhhmmmmm delete". We insist on face pics or preferably a quick video skype before meeting, just to ensure that we are speaking to genuine people. Yes, technology can be a bitch sometimes and you do get the odd cam malfunction, but for the most part, if they don't cam, they aren't genuine.

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