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Cuckold complications

March 16 2014

I've been involved in a cuckold relationship for some time and become quite good friends with both the husband and wife involved. It has been a wonderful, loving and consensual experience enjoyed by all as much on a psychological as a physical level. However the wife in the relationship now wants to pursue other women and experiences with men beyond the cuckold arrangement.The husband is not willing to entertain this and i find my self in the middle, caring about both, but not wanting to interfereor be a third wheel. I feel it is their marriage and not mine, so not my business. But it is obviously heading towards falling appart. Has anyone been in a similar situation, what did you do? Charlie.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Stay out of it Charlie! It will only bite you on the arse later if you don't.

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gazpacho

11 years ago

You're the least likely person to be able to provide assistance, I think. I've not been in cuckhold situation like you're in, but purely from a marriage relationship basis, these guys might need professional counselling from a psychologist who is trained not to make moral judgments but can guide the couple towards their goals as individuals that are married. Maybe the best thing for them is to split? Only they really can decide that. Hugs Gazpacho

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RHP User

11 years ago

Yes, thanks. i feel retreat may be the better part of valour on this one. i suppose all good things come to an end.

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Mischeviouslad

11 years ago

The fishpond is a waaaay big enough .. than to get caught inside the shitstorm of other peoples relationships. Time to walk... and leave them to nut this out without you. I suggest moving on to less complicated 1:1 encounters. DG

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Mr_MrsAraps

11 years ago

The couple need to talk through it and sort it out in their own way and their own time. It would be hard being friends now but if you value the friendship more than the cuckolding then give it (cuckolding) a break for a while, while they sort every thing out. If things go pear shaped you can feel a little easier and ethical on having that break. If things sort themselves out again and your still friends then there is the option for all parties to resume at some point potentially. Cheers, W.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Quoting 'Meeka100'Stay out of it Charlie! It will only bite you on the arse later if you don't. I must agree. I think you already know that though.

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N4November

11 years ago

And if only you lived closer, I could divert your attention away from their problems ;-) But like everyone has said, you need to move on from this situation xx

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RHP User

11 years ago

like all those about who say "walk".... "STAY OUT OF IT"...One or both MIGHT come back for you later..

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RHP User

11 years ago

It is part of their relationship, even though you are involved, it is not on the same level as the two of them. There may also be other issues involved that aren't sexually based and what you are seeing is a symptom of a bigger picture. Cuckolding takes a lot of communication and both parties need to get what they want from the experience for it to be successful.

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RHP User

11 years ago

but maybe for now at least you need to say goodbye....good luck Charlie :-) xx Q

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