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Cunnilingus with a dental dam.

August 28 2017

safe sex

This is a question for the guys and girls who've used one for oral sex.Was it awkward, as in did it stay in place without too much hassle?How was the sensation for either party?What can you tell us that might not be obvious to the uninitiated?Anything or everything, is of interest, including the rationale behind the need for safer sex.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Seems very hard to have a discussion on this. I know its recommended to put a spot of lube on the side that is on the genitals to increase the sensation but I know a lot of women who just don't use them when giving oral on other women I would like to know what it feels like, how to get the best results from it from a person, not the sexual health clinic.

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  • Lv2PlzHer2

    Lv2PlzHer2

    7 years ago

    Yes we are curious about this as well..

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I don't think many people use protection for oral in the swinger world which I why I think it's vitally important people get regular check ups I went today

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  • swingalingson

    swingalingson

    7 years ago

    I had a girl who used it. It stayed in place and she held it inand stretched it place. Her clit was hard and big. Lucky she had a bigger sized clit because a small clit may not have felt for her the same. That was because the dam was thin but it did cover and would lose the effectiveness and sensation. It was safe sex, i guess But it felt awkward because one, you are used to sounds and fluids and the feeling of being with an excited woman. She enjoyed it but it was kindah offputting in a way and lost its effectiveness. It felt like licking the dentists fingers with a thin like latex glove.. But I did it anyway. If the situation came up again with a dental dam...i might think twice.🤔

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    You guys are a couple! Why don't you try it out for yourselves? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • swingalingson

    swingalingson

    7 years ago

    I reckon you should get the "NO BAlls" piece prize! that is a smart idea for that couple to try. That is right is that you LUV2pleaseHER then go to the chemist and buy one. I bet the chemist will get the duster out because no one ever buys the fuckers. bahaha In all seriousness guys try one out. After all I am sure that you would give honest answers to eachother and then you can both post the man's view and the woman's view

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Its like licking the sandwich bag without being able to taste the sandwich.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I didn't even know they existed until 10 years ago. "WTF is that?", I asked when she pulled one out. "A dental dam. A barrier. It's flavoured", she replied. So many thoughts ran through my mind including 'what flavour is it and will I like the taste?'. It never got used for cunnilingus. This American beauty gave me THE rimming of a lifetime, an experience I attribute primarily to her eagerness and 'appetite' and very little to do with the dental dam itself. Though I did find its use kinda kinky, I don't think she used it for protection (she didn't use one to kiss me or blow me with a condom on). I think she just preferred my ass tasting like chocolate. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • inspirit

    inspirit

    7 years ago

    Would be like sucking on a gloved cock. All i can think of is the reaction you might get from the non natural materal. As for sensation on the revieving end........ can't imagine it would be sensational. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Sailbad and inspirit, I agree. No gladwrap going on my pussy and giving oral to him with a condom on, not on your sweet life, I need to taste and feel the skin, can't imagine that would be enjoyable for either party. If we die, we'll die happy 👍

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting '2DarkBull' "A dental dam. A barrier. It's flavoured", she replied. Do they come in cunt flavour ?

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  • technologic

    technologic

    7 years ago

    Thanks for the suggestion Rigsty9, I think we'll try it but perhaps with a cut open flavoured condom (since we have a bunch of them already). :) It's no fun getting an STD so I'd rather the awkwardness than spreading it to others. Or just don't do oral. Have any of you heard about the latest mutated gonorrhoea that's resistant to antibiotics? The main reason it's reached this level of boss is exactly due to unprotected oral sex. Read up about it! It'll really make you think twice about that short lived enjoyment!

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  • mango69er

    mango69er

    7 years ago

    Different strokes for different folks. But if your that worried. Why bother . Just have loving sex between yourselfs - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Mutated diseases of any kind are not as much attributed to people catching/spreading them as much as they are to the overuse and misuse of antibiotics. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    7 years ago

    But I already packed my bag including my gladwrap and was heading to Perth..? So does this mean I don't get to meet ur pussy face to clit and immediately get deported back to Sydney ? ? ? 😳 😳 ♋️ OMG ? 😄

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Yep sorry, gladwrap is a deal breaker 😉

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  • technologic

    technologic

    7 years ago

    I already have both HSV 1 & 2 so I'M not worried about catching it anymore! :D but from the number of people who have disappeared after I flagged that detail kinda indicates that people do care about it if given the choice to risk it. What ever way that super gonorrhoea is created doesn't matter to me but I do care about not getting it if I can avoid it. It's one of the few really nasty STDs that can really permanently damage you if untreated and it's becoming more and more difficult to treat. If you are one those that do not care and willing to take the risk without protection for oral, please do the rest of us a favour and disclose that fact to new partners so that THEY have a choice to take the risk or not. I say - to each their own as long as everyone has been informed!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    You want people who have practised unprotected oral to inform you? That would be 99.9999999999999% of us, minimum lol Why not save us all the trouble and just have sex with yourselves. I'm sorry you're in the situation you are but it's like swimming in the ocean, yes there are risks. It's called living, not delaying life until we die. Do you see my point? Another important point is that in my opinion, your disclosure about having herpes should be clearly stated at the top of your 'about me' section in your profile, the