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Couples joining other couples

May 22 2010

Ok, I would like some thought and now how other people have gone about this. We have been talking with her hubby and he has started flirted and telling me things he would love to do with 4 in the bedroom. My hubby and I have been had another female which we were comfortable with but was not a close friend. Would love this to go ahead as he is seems to be a turn on for me. Looking for other peoples thought on this subject and how they have found it.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Heh, Capital raises a valid point and also probably had the answer. You need to talk to everyone :) Good luck, hope it goes well!

  • nort4t

    nort4t

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'customer69'roll over, roll over...There were three in the bed and the angry wife said, get the f**k outta that chick's ?The only thing i can think of that rhyme's with bed is HEAD.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'customer69'roll over, roll over...There were three in the bed and the angry wife said, get the f**k outta that chick's ? hahahahhahahahaha............. I laughed when I read this post... but truer words have never been written... If a couple are going to 'play' ALL need to talk openly about do's and dont's .... what they are acceptable with and where the boundries are.... some have zero boundries and do the full swap thing, others are more dare i say it - respectful... regardless of what you may want... remember the implications ... just be open and honest.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'newstart64' some have zero boundries and do the full swap thing, others are more dare i say it - respectful... Can I not have respect for my wife if she sleeps with somebody else with my blessing and in my presence? Or vice-versa?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    37 .... We are guessing you are new to this , if not only the whole swinging thing RHP forums. So here goes .... First TALK to everyone involved ............ then talk a bit more ........talk again ......... then (yup you guessed it didnt you) talk a little more ........ Its the way we have noticed it works best. Now another thingy about the forums, peps here getting a little touchy about single girls ... who are in Fact a couple (Now you lot be nice) So go grab a couple one and you'll sooth everyone down ...... and then ask away .... we are sure you will have loads more questions ! Hope you have a good time and we hear from you more. BnS

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hi 37, We agree with whats said above... You should sort out a couples profile, that way there's no room for confusion or criticism. Then talk talk talk... openness and communication is the key. If ye can't talk as a couple or group about swinging, then chances are the actual experience will go arseways. Miscommunications, crossed boundaries, insecurities and jelousy could all creep in... You don't want that do you? Well, chat away with you hubby and prospective partners and let the fun begin! S&M

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'customer69'roll over, roll over...There were three in the bed and the angry wife said, get the f**k outta that chick's ? LMFAO, this is sooo true. A long long time ago we had a 3some (fmf/ffm it turned out) All started good but as I had 1 on my cock and one on my face, all was good. But when I started to do the other female, I was tossed asided by my partner and it turned into a ffm. Yes I was given access to my partners pussy but she had her head buried into that other vagina and was given no access. I loved it!! but walk with caution, your queen is your queen and if offered something else, dabble but don't indulge! Yes we have the full tried and tested swingers here but if you are exploring? and love your wife/partner, dabble! Share the moment but put your girl first, second and third! She is happy to play but you play third. Don't shoot me down you main players, you were new at this once and had the same inhibition of how it was going to be. I don't know nothing but understand the emotions of a loved one going into a unknown area. Have safe words, look at each other all the time, feed off each other, not the extra. One is for stimulation (They are happy for it) but have your mind set to each other. Life is empty without your girl/man next to you and at the end of the day, it's you and her/him!!!!! all else is furnishings. Every song, every writer writes the passion between a man and a female. Yes we test this boundary but the best writer/song who tested it come up with, "It is better to have loved, than never loved at all". Test this boundry but never forget to check this as you go along your path and never think you are weak in asking " Should we be here?" and "Shall we continue?". I wrote poems for the the unforgotten many years ago. I sat on the streets of the "golden mile" as a friend and heard the crys of many a soul, many a friend. I've seen in the eyes of hope, I've seen in the eyes "survival" but no words can cradle the lonesome cries of a untouched soul, that can't be touched. You can never go back and as many can say " A relationship here can end very easily" so have each other in mind, have each other close, walk the boundries of your fetish but never forget that dusty cobweb when you first met! Gentleman Jack I salute you! Jack I'm coming back but no matter where you roam, your wife, your life! she is your everything, she has your back!