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Couples… Females play alone?
August 18 2012
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
For one on one. I'd like to try that. I reckon maybe the girls you approach think you're either fake or bait for your man...
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Taby_DK
12 years ago
Me and him have sat down and had a long conversation about what we both want from our couples profile and he is fine with letting me play one on one with a girl without him being present. In fact he said he would even leave the house if I was to hook up with a girl because all he wants is for me to feel comfy and enjoy my first girl on girl experince. I have had a FFM before however the focus was on the guy both us girls where straight and I was the third person so I dont count that as a true girl on girl experince. I want my first proper experince to be without a guy present so I can find out if I truely swing that way or not without having male distraction there. I dont belive in doing anything by halves.
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
I agree with beach belle with this. Have you been with a girl by yourself before? There are girls out there that do play alone, but you really need to have the confidence in approaching them, as they too would like someone who is experienced xxx
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goldcoastcple69
12 years ago
im looking for the same thing...and im in southport
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'beachbelle' So youre saying you were in a ffm and didnt play with the girl? What a wasted opportunity.If you were that way inclined at all you wouldve been all over her lmao.Well as the OP said, it was a straight FFM so I don't think the other straight lass would have appreciated Taby being 'all over her' unless she gave any indication of being interested.As others have said already, some of the bi girls would probably prefer to have two playmates at the time rather than just the one, unless they were in the same situation as you or otherwise gay.Patience... the right opportunity will come up eventually x
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Dirtydog70
12 years ago
Yes please miss goldcoastcple69
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RHP User
12 years ago
Wow, based on your profile we have a lot in common..anyway..From the perspective of a single girl, I do sometimes feel apprehensive about approaching a male/female couple as I am not interested in a situation where I'm having sole contact with the male only (imo that's missing the point of a FFM threesome). Though I was lucky enough to find a couple who allowed me to play with the female only. You do seem very upfront about what you want which is the first step, and like others have said, the next step is patience, patience. =)Perhaps try seeking out women with a singles profile, if you are comfortable playing alone with one? Just for the sake of gaining some same-sex experience, i wouldn't rule out lesbian women too.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am the female from a couple profile and I DO play one on one with like minded women, hubby knows about this and is happy for me to do so. We also play FMFM & FMF. There is women out there that do like to play one on one it's just a matter of finding one that is happy to play with bi-curious, I personaly dont mind as I was once curious ;) Dont give up it will happen when u least exspect it :D
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MissSarahCurious
12 years ago
One to be with on your own, and one to be with you and your man. Those are 2 different scenarios.Many girls are looking for only one of those things, and if they're interested in just being with you on your own, you're probably going to put them off by the idea of your man being there at all. Not your fault, it's just that there are many many many single girl profiles that are really a couple wanting so it's an instant dealbreaker for real single girls looking for other real single girls to play with.Best of luck.xx SarahPS my first time with a woman was also her first time too and it was amazing, neither of us wanted or needed to be "shown what to do" by someone who knew "better", it was great being both in the same boat. I highly recommend it!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I posted a similar thread to this a while back as I was equally frustrated - totally been there! One avenue is to first develop a connection with a couple and once a level of trust is there, suggest to them your scenario of one on one just the ladies to meet up and see what they say. Perhaps you could then even organise a night away for the girls....dont forget to pack your outfits and toys!! You never know, your bond might become strong enough with the other couple for them to play on their own with you and you with them. Then the optoins are endless and quite wonderful XXX
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RHP User
12 years ago
Taby Why dont you go with bi curous? Ideally I'm looking for the same but I think if you have 2 bi curious women in a room together who are into eachother, one thing will lead to another.
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ArtsyLusttty
12 years ago
Not surprised s3d
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes I feel your pain.I am married have had a ffm with hubby I am bi I love all things soft and girly and my hubby is very keen for me to have my own playmate.He understands that this is part of who I am and he wants me to be myself and happy. He would love another ffm but he knos me having a friend+benefits is 1st.:-P
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RHP User
12 years ago
I like to play alone with the girl, but only if hubs is in the general area, such as room/house/dwelling/hotel room.It's more for safety. Just as we'd understand the reluctance of a single girl to come to ours by herself.Besides... more hands are better than 2!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'cupcakefortwo'I like to play alone with the girl, but only if hubs is in the general area, such as room/house/dwelling/hotel room.It's more for safety. Just as we'd understand the reluctance of a single girl to come to ours by herself.Besides... more hands are better than 2!didnt you have a thread about handling your husbands rejection? isnt playing solo with her while hes in the 'general area', exactly that?
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RHP User
12 years ago
No, actually playing solo to me, is when he hasn't ever met the girl..when he's not involved in any of the decision making, or any conversational interaction, and/or then doesn't join in. And for us, the thread I posted about was the guy and girl wanted just me, and not him at all.. x Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'cupcakefortwo'I like to play alone with the girl, but only if hubs is in the general area, such as room/house/dwelling/hotel room.It's more for safety. Just as we'd understand the reluctance of a single girl to come to ours by herself.Besides... more hands are better than 2!didnt you have a thread about handling your husbands rejection? isnt playing solo with her while hes in the 'general area', exactly that?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Does it count if Im a lesbian trapped in a mans body? Dont tell me to go f myself.......Its not that easy. Quoting 'cupcakefortwo' No, actually playing solo to me, is when he hasn't ever met the girl..when he's not involved in any of the decision making, or any conversational interaction, and/or then doesn't join in. And for us, the thread I posted about was the guy and girl wanted just me, and not him at all.. x Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'cupcakefortwo'I like to play alone with the girl, but only if hubs is in the general area, such as room/house/dwelling/hotel room.It's more for safety. Just as we'd understand the reluctance of a single girl to come to ours by herself.Besides... more hands are better than 2!didnt you have a thread about handling your husbands rejection? isnt playing solo with her while hes in the 'general area', exactly that?
