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Couples expectations of Men and their Conformity
October 13 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
They wanted a pic of your cock to prove you were real?! That just screams male pic collector to me. Even if they are actually a couple, they seem to be looking for a dildo, not a human being.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well I am surprised they didn't ask for you to picture your turgid member against a ruler as proof of your measurements. Although I did hear there was one guy who snapped off the first 3 inches of the ruler so he appeared to be 10". Although maybe he stuck the first three inches up his arse, who knows with you crazy kids. :P
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
We doubt very much that they were a couple, but rather just a guy pretending to be one. We only ever open our PG's to verified profiles. There are just too many fake photo collectors out there. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Twisted_Mister
10 years ago
With some couples there's the belief that blokes will do anything to get their end wet, and that they can be shoved around in the process. About six months back I met and chatted with a couple - all expectations were raised and agreed on. Once in the bedroom though, all that went out the door in the apparent belief that I would follow their 'new' rules. I was out the door two minutes later. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
When hubby and I invite another man to join us, we have to meet the person, not the dick. Personally I want to know that I am sexually attracted to the guy and it really doesn't matter about the size of his organ, it's how they use it and stimulate you..... Yes, I know some want the big dick for the sensation, but geez how boring if that's all it is.......
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Theres a reason why you listed your endowment as 8-9 and thick..... right?! And dont give me the.... "Oh, I just wanted to be honest and upfront" line either. You reap what you sow. If you write an advert which states that youre a Dom, with XZY dick and your ea leader etc etc, ... you have to be prepared to accept that some people are going to challenge you on proving the points YOU decided to write. How you handle being challenged like that....well.... that would tell me the kind of personality you have. DG
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Theres a reason why you listed your endowment as 8-9 and thick..... right?! I have listed that I'm a D-cup and waxed, but would not be happy with utter strangers asking me for pics of either fact.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Theres a reason why you listed your endowment as 8-9 and thick..... right?! And dont give me the.... "Oh, I just wanted to be honest and upfront" line either. You reap what you sow. If you write an advert which states that youre a Dom, with XZY dick and your ea leader etc etc, ... you have to be prepared to accept that some people are going to challenge you on proving the points YOU decided to write. How you handle being challenged like that....well.... that would tell me the kind of personality you have. DG DG, you are absolutely correct, however standard profile form asks for this info as it does height and body type etc. These forms are there to ..oh guess what.. to inform people of what you are like. Those that leave the fields blank or just provide the template responses give the reader nothing to work with. For me I completed as requested. In regards to your comments about the rest of my profile all I can say is settle petal, stating that I am Dom etc. has nothing to do with my dick size or providing photos of it unless you’re suggesting dick size demonstrates sexual persuasion?
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monicabell
10 years ago
Excitement and knowledge of what to do with whatever size is what is really exciting..no imagination, no enticement becomes vanilla sex. Spank me any time over 9 inch shades of grey.
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wisnaeme
10 years ago
I understand that there is more to good sex than just how big a guys member is or a woman's breasts. But don't forget we are on a sex site and most people are on here to fulfil some sort of fantasy so don't complain when someone who is looking for a big cock fantasy asks for a pic to prove it. There are enough time wasters on here to make people a bit cynical. If they're shallow people move on don't take it personally. take a pic you might get lucky :)) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
As a part time gyno.....I'd still take a look :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
guys lie about their cock size before. Not that it is an issue to me, I would prefer the truth to an over exaggeration. One guy said he was 8-9" then he was more like 5-6". Maybe that is why they want confirmation. As a couple it is their fantasy you are joining and there are probably heaps of guys who would jump at the opportunity even if it did mean measuring up. There are plenty out there and especially cuckold couples who prefer men with bigger appendages to humiliate the husband and if someone rocks up ready to go and doesn't have the desired equipment then it has all been a waste of time I would think. Just like you are a Dom and would look for a sub, their fantasy is a guy with a big dick, big deal. If it is such a big issue then just move along, I don't really get why you are so offended.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' guys lie about their cock size before. Not that it is an issue to me, I would prefer the truth to an over exaggeration. One guy said he was 8-9" then he was more like 5-6". Maybe that is why they want confirmation. As a couple it is their fantasy you are joining and there are probably heaps of guys who would jump at the opportunity even if it did mean measuring up. There are plenty out there and especially cuckold couples who prefer men with bigger appendages to humiliate the husband and if someone rocks up ready to go and doesn't have the desired equipment then it has all been a waste of time I would think. Just like you are a Dom and would look for a sub, their fantasy is a guy with a big dick, big deal. If it is such a big issue then just move along, I don't really get why you are so offended. It is always so hard in writing an email or message to get the true meaning of your comments heard. Having been connected with this site for many years not much really offends me but creates curiosities about the why people do things as much as the end results they finnish up with. The information at the begining of the post was to give a background of what I believe occurrs quite often. The two questions were more what I wanted to ask the forum to comment on. Not so much about my experience but everyone elses. I do believe there is a perception out there by many that all men are desperate and will do almost anything to get laid and while some guys do a lot to maintain this, many others a very genuine.
