M54
Consummation
March 28 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
If I had of married now (instead of 6 years ago...before I embarked on the swinging lifestyle)...my answer would be still be no. I agree with you, if you are going to commit yourself to a lifetime with someone else, at least have the respect to that commitment by not sleeping with someone else the night before you marry. Fun together after the wedding is said and done....is absolutely encouraged (but then again I am biased towards swinging)....aren't we all in varying degrees?? Mrs Bi
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's kind of like getting married with your fingers crossed behind your back! Makes a mockery of a marriage if you ask me?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have a friend who was engaged to her childhood sweetheart-they had been together for years, part of the family. The night of her hens night, she was at a club , and dancing, when her eyes literally locked on a young guy. they ended up having a dance, and didnt leave each others side that night. she went home very troubled, ran away to think for 2 days, realised she couldnt get him out of her head, and ended up calling the wedding off a couple of days before the big Day!!!! He was shattered. Anyway, she and the "new guy" have now been happily married for over 20 years and have 2 teenage sons!!! They are still very lovey dovey and romantic, and do everything together....who doesnt believe in love at first sight????!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
- are wired that way.. The night before my wedding, My wifes best friend hunted me down and DID me..quick and hard. I am not bragging here.. AS I have stated before.. I am like that. *shrugs* I haven't tried to get married since.. but, in just about every one of my longer term relationships.. the Gf's sisters or friends have been the instigators of these extra curricular activities.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We were swinging before we got married and still are now. But we have boundaries that we respect. We never play alone and definitely didn't have sex with anyone else on our bucks / hens night. Works for us ;)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Friends of mine got a girl to join them for fun on their wedding night. The marriage only lasted 3 months (not because of the girl though- the guy just 'suddenly' realised he wasn't ready for marriage).
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RHP User
12 years ago
This might just top off the cake... I went to this wedding and the groom slept with the brides sister on his wedding night...bad huh? The marriage went on for 6yrs..before he ran off with the sister and married her which didn't last long either-under 4mths..guess he liked to keep things all in the family... As for sleeping with someone on hens/bucks night...each to their own but I couldn't...no matter how HWATTT and naked the male stripper was. How many people out there would sleep with someone at a wedding if your part of the bridal party and single??? Talking about weddings nothing worse attending one when your single...all that sweet love in the air..arghhhhhh! Foxy- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm curious if the extra-curricular activities were with your partner's consent each time?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'ding26' I have a friend who was engaged to her childhood sweetheart-they had been together for years, part of the family. The night of her hens night, she was at a club , and dancing, when her eyes literally locked on a young guy. they ended up having a dance, and didnt leave each others side that night. she went home very troubled, ran away to think for 2 days, realised she couldnt get him out of her head, and ended up calling the wedding off a couple of days before the big Day!!!! He was shattered. Anyway, she and the "new guy" have now been happily married for over 20 years and have 2 teenage sons!!! They are still very lovey dovey and romantic, and do everything together....who doesnt believe in love at first sight????!!! Wasn't the hens night, but was only a couple of weeks from her wedding when I met Mrs C. She called it off within a couple of days and then called me to let me know she was now available.That was nearly 15yrs ago.Mr C
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RHP User
12 years ago
Apart from the odd partners I have swung with Short answer is "No" I do not make excuses for who and what I am.. I just AM. I TRY not to judge.. often unsuccessfully.. And do not care if anyone judges me. But, I will not ever promisse to love you unconditionally, nor be faithful be to you. SOME women respect that and decide to play with me.. THAT I like
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RHP User
12 years ago
I was the master of ceremonies at a friends wedding and slept with the priest....sorry,Anglican priest
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RHP User
12 years ago
They make no sense at all to me..A bunch of blokes all hanging out with one or two women? Does not sound like fun to me.The idea that a blokes needs one last chance to let his hair down with his mates because hie life is about to be come some dour thing is just wrong in my opinion. A marriage should add something to your life. Being a union, you should be doing all your celebrating with your partner..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Nice work dear..Quoting 'Freya77' I was the master of ceremonies at a friends wedding and slept with the priest....sorry,Anglican priest
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RHP User
12 years ago
your all probably going to be rather surprised at this one but my hubby and I had swung for years before we met,once together we continued to swing together only,as it should be,but on our wedding night to consummate our marriage we actually had a mini orgy,it was actually awesome, and it lasted into the following day,its one night we’ll never ever forget lol we had the time of our lives hehehehehe xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I was a barmaid at a pub in Sydney there were a bunch of guys and they said they were off to a party dumb arse me said yes when they ask me to come along when I got there, no women...dah anyway I drank to much and woke up in bed naked with the soon to be groom and the best man It was not pretty, I was to pissed to know what I had done and we were all very much embarased by it all.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFox' This might just top off the cake... I went to this wedding and the groom slept with the brides sister on his wedding night...bad huh? The marriage went on for 6yrs..before he ran off with the sister and married her which didn't last long either-under 4mths..guess he liked to keep things all in the family... As for sleeping with someone on hens/bucks night...each to their own but I couldn't...no matter how HWATTT and naked the male stripper was. How many people out there would sleep with someone at a wedding if your part of the bridal party and single??? Talking about weddings nothing worse attending one when your single...all that sweet love in the air..arghhhhhh! Foxy- Posted from rhpmobile Have to agree with SuperFox.... Weddings aren't much fun if you're single & all that sweet sentimental mushy stuff going on all around you.... Although you are very happy for your best friend that she's found someone worthy of her, of course!Years ago now I was bridesmaid for my best friend & it just so happened that her husband's best man really was the best man there..... always had the hots for him & after a little wine, champagne etc it led to fun & games in the front room after the wedding was over.....BTW I was single & so was he....
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RHP User
12 years ago
was offered up on a plate...and me being me, i smiled, said a polite 'no thanks', and wandered off....doing my own thing...something i've done since word one... i only attended my own bucks night out of politeness, had 3 drinks, and left when the drinkers became drunkards....
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