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Couples - photo's of both please
August 18 2009
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RHP User
15 years ago
I find it annoying also. Usually it is the man that is missing from the profile and it seems it is because the woman is used as bait. If we are going to play with a couple then it is important to know who both of the couple are, that means being able to see pics of both and have contact with both.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes it does. A picture says a 1000 words. Unfortunatly the qty of pics on RHP are limited in number but couples should try and balance pics = male and female. That is if they are after couples. Mars
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RHP User
15 years ago
Whats worse is I found some couples have pics of Mrs couple and then a few pics of a car or bike... Really Wtf Why do that?? Or am I suppose to think the car or bikes hot so the male half must be.. Dah.. Fair enough if you don't want to show your face. Put a smiley face over it, black it out.. Do whatever to your pic just have some there.. Of both!! Geez..
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RHP User
15 years ago
yes, it would be great to see photos of both... the sexy girl shot first works fine for me ;-) but would love to see the guy too
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RHP User
15 years ago
It does!BUT in saying that, in our couples profile on the outside we only display the pics of myself and then in our private galleries there are pics of us both simply because he doesnt want to be displayed on the public one
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RHP User
15 years ago
it shits us too. we have my pic on our profile page, but we do have his pic in our pg and i think it's a shame that alot of couples don't have pics of the Male anywhere (either in public or private gallery). We like to full swap swing, so we want to see what both people in the couple are like, not just the girl.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Agree with OhSo and meandering that we're satisfied as long as pics are in pg.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We definitely have pics of both - only face shots on PG for obvious reasons. We are a couple so present as a couple - no sense fooling ourselves that prospective friends will play with us when there is only a 50% attraction - that'd be naive and against our own policy of playing together. From our bi female half it is frustrating not being able to see if there will be an attraction to the other male - why not just be up front from the start? One other relative point tho - even we have MANY more shots of gal than guy - he is usually the photographer - just seems to work out that way - will try to balance that in future :) Happy playing one and all
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RHP User
15 years ago
I suppose we would prefer to see both of the couples photos in the public area..makes it easier to decide whether to make contact with the couple. Having said that as long as there is enough information in the write up of the profile, then we would progress to sharing PG to see both partners photos. thanks for the response everyone... I was beginning to think we were being pedantic..but so far seems like consensus is for both to be in photo's. PS - the fact that there may be more of one than the other doesn't bother us...we have quite a lot of photo's in our PG, and it changes fairly regularly, so sometimes there is more of kilee - i think it's about 50/50 atm though.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Have a look at this post of a few weeks ago. http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Forum/profile-photos-24402 We said: Privacy Interesting post and we would think there are many, many different opinions that fit peoples reasons which also will have many differences. We put a pic up of her which is un identifiable for a few reasons: 1) we both work in public jobs and need to be carefull 2) we find that most guys in the couples do the searching and that the girl is brought in when some matches have been found. 3) there is about 1 hit on a guy profile to every 500 hits on a girl profile. This is what we found on our singles profile. It is more likely to be seen if a picture of the girl is up there 4) a lot of girls claim they are bi or curious and are looking for the lady, not the man..... I agree though that if as a girl you are looking for a couple there needs to be plenty of pics of the male. When we approach a single girl for us, we do give access to our PG which has equal male and female shots of us and not of the 6 inches of us. Looking forward to other peoples opinions!
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RHP User
15 years ago
And is worse when there are no Pics at all. You ask to see Pics and get no response ( besides, lets hook up ).... There has to be chemistry there from the start and seeing the other couple helps. I know some people cant show there face for different reasons but they can be covered or edited out. K had me whinge for the day ,, lol Mr G
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RHP User
15 years ago
I soooo agree, I had also posted my thoughts on this subject under the title Profile Pics a couple of months ago questioning the reason behind not posting pics of the guys.... Hmmm interesting answeres. Ours are not that flash and are in great need of updating, but, hey at least we have something of both of us.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes, i have got couples wanting to meet me, but no pic of him! WTF! I will not be bothered with that BS!
