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Couples seeking males
January 24 2008
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2more4fun
17 years ago
But you have to keep in mind that many couples are into MFM, FMF, MFMF etc. so it's not as if they would be constantly seeking men. We turn off 'Men' when we are not actively looking. Some couples may not have the time or consideration to do the same when MFM isn't high on their list of priorities. The desire to invite a guy into play has to be mutual. No keeping just the female happy...
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RHP User
17 years ago
quite a lot of couples seek single males, but like they say not all the time we have know trouble in finding one, ours is turnd of now also
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WhispersAndMoans
17 years ago
We are really only seeking males so when we tick that box you can rest assured that is legitimate! Not saying that we will only always only want males but that is what we are currently exploring :)
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RHP User
17 years ago
In a word yes, the only question is how many. We get more responses than we can ever hope to meet :) Stay keen
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RHP User
17 years ago
We also are not looking any longer, but there was definitely no shortage, ur chances of being the chosen one are pretty slim .. not only do u have to be 'in the right place at the right time'( meaning u have to apply at the particular time that a couple is looking for a male to join them) u also have to be the one that the female finds a turn on .. and im sure u are attractive to some and not to others. Good luck and keep plugging away lol cheers Tina
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twowithnolimits
17 years ago
Agreed the ratio of guys to couples is about 50 to one, so your chances are already slim Agreed timing is crucial Agreed for some girls looks etc are very important PLUS you post your email addy but not your number, so if we were looking for a playmate tonight we wouldnt bother with you becuase its all too difficult, especially when 100's of guys have their number on show you are straight, that might suit us for large GB's but for more intimate play (3s,4s,5s) we prefer the guys to be bi as do many relaxed couples, just less stressful if the guy is more comfortable with contact you are not a paying member so you not only want the woman to go to bed with you but you want her to pay for it you dont sell yourself in your profile, there are only about three lines and they say you are looking for someone for something......you are in the most competitive market in australia and you cant do better than that??? Hope some of these observations help you with your reprofiling and expectations...good luck :-)
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RHP User
17 years ago
Thanks to all of you that replied, I used to be listed as a couple on here and we were looking for Men too, but we were never all that serious about it. Now that I'm on the receiving end of it all I was just curious to see how other couples are. Thanks once again CGlooking
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sasha4antonio
17 years ago
We are very genuine and would never tick a box we were not BOTH interested in trying.
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RHP User
17 years ago
we are now looking for a single male to play with us both
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RHP User
17 years ago
Don't stress CG males aren't the only ones left out......most cpls, NOT all cpls, say they themselves look for cpls but 99% of the time its really a female they want.....I myself have had a number of flirts and msgs showing interest but when i explain to them that i am married and dont play alone(which is clearly shown in my profile) i get the cold shoulder.......but hey its their loss not mine.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hi guys drop me an email and we can talk Lavish
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RHP User
17 years ago
As a cpl when we put our profile up at that time we were looking for cples and females at that particular time.Our preferences change from day to day as would be the case of a lot of ppl on this site.We have had so much more singe male fun by selecting randoms when we go out on the town that way we can find select talk to and invite home if we both feel comfortable with the situation.This way we can also find someone more suited to us on our level.This way it takes the awkwardness out of first meets etc.We are pretty open sort of people so we dont seem to have to much effort breaking the ice with first timers. .............xxoojandb...............
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RHP User
17 years ago
You're younger than me, far fitter than me and, based soley on those two factors, most couples would say better looking than me. But when you hit the right couple it will happen. I had my first 3some in some time not long ago with a couple off this site, both attractive and adventurous and we had a very, very good time. We exchanged emails, an SMS or two and interest developed. I certainly hope to see them again (And again, etc). Don't give up. Be fun, open and honest. Don't pretend to be someone you're not, don't be shy and don't give up. There's a lot of pretenders on this site but genuine people too. Best of luck.
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RHP User
17 years ago
1/ Going Platinum 2/ Check onto RHP three or more times throghout the day. If you do these things you're at the top of the default search tables for single guys!
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RHP User
17 years ago
Just out of curiosity, What if the guy is married but is looking to play on his own with a couple e.g. i am bi and my wife don't know i have extra caricular activities so how would i go answering a add for a single male to join a couple? Cheers
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RHP User
17 years ago
This is a tricky one... as has been said before there are more males looking for couples than vica versa - myself included. Having said that I have had some good experiences... but am currently looking for a couple that enjoy a bi MMF ;-)
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RHP User
17 years ago
hubby doesn't start dropping around on "business" trips behind his wife's back lol. For christ sake, doesn't anybody mean what they say...? Women shun because I enjoy casual sex but blokes seek for the same reason. If i was gay i'd be in a gay site, where are the women interested in casual sex? Ok, i've had a little to drink, its a Saturday night and i've been working 84 hour weeks for the last couple of weeks so too tired to get all cleaned up and go out on the fruitless search when i have to hit the tools early tomorrow. I just felt like having a little whinge because it seems like the only guys who get any action around here are living on the government, have all the time in the world and consider themselves poets *grin*
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RHP User
17 years ago
Went off the handle a bit there lol. More to the subject though watch out the the "couple" really wants a male and not just the hubby with the wife going along with it in order to please. It does happen ;).
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RHP User
17 years ago
There is a group profile on here called nudebiorgies and they have the best parties and could be what you are looking for. Loads of bi guys there. Oh and this is the female writing here. Good luck
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HotOzCouple_cc
17 years ago
We don't have single men listed in out 'looking for'. As was said, our prefs change from day to day and when we are looking, we change it. Even without that, we still get plenty of msg's and flirts from guys anyway. We're pretty picky with what we're looking for in a guy, and thats purely to OUR taste, not the general perception, so it's easier for us to find what we want when we want it. And guys that just send a flirt or a sleazy msg barely get a look in, if that helps anyone...
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RHP User
17 years ago
gday guys i really like to meet with you guys sms
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RHP User
17 years ago
We are a couple who do seek males, we prefer non bi males, when we advertise we advertise for what we seek. It would be great if those that replied would read our profile before replying... Replies from people that do not meet the criteria we ask for just get a knockback straight away and because there are so many guys we get heaps of replies. If your profile is interesting and down to earth you get our attention.
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RHP User
17 years ago
I am open to couples, str8, but happy to play 2nd fiddle, not take over, learn from it all etc, even happy to take snaps for the couple if they so desire. ok with being touched, but mainly there for the female/male pleasure
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RHP User
17 years ago
Our preference is for couples. But there are times when we seek singles, males or females. There is normally an abundance of guys. The only thing is if we want a single male, we may decide on the spur of the moment. Being the single male we would expect them to make themselves available when we are. If they can't we move on to the next one who can.
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