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Couples Profile when not Bi.

March 08 2010

Hi all... I mentioned to a friend that I was thinking of creating a couples profile (with a fellow RHP guy). My friend's comment was, "but you're not bi". His point was that couples are only interested in another couple if the woman is bi-sexual. I'm happy if the other woman is bi, doesn't bother me. I'm comfortable being naked, our bodies touching. I just don't find it a sexual turn on and I don't want oral or digital penetration with a woman. Would this make me less attractive to others when I try and attract other couples ? I'm just looking at some foursome fun. I'm happy to have sex in the same room, to swap partners or just for another couple to watch. I just don't want female on female. I think that still leaves lots of possibilities. Thanks for your thoughts, Miss Saturn

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RHP User

15 years ago

You don't have to be bi... as long as you're not scared by being in contact with another woman! There's plenty of possibilities without bi F... its true many couples include a bi female, but... Everyone has their own boundaries and most people are well able to have fun and respect all your boundaries!

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RHP User

15 years ago

I (fem) am not bi either! Hmmm - maybe this explains many things...

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RHP User

15 years ago

Like all the boundaries, rules, couples can come up with being Bi is one of them.I think it can be a preference for some couples,it's not necessarily the golden rule for most. I agree there are many many different possibilities of play time some of which you have mentioned above. Giddyup!! The key is being upfront and honest and state that in your profile and any couple wanting to play with you and your man should respect that. Its like any of the above you have mentioned, whilst you are for full swap some couples are not, doesnt mean that a whole lotta fun cant be had once you have set up the rules for the night. Also its generally speaking only one night so it just aint on the menu for once...no biggie.. Now when are you coming up to Sydney? The chardy is on ice!!

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RHP User

15 years ago

Yes Miss Saturn dont forget Taipan when you venture up this way..There are some Museums i want to show you !

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RHP User

15 years ago

I have in the past been part of a couple that swings and i am not bi and we always found plenty of people to play with. I get you Miss_Saturn. Brits and Celts, she probably doesn't mind bodies touching etc, I think what she is getting at is that she doesn't want a full on 1-1 or playtime with the female only. I never minded being touched by a female, I didn't freak, but i'm just not sexually turned on by females and yes there are lots of possibilities, it doesn't have to be a straight swap.

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RHP User

15 years ago

Wow... it's been great to read all your thoughts. If I don't start a couples profile with one of my current guys then I will in the near future. Saturn65... watch out... I WILL be visiting YOU !!!! I'm just wondering if I should fold Trish up and put her in my suitcase ... she'd probably fit ! xx Miss Saturn

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RHP User

15 years ago

Couples playing together is not reserved for Bi couples only, Straight couples dont mean seperate rooms or all four not playing together. For example Two girls working together on a guy or visa versa there is going to be same sex contact but the attention is directed at the opposite sex not the same sex. Some of the truely Bi couples will tell you that they only play if there is same sex play on the agenda, while others may feel frustrated knowing that they cant play with the same sex because it was agreed to before hand, these normally you wont hear from again. We would estimate you reduce potential contacts by around 60% - 80% if you both are straight but there is plenty of matches out that...Dont let that stop you. Cheers

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2more4fun

15 years ago

Please also don't be discouraged from contacting couples where the female is bi though unless they state in their profiles that they are only seeking bisexual women.Being bi just means your options are doubled. Most ladies are more than happy to go to Option M if Option F isn't available :D

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RHP User

15 years ago

we have similar issues, our priorty is to meet couples, the female of us will play with a sexy female, that she is attracted to . Being bi doeesnt mean jumping into bed with anyone, you still have aspects that you find attractive etc. We believe most profiles on here are created by the men, wanting there partners to be bi, though most couples we meet, are straight, with the fems being curious or happy to play with only the most perfect partner. That doesnt mean perfect in looks and body, but perfect in what they like. Advertise for what you are after, thats all that matters. Or come to qld, and we will be more than happy to ensure you get what you want........... Just our 2 cents worth. PS: when are you sexy people from attadale coming to qld again...........

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RHP User

15 years ago

Quoting 'cranic' We believe most profiles on here are created by the men, wanting there partners to be bi, though most couples we meet, are straight Hey cranic, we never found that at all, nearly all the couples we met had bi women and they never needed any encouragement from their men.Infact they needed a little bit of restraining,lol. I think we've only ever met one couple where the chick was straight.

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2more4fun

15 years ago

Was hoping to get over to Qld for Easter but looks like another time later this year now. Will let you guys know for sure :D x

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