RHP

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M53 F53

Couples, can all 4 click

February 01 2013

Hi, finding it very difficult to find a couple to secretly seduce my wife. Either she is hot or he isn't or he is hot and she isn't. Is it really that hard for all 4 to find all four attractive?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quite hard to find a couple that you both like...Just keep on looking and enjoy the journey, as the rewards are worth it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We find it so fascinating who people end up with. Yes there generally is a gap in attractiveness between the two. We all have different tastes so we cannot argue.Generally though, the personalities you will meet through this will make people more attractive and it all works out. If you hold out for the perfect couple you may be waiting a while and then they may not be into you.Good luck

  • jenniecruising

    jenniecruising

    12 years ago

    Welcome to the world of swinging :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Met a couple online and we all clicked.   A story about when things didn't go so well. My booty guy and I were at a swingers club in the US where the party was held at a suite in a hotel that had lots of outbuildings that held about 6 rooms each in close proximity. At the end of the fabulous party, my guy told me had had asked another couple to our room. I asked him to point out who and when he did I said.."ooh, I don't like him he is not hot or sexy at all" (she was). As we walked to our room I said I didn't want them to come over because how were we going to tell the guy we liked his partner but not him. My booty guy said.."we'll just tell him that we want to play with his wife". I said "I am sure he'll be find with being told he cannot participate and has to sit in a chair in the corner". When we got inside our room I asked.."so what exactly did you say"... he said "I said come up to room 245 at 1 am". I said..."but we're not in room 245". Terrible accident. So we lay in bed and giggled every time we heard a noise outside as we imagined this couple arriving at a strangers door at 1 am!!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Now that's what I call dodging a bullet. Your booty guy must have had a bad case of blood going to his head, the wrong head. Sometimes stupidity can pay off!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    as 4 people is an 6 way relationship. There is: 1st couple male and 1st couple female relationship. 1st couple male and 2nd couple female relationship. 1st couple male and 2nd couple male relationship. Maybe straight but need to get along. 1st couple female and 2nd couple female relationship. 1st couple female and 2nd couple male relationship. 2nd couple male and 2nd couple female relationship. That’s why God invented alcohol, lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Rainbowdolphin is right, there are 4 people in a six way relationship. Which is why we don't judge a book by its cover. The people we get in contact with may not always be the most physically attractive (very very very subjective thing) but if they have great personalities, that's more sexy than any fluffy packaging. The people could be ridiculously hot but if they have no personality, no sense of humour, no sense of fun, well... you might as well fuck a blow up doll.