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RHP User
15 years ago
hi there all, im very new to all this so took the time to read everyones posts, interesting to see the discussion, and i can totally understand where people are coming from. My problem is that i havent got a digital camera, and the hazy pics that i have are just not good enough. I will endevour to learn by reading these posts and see where everyones mind set is. But this one was interesting. thankyou ibernie
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RHP User
15 years ago
We don't have a digital camera either but do have a mobile phone each which take great pics these days. They're also a lot more available for those spur of the moments pic taking sessions Cheers
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RHP User
15 years ago
i always feel a bit nervous with technology and internet and whilst im no idiot with it it always seems to frustrate me on getting pics online, however after reading this forum i will endevour to do the right thing and put mine up. thanks for advice. ibernie
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RHP User
15 years ago
The reasons sexperinces give just dont add up; 1) many of us work in "public" jobs and want discretion need to be careful, an unidetifiable photo of the male is just as annoymous! or the couple together, 2) My experince is the opposite, it seems the female often does much of the searching.3) you are doing exactly what I and some others are talking about - you are using the female as some sort of 'bait' - do you not undesatnd that when seeking couples, that mean i am looking for couples - MALE and female? In an ideal world my face would be in the public partof my profile, not just bits of me, but as you say many of as need to take care.Thnakfully there is the private gallery.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I agree with LLindy that when looking to meet a couple it is best to see the couple ;)
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Mr_MrsJones
15 years ago
I totally agree with KleeTrev there needs to be at least one pic of both parties in the public gallery. I would even go further to say that a penis does not make the man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Why do we get to see nice shots of the female body and then for him i pic of his dick? Really guys sometimes you undersell your selves. Thats my gripe for tonight. However when looking at profiles I definitely like to see public shots of Mr and Mrs not necessarily faces but definitely most of their bodies.
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RHP User
15 years ago
we have pics of us both in the private gallery , but to be fair if the female half is an absolute stunner like i think my babe is the poor male cant help but look like a boof head lol , unless i get one taken of me with my bull dog lol , so yes both should be included in pics , if not in the public , in the private gallery
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yeah we like to see both people in the public section...just shows how genuine the cpl is and Im not particularly interested in see all the xxx bits..doesnt make the person as far as we're concerned. Ppl think that is all to an encounter. To me it's the person as well. You still need to converse, you might like to have a drink or dinner..some may even turn out to be friends...sex is just a part of it...
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
No photos ....no reply it's that simple! The other one that amazes us are profiles showing only a female's photo & stats. But when you read through..the last bit says " I only play if my man is involved too" ..or words to that effect. What the hell is that about?? Totally misleading!!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Having just updated OUR new profile on my new computer without access yet to past photos you will find both of us full frontal full face soon .We are on various sites & accessable. Sure some people have public professions but get real, who's lookin, if u really want to play
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RHP User
15 years ago
We think it is important to to present who you are, be it in a sexy provocative way to the general audience. and that means if you are stating that you are a couple, then both male and female photos need to appear. if you are presenting yourself as a couple and there is only a photo of a female or a pair of breasts etc then what are you hiding is the question, we all ask? I can understand that there are a lot of shy and insecure people out there, maybe this site / lifestyle is not for you. but more to the point, there is only .0001 % of the population that are models and total knockouts. and for the rest of us that are everything in between its really about being honest about who you are and what your body is like and what you look like. and we have also found that just putting pictures of pussies cocks and breast, while we all love that; after a while you think, yeah ok, every couple has those parts of their body but who are you? then their is the p.g. private gallery. again, be honest and real in them, present who you are, yeah of course they are going to nice good photos but, just be real. the worst thing would be to present someone different to who you are and then meet up for drinks with another couple and they walk in and think "who the hell are these guys?" some practical tips; 1) take lots of photos, 200, delete 195 and keep the top 5. 2) have fun with the photos, we found it so fun and erotic, great sex followed!! 3) its really ok to be yourself, we are not really expecting to see jennifer hawkins or brad pitt.
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