Couple new to this

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  MsSuperFoxy

  10 years ago

  How long have you been together? under a year? years? Well, most couples that I know (in this scene) have been together for ages/years and have their shit together. I think the key for them always having open & honest communication, as that plays a huge role. Best advice I can give is talk to as many couples as you can, ask them questions, attended parties/clubs, research and read books, that sort of thing. You are both young and will be challenged on many many different levels of your relationship, feelings and emotions that you never knew you had....however do keep in mind the first priority is yourself and relationship before others and keep your boundaries in place at all times - it will be challenged. As for only wanting to play with only females, well they are called "unicorns" for a reason - hunted, legendary, rare as hens teeth, mystical and a beautiful thing. You have competition when it comes to seeking a unicorn, as many many couples here are lining up wanting the same thing. One more thing...It may help as well, if you put up pics of the two of you and extend your profile a little more, one just never knows (with some couples profiles) if it's just a single man/person behind the grey ghost. Check out other couples profiles and you'll see what I mean. Good Luck with it all and I wish you both all the very best. Foxy

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Hello, I am not sure how successful these sites are for younger people, certainly this forum is made up of older people such as myself. In my experience I have had a lot of luck finding group sex and meeting like minded people at parties and events. Have a look at the events page. I know there are some good swingers clubs and parties in Melbourne which you came attend. Just remember every party is different and not all of them will be for you. Some are great and some are awful so it's a matter of attending to figure out which ones will suit. Have you heard of the Saints and Sinners ball? It's being held in a few weeks. I think you should start by attending that. Otherwise there are lots of topics on swingers clubs, what to expect, on swinging, etc on this forum so have a good read as I am sure you will find it helpful. Good luck. :)

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Thank you so much for your reply!We have been together for 3 years now and have a very open, trustworthy relationship.My poor man is sick right now and we only made the profile last night, but we definitely plan on putting up lots of pictures!I cannot thank you enough for your smart response xx

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  And thank you, also!I have heard of the Saints & Sinners and a really want to go, but Mr is a bit more reserved than me and would be way out of his comfort zone. But some of the events that I can see on here look pretty good so hopefully we will be attending something of the sorts soon!I figured it would be tough for a young couple but fingers crossed!Thank you again xx

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  Tall74nHard9

  10 years ago

  Have offered good advice.My main piece of advice to you is - patience.Don't expect anything to happen today - it will take time to make decent connections, and also don't rush into anything with the excitement and adrenalin flowing. Remember to put the brain into gear first. Tall

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Were pretty new aswell, and from our experience so far your probably better off with one of the parties that are on most weekends in Melbourne. Shed16 is good on Fridays on couples only nights, its a smaller crowd and there is younger couples there but not many and last time we went there was atleast 3 single women!

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  And again, some more sound advice!Thank you!

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Thank you, ill have to look it up! how have you found your experience being young too?x

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  rc_80

  10 years ago

  Yeah. Events are about the only way to go. Your chances of finding a unicorn are slim at best. There are 100 couples in your situation , for every one single girl. We know of couples that have been on here for four or more years and never been able to organise a meet. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Oh my god! thank you for replying xx

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  Violetincredible

  10 years ago

  As rocker couple said put yourself out there at events, in particular the inner circle parties or meet and greets- lots of young people seem to be at them (in Perth anyway) Be open friendly and fun- I've met some absolutely gorgeous couples in their 20s on here- if you are secure, not jealous or possessive and fun you will meet single girls because they will want to hang out with you! Xxviolet

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Thank you xx

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