Creating an open relationship?

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  Missb4u

  11 years ago

  And have the same belief and confusion as you... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  My Jennylee is all I really want, I'm not overly interested in other women. We play because she wants to. I'm happy to let her because her adventurous nature excites me. For my part, I could just as easily be monogamous. I think, Talldark25, that you would need to connect with someone first and be open with each other. There will be ladies out there with a similar outlook to your own but for the relationship to survive, you may have to be ready to give up multiple partners at some stage.

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  Lovinit28andKC72

  11 years ago

  I think and this only me thinking because I have not been in this situation. Honesty and communication is a key player here. If it was me and I was in a loving committed relationship, I think I would be happy to play together with others, but not very keen for separate play dates. True believer in Play Together Stay Together, but of course this would be only if both parties where in agreeable to this situation....but if I was in love with someone. I'm really not sure how I'd feel about sharing, because love can put a completely different spin on things sometimes....💋

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  Lovinit28andKC72

  11 years ago

  I think and this only me thinking because I have not been in this situation. Honesty and communication is a key player here. If it was me and I was in a loving committed relationship, I think I would be happy to play together with others, but not very keen for separate play dates. True believer in Play Together Stay Together, but of course this would be only if both parties where in agreeable to this situation....but if I was in love with someone. I'm really not sure how I'd feel about sharing, because love can put a completely different spin on things sometimes....💋

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  We love each other very much. We were both tought to share and share alike. We do ! To see each other getting off, gets us off. The ORGASMS are beyond beleaf. Play together, Stay Together. Life is Great. Trust us.......

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Step 1: figure what it is you WANT from this relationship. Step 2: communicate those needs directly, unashamedly, and concisely. Step 3: there is no step 3....she'll either say yes that's what I want or no it's not... Pretty simple eh??? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  guykinkster

  11 years ago

  Hi Talldark. My wife and I feel the same way about sex. We're both happy to go out and play together or apart. When we got together I was playing the field, met her, we played once and then I told her what I wanted. I told her I want to be able to keep playing the field while in a relationship and I am ok with my gf/wife doing the same. We talked about this openly at the start and set a few ground rules. For us, those rules are pretty much: no lies, no secrets, no pregnancies, no diseases. We have a great sex live and love each other deeply. We talk opening about desires for both sexes, fetishes, kinks etc. We try to play with others together every few months (small ppl at home tie us down a bit), have regular sex with just each other and have a great life. So here's my advice, keep playing the field, make sure you're a good lover, collect a few fb, be bold, you'll be surprised how many of them want to play with you and another. When you want to keep one, tell her what you want, be prepared to allow her the same thing, and be absolutely prepared to move on if she won't share this wonderful lifestyle. Just my process and thoughts. Hope it goes well for you. Dave

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