RHP

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Couples Looking At Single Mens Profiles

January 27 2013

Ok. Silly question. I have noticed that sometimes I get couples looking at my profile. But they are couples that have listed on their profile that they are looking for women or other couples only. I don't mind. Makes me feel special (that was a joke). But then I click on their profile and see that they are looking for women only and (seriously) I get this guilty feeling as though I have just invaded their privacy. My question is this, do people really get pissed off if you click on their profile when your obviously not what they are looking for?- Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    No.... How could anyone? If anything, it's flattering. We don't mind if anyone looks at our profile, as we feel it would be unreasonable to be upset by it.....unless someone is looking many many times without at least saying hi.... We are a bit the same when out and about...even when ''out'' is the nude beach lol.... Looking is good....ogling staring and being creepy about it isnt.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    No.... How could anyone? If anything, it's flattering. We don't mind if anyone looks at our profile, as we feel it would be unreasonable to be upset by it.....unless someone is looking many many times without at least saying hi.... We are a bit the same when out and about...even when ''out'' is the nude beach lol.... Looking is good....ogling staring and being creepy about it isnt.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Seriously, why worry about that??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Doesn't bother me at all. What is really funny is when you peek at their profile out of curiosity and end up blocked rofl. Who looks at someone they are not interested in and then blocks them without them ever having looked?? I get quite a few single men looking at my profile and I figure......Who cares?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I guess it's because people read my posts on here. No problem at all. Any attention is good attention.   Just don't bother sending me flirts.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Sometimes I click on a profile even if I'm not interested in meeting the person because their profile picture might catch my eye and I want to have a closer look.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    A few years ago, a couple posted a topic complaining that older people were viewing their profile. They were just showing their immaturity. Seriously, if people complain about other members viewing their profile, they shouldn't be on here. They should build a bridge and get over it.

  • Lifes_great

    Lifes_great

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Ms_Devious' I guess it's because people read my posts on here. No problem at all. Any attention is good attention.   Just don't bother sending me flirts.I wasn't perving...honest

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I like to put a face... ummm errr body or something to the posts. I don't really bother with flirts either most are sent by guests and since I am one too, no way of contacting each other anyway.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    A couple of years ago.. I clicked on a couples profile.. next day, (or sometime soon anyway) they clicked on mine... I forgot who they were.. so I clicked on them.. (Shit.. come on.. you look at thirty profiles.. who can remember them all??) Same thing happened a day or two later... then I got this REALLY fckd off message from them... Telling me to fck off.. and asking who the fck I thought I was that they would be interested in me... :)   *chuckles*...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I agree with what was said. You often have to click on the same profile as you cannot remember who they were as you've perved at so many profiles!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I would be happy to get couples looking at my profile, out of the last 10 people to look at my profile, 8 are male :-/ but I don't care if they look, I don't care if they message me, but I'm not even going to bother messaging back if they couldn't even look to see I'm straight. If its just a friendly message to say hi or talk about a post then I'll always reply. Who cares who looks. What confuses me the most is when I see a particular girl or couple look at my profile 10 times and when I send a message asking if they're gonna say hi, they message back saying they don't see our planets colliding, wtf.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    There have been posted about people getting angry for being viewed by someone they are not looking for. I once was banned for looking at a profile that wasn't looking for male- so yeah those people exist.Still, it's a public website. If they put their profile up here, by action, they allow anyone to be seen.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ...you weren't being obnoxious at the time were you? That's usually why a person would get banned.

  • cbdlivin

    cbdlivin

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Ms_Devious' I guess it's because people read my posts on here. No problem at all. Any attention is good attention.   Just don't bother sending me flirts. I only click on your profile for lust reasons....I swear....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    i get the same feeling when i look and girls who want girls only appear as far as couples go well its all about getting myself noticed !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The annoying part is I've looked at mesmerised profile that many times cause I try to read a forum. Not saying its a bad read though - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Also if a guest looks at your page several times are they interested should I MSG them? Should I be flattered? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    My profile is about as long as this forum, so I can understand people having trouble to read it in one go. I am curious though. I get the same people checking out my profile for days at a time, and I have no idea why. Might be a question for a new thread...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Even.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Mesmerised' My profile is about as long as this forum, so I can understand people having trouble to read it in one go. I am curious though. I get the same people checking out my profile for days at a time, and I have no idea why. Might be a question for a new thread...   I can tell you why, you're hot :P

  • Splicey

    Splicey

    11 years ago

    I have no issues with looking. I find it awkward when people outside of our requirements contact us, because then I feel like they've put us in a position to say no - even technically we already have they just ignored it.

  • him_and_me

    him_and_me

    11 years ago

    I look at someone's profile because I find what they say in a forum interesting and I want to know more about them as a person. Sometimes their profile pic is just hot and I want to see more.Sometimes I view the profile of someone who has looked at us (sometimes this happens more than once if I forget who I've looked at!!)Lots of reasons - none of them sinister.