RHP

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Couples and married guys

January 06 2013

I received a rejection from a married couple just recently who said that the fact that I was married was a strike against me. I must insert big thanks to them for actually replying. But I digress... I’m confused as to why this would be a deal breaker for a couple as my wife knows (and is enthusiastic about it), I’m very upfront about it, they said they were looking for men and I was within their target age-group. Now single girls not wanting a married guy; that makes 100% sense to me. As a couple, we’re quite like the married guys. Actually, it’s kinda preferable as we have a friend who had a single guy decide that he was madly in love with her and…well….some Olympic level weirdness ensued and both wife and hubby were not amused.... Question: why would married couples not want to play with a married guy?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Even though you may be honest about it, these couples may find it simpler to focus on singles. I'm afraid you have a great deal of competition and they get to take their pick. C'est la vie.

  • justswingingbi

    justswingingbi

    12 years ago

    We play with married and single guys. If she knows well and good and if she doesn't that's his decision to make. We are not the morality police... Judgement comes in many shapes and forms. And you had us at foot massages... Mr Justswinging hates feet!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We have played with married guys (we didn't know at the time) and found that they are very time limited so now if a guy says he is married and has his wife's permission we say there is no problems with that but we would like her to come to meet us with him and when we have a coffee to tell us in person and surprise surprise we haven't had anyone take us up on the offer

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    so....you're married... does that mean you are available at short notice? free to meet on a Saturday evening? able to host? flexible? reliable? just being in a 'target age group' doesnt guarantee a meet...there are many things to consider, including whether or not a couple looks at your pics and sees someone they'd like to play with...remembering of course, that you have 2 people to impress.... add things like being attached, and the odds become increasingly against you...especially when there are so many singles here also looking, and so many couples who also fit the criteria...........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I know heaps of married couples that are permitted to play separate and they never have a problem getting guys or girls or couples to play with. Don't know why you all just look on sites for playmates, when there is always a great pick of patrons at ci that are there for just that reason. Leesa

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    after reading your profile ..well most of it...I think you are on a fishing expedition here.You ask the question''Can I guy be too awesome?''...welll obviously...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I could do with an "awesomeness" equal in my life.   LOL... love the tongue in cheek profile, so refreshing and entertaining to read. Nice change from the 1-2 liners that really say nothing and "if you want to know more" please contact them!!!! Not to mention the Ask Me or multiple choice bog standard profile which has even less charisma.   Too bad the rest of your profile doesn't meet my criteria - (wrong state and married) coz I love a man with a sense of humour.   Can't help you with the decisions couples have made so far. Maybe some real info about yourself may help them see who you really are and if you fit what they are looking.... JMO.   Good luck.   SFxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It's all well and good to say the wife is ok with it, but for all they know your blowing smoke up their ass. And are just using that as an excuse to cheat on your wife.   If you want to continue looking for couples and your wife really is ok with it all maybe you should introduce her to them. That way everyone can sit down and talk.   But each couple will have made decisions on their own comfort level and criteria etc.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    WTF happened there. My earlier response was meant for another thread. Looks like Freya and I got side swiped Sorry OP but RHP seem to be losing the plot lately!   SFxx