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F56

Cuddly / Chubby

March 18 2012

Hi all,   I know it's been done before, but I'd love to hear from some current members as well as those who have been on this site for a while. I am a BBW and a newbie to this site. (This is my first post).   I am having trouble finding a fwb. I am tall and a size 18-20. I think I am attractive and I have a great personality. So why am I having so much trouble?? Is it because I'm a BBW?   Are there many guys out there who are attracted to us chubbies??   Hugs Fraggil

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    definately find BBWs very attractive and very sexy...sexy isn't necessarily the package....it's the frame of mind that comes with it....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Trust me Marylou there are men here who apreciate and sometimes even prefer a woman who is more Rubenesque than Twiggy,but having read your profile you seem to be limiting your choices.You are quite tall,lots of gorgeous men aren't and you are only looking for tall. Also there are a lot of younger gorgeous men who would be interested in you and you have limited the age range. So for what it is worth dont limit yourself,enjoy your journey and while looking for mr.right you might find lots of mr.right nows are actually heaps more fun than that ol elusive mr.right!!!......xH

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    At close to six foot, I don't imagine size 18 would be disproportionate. Also, people our own age, having left the shallow veiws of our teenage years well behind us, are more accepting of differing shapes and sizes. My lady looks at her own size 16 shape (you're a good bit taller) and tells me she feels sooo fat. I tell her to take a good look around and see how many women she can pick out in the shopping centres, in her own age group, who are in better fettle than herself. Even if she can find one or two, there are dozens worse so she's right up there near the most attractive. You could try the same thing. (And always bare in mind that you are a pretty lady too). There can be many reasons why you haven't found an ideal playmate yet. You'll find that many people find things slow moving on RHP. Don't let it harm your self esteem.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hi Fraggil   Don't give up. I too am a bbw and have several guys that would like to get together but I have been putting a few of them off due to distance or other reasons. There are guys on here that are specifically looking for bbw's. The more you post on forums or join the chat room the more your userename will become known and more people will start to look at you.   Don't give up but I would suggest you set your standards high! :-) The guys on here outnumber the girls significantly so you don't need to settle.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Welcome to RHP. I suggest you cut through all the bullshit and attend events... or you could post a topic and wait for the hungry hordes to contact you... :p Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    There are most certainly plenty of wonderful men here who crave a fuller figured woman. Be confident in who you are. They will flock to you.

  • brissie49

    brissie49

    13 years ago

    Hey stick in there, as shown above lots of guys love bbw and curves (me, me and me) lol, so i am sure a few will spot that profile and repsond

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    You say you're having trouble finding a fwb - does this mean you're having trouble meeting men at all? Or are you having trouble getting repeat action?Your profile says you're looking for Mr RIght. If I was a guy wanting a FWB relationship only, then I would avoid you. People who are looking for a partner can easily get attached to someone they see regularly, and it can result in all these messy feelings and emotions, it's just easier to avoid. You say you want fwb but your profile screams you want a relationship. Maybe figure out what you really want and adjust profile to suit?If you're meeting guys and they don't want to come back for seconds maybe it's incompatible techniques, or personality differences or they just don't like your deodorant.I'm not going to get into the fat thing - I'm fat, I have friends with benefits from here, also fuck buddies. I've also run screaming from dudes wanting relationships with me. Obviously there are guys out there into all sorts, just as there are women into all sorts.

  • fifoboy

    fifoboy

    13 years ago

    It might be the Collingwood hat in the pics...

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    13 years ago

    its not about being a BBW on here or any where! Its about sex appeal and confidence. I just read your profile and and um you could delete the first paragraph. It talks about what your looking for not about you. I found it a turn off actually. You might meet Mr Right here, he has had hundred of fuks in the last 12 months and then he meets you. Things change.....and you know he will have all that yummy experience to fullfill your every sexual desire as a supressed woman. Word of advice:KID IN A CANDY SHOP! EXPORE EXPLORE EXPORE ........Go for it......Spruce up your pics and put arse out there. i fuking loved my whoring journing of finding my sexuality thanks to RHP and a few others hehehe

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'sexymylf' Yeah maybe some cleavage as well. Get outta that tracksuit and get those girls out, give those men something to look at and appreciate. They are visual creatures after allAnd I wouldn't be putting anything about my weight or dress sizes in the "in my own words" section. Ive already got that in the drop down box so they can work it out for themselves and they can see that I'm chubby/curvy by my pics anyway. And why no short guys or young guys? Why limit your choices if youre just looking for fwbs? Lots of nice young guys out there who want that too. couldn't agree more.....hell, i got as low as 26 and as old as 56..... had to try it. Was during my candy shop days.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    All you need is a beautiful smile, be well-groomed and have some dress sense and you can't go wrong.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Thanks guys, thanks very much for your advice. Perhaps I need to learn some patience too lol.   Oh and.......Go Pies!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Isn't there any guys in their 20's that like bigger chicks?? I'm a size 16 btw..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    hi, im also a BBW.....and i get a lot of flirts and messages, lets face it the guys want to seethe goods just as us girls do, i love to see a face pic..but i also want to see the rest ofthe body....new pics r needed and im sure u will get plenty of offers