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Taby_DK
12 years ago
LOL sorry to confuse you. Yes we do both have single profiles from when we both use to be single (we met through rhp) I didnt see the point of deleting my single profile because its verified and Im using it to look for women. We then decided to set up a couples profile once we offically started dating to look for single girls/couples/events. He has his own single profile he never uses nor has he updated it but hes a guy they do that... lol I trust him completly so it doesnt worry me at all that he still has his profile up because I know hes only interested in playing with other when hes with me. Oh and the situation has been updated. We attended a swingers club (Chateau Vino) on the Gold Coast and took a dive right into the deep end and had a very eye opening time with some couples/single girl from rhp. I have now played with a few girls and can say with confidence I swing both ways T.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I heard it's very easy for women to meet another woman at strip club. Maybe try that?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Can I say that girl on girl action is amazing! I have been lucky to have head my first experience as a single woman with a lesbian girl...omg! What an experience. Since meeting my man, we have been lucky enough to have had the most amazing single girl that we met. We played as a threesome, but my man was comfortable enough to leave us alone & we spent plenty of time with me helping her to feel comfortable with her being with another woman. If you can find it Taby_Daring, take it...I love my man, but a woman's body is simply SEXY!!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Beats us why u have a couples profile? Hope u specify females only, without hubby ever would be honest?
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Splicey
12 years ago
You look like someone I would play with if I found you in a club MrsSplicey
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RHP User
12 years ago
I too would love to do one on one with another female, the problem i have in getting a one on one is that i have put on my profile as bi curious, im pretty sure that i would love a female and make it a regular thing but would be lying if i put im bi becoz ive never been there yet, i too have 3 profiles, one as a couple, hubby has his own and i have my own, when i want to participate with my husband, we use our couples profile, when we both want to go alone with other people, then we use our individual profile, quite simple really,
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rk5tar
12 years ago
Taby I am in the same situation. I've tried altering my profile so many times and either get nothing, or get someone who just wants to text incessantly and not commit to a meet up.I sort of understand on one hand. I like to play one one one with females, my husband would like to watch down the track and maybe be open if the lady is way down the track to participate.The thing is, I don't want to play with someone else's man, my husband has also said this is a no no. To me it's like we all want the same thing, to play with another female and have our man watch maybe, yet maybe thats it? Maybe we have a similar feeling of not being comfortable with the lady's partner being involved? That's how I try to reason it anyway.I'm always open and upfront in my profile and when chatting to women about it, so I don't just spring it on them about involving my husband, because I don't think that's right or fair. I don't know what else to do about it besides stick with it. I would be glad to get some feedback.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hello any ladies who would like an experienced bi sexual woman msg me I am so sick of fakie 180's who say there by but when it comes to the crunch there straighties.My man works hard away and im in search of that companionship as well as pleasing in the room I'm not satisfied until I make you squirm with anticipation as to what I will do next hmmm? If only there were real woman out there not just after a slice of my man its getting really annoying :/
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey Sam, Catch up with us...Tia's the real deal....
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am a genuine bi sexual woman who wants to only play with another female one on one. I dont want your partner involved in any way. I agree with sarahcurious the trouble I can see with many of the females from couples who have posted on this thread they all want someone to play with them and their partner sometime down the line 'if' the single female is comfortable. When I read this I run a mile....why? Because to me that reads as if there is going to be pressure to me to play with the both of you at some stage. That youre just trying to lure me in with the female to subtly apply pressure for a FFM. I have 2 playmates I can do this with comfortably, no pressure I really dont want any more. Taby Im glad you have had your experiences at clubs and are comfortable with your sexuality. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Lost_Focus' I am a genuine bi sexual woman who wants to only play with another female one on one. I dont want your partner involved in any way. I agree with sarahcurious the trouble I can see with many of the females from couples who have posted on this thread they all want someone to play with them and their partner sometime down the line 'if' the single female is comfortable. When I read this I run a mile....why? Because to me that reads as if there is going to be pressure to me to play with the both of you at some stage. That youre just trying to lure me in with the female to subtly apply pressure for a FFM. I have 2 playmates I can do this with comfortably, no pressure I really dont want any more. Taby Im glad you have had your experiences at clubs and are comfortable with your sexuality. Kisses Focus yep i run a mile as well this is why i don't have a couple profile as i don't want to lure in another woman for my man.....stuff him lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'friskyfun2012' Quoting 'Lost_Focus' I am a genuine bi sexual woman who wants to only play with another female one on one. I dont want your partner involved in any way. I agree with sarahcurious the trouble I can see with many of the females from couples who have posted on this thread they all want someone to play with them and their partner sometime down the line 'if' the single female is comfortable. When I read this I run a mile....why? Because to me that reads as if there is going to be pressure to me to play with the both of you at some stage. That youre just trying to lure me in with the female to subtly apply pressure for a FFM. I have 2 playmates I can do this with comfortably, no pressure I really dont want any more. Taby Im glad you have had your experiences at clubs and are comfortable with your sexuality. Kisses Focus yep i run a mile as well this is why i don't have a couple profile as i don't want to lure in another woman for my man.....stuff him lol It reeks of male insecurity, and selfishness: Just wanting someone elses wife and not wanting another male near his wife.
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