Couples club for beginners

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Most nights you can comfortably go along and just observe if that is what you would like, always up to you how far things go in any situation......We are yet to attend one ourselves, very exciting!!...God Luck and have a fantastic time!

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  You can take your time, do what you want, and ease your way into it at any club and at any time. I would go on a theme night myself as there are more people and they are more fun nights. Unfortunately normal nights can be pretty quiet at swingers clubs. There are often newbies there and if not, doesn't matter. Are you social people? Are happy to strike up conversations with strangers in a bar where everyone is there to meet and chat and are friendly? Just make the effort to chat to people and you will be fine. There are also lots of threads about swingers clubs and first time experiences in the couples section.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  There was this long thread about Couples Club and lots of couples posted on it describing their first time there but I can't find it anymore? Anyone know where it went?

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  As a couple you'll be paying 150.- to get in, plus 50.- deposit for a locker key. Upstairs is a bar area, with and outdoor smoking courtyard. Porn will be playing above the bar and there is usually a stripper during the night. Alcohol is byo, they keep it behind the bar for you, in the fridge. Mixers and nibbles are freely available. You'll find couples of all different ages, I've seen as young as 19, as well as 60+. There may be single girls as well. I've been a few times with two single girlfriends, heaps of fun! Some nights it's busy, some not. Fridays are usually good, especially the first one of the month (Angels and Demons night, where people dress up a little more). You can dress in whatever you feel like. Some people choose to stay fully dressed in the bar area. A lot will walk around in nice underwear/lingerie and you'll probably see some patent leather. You can wear heels, though if you go downstairs to play it is encouraged you take them off, so you don't take someone's eye out ;-)The club provides knee length sarongs, but really anything goes. I met a gentleman once who wore nothing but his dress shoes and socks! The club opens at 9, which is when I like to go. It gets busier around 10/10.30 and it's usually full by 11.Going early will give guys a good chance to look around and think about what you'd like to do! You can start playing by yourself to get in the mood too. There are several small rooms downstairs that are very dark and have a curtain, rather than a door. There is a larger room with a large mattress, as well as a leather swing and some paddles for spanking.Then there is the big room, with several mattresses and mirrors. Group action can take place here, though a lot of couples still just have sex together. Great for watching! You can watch everywhere, all rooms have peepholes. Lube and condoms are in all areas. There are two showers and loos, which is plenty. Bring your own soap though. Towels come with the locker, but I tend to bring my own. All their towels are the same, I would not want to pick up someone else's by mistake, lol. Ehh, what else? Anything goes really, except male-on-male action. Before you touch anyone, always ask. A lot of people don't, which seems to be a pet peeve of many. If someone approaches you who you’re not interested in, you could say “We’re good, thank you” or “Invitation only, thanks”, as I myself like to do.And as a couple, you are expected to play together. If your man ventures out on his own, he is likely to be told off. Have fun!

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  http://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Swingers-club-advice-for-first-timer-48635

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  I think the thread was 2 yrs old about but was getting resurrected frequently. It went on for numerous pages and there were a lot of couples that spoke about their first time.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Can't look for it, due to that stupid glitch that won't let you get past the first page of topics/posts. Will ask tech support again.

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