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PL1963
10 years ago
Simple, just tell em' you need cam chat with both of them at once before you go any further, perhaps the GLW does want to check out the "monster", but she'll have to be prepared to show her face 1st. But going by what I've experienced it's most probably a married Gay/Bi guy just wanting to "crackle his own tackle" over your pic's. Cheers P.L.
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Smilingwithfun
10 years ago
If their profile said they wanted a well endowed male or they said that it was what made them contact you & yours states you are, & they were the ones who started the contact then, I see no problem in them asking. You as always have the right to respond or not. Perhaps they have had their share of False Advertising. Thankyou for that tip meeka, I'm off to find a ruler & a saw. I'll have to cut the ruler in half.
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RHP User
10 years ago
a man who doesn't take a picture of his dangly bits...but I suppose it's all about what the couples are looking for and if a large cock does it for them...well proof of life is going to be on their agenda...welcome to the world of the sex object Mr.Dom xxQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' their fantasy is a guy with a big dick, big deal. If it is such a big issue then just move along, I don't really get why you are so offended. I really didn't get the impression the OP was "so offended" at all. In fact he said: "I have just answered a chat request from a couple who were attracted to my profile because of my “well endowed” status. Which is cool,..." Wasn't the issue just them demanding a pic?
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Im more metal, than petal. Nice try though lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ask for skype chat to put an end to any issues with reality
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'ralf74' their fantasy is a guy with a big dick, big deal. If it is such a big issue then just move along, I don't really get why you are so offended. I really didn't get the impression the OP was "so offended" at all. In fact he said: "I have just answered a chat request from a couple who were attracted to my profile because of my “well endowed” status. Which is cool,..." Wasn't the issue just them demanding a pic? I don't see the issue at all considering all the things people want on this site from height to weight to dick size, boob size, income, background, sex style, whether someone can cum in your mouth, if you will take it up the arse, spank you, tie you up, whatever...if someone rocks up with something they have claimed and then don't fit the bill then isn't it a waste of everyone's time? We have threads all the time about people lying in their profiles and time wasters so wouldn't a simple picture help solve that?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Good point Ralf. We want to the coke can test. And not those new little piddle $2 cans. We want a pic of your dick against the 375ml can Thanks! Gee I haven't seen a pic like that for years... Disadvantages of being a guest I suppose.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Like the idea of Skype. You show your face, I'll show my cock.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Like you , I dont like the look of dic pic's either. I find it totally unnecessary. But thats me.. According to some of the women ( and men ) here , they like to see the goods where others loathe it. Im still of the opinion if you cant sell yourself, your dick wont do it either.. Besides' isnt it better to save something as a surprise ????
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RHP User
10 years ago
"Which is cool, but the conversation went rapidly cold when I would not provide them with a dick pic to prove to them I was real, of which I could have sent any pic from the internet and they would have been no better off." That comment raises a flag for me. While I share your sentiment on the penis photo in profiles, you say that the couple contacted you BECAUSE you made reference to your penis size, and you chose to share that point of reference publicly. It seems that most guys think their penis, if bigger than "average", must be shared with the world at large..........so I don't know why you would write that you could search the internet for a pic of some other guys penis, if you're genuine. Most guys claiming to be 8-9+ wouldn't even think to write that.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I suppose the point is that anyone can upload a pic from anywhere of any who. So it is a complete waste of time trying to use a pic to thin out those that are deliberately misleading because they can send you one of Godzilla's prick and you would be any the wiser (accept for the scales..lol so maybe Mischeviouslad can help out with his Dino) So really it is a waste of time asking. About the only way to know is as above Skype or meet.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Like the idea of Skype. You show your face, I'll show my cock. I can just set it now.. Take one..Cue the erection! oh try take two? maybe take three...doh
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'DomOvrU'I can just set it now.. Take one..Cue the erection! Your cock is only 8-9 inches when erect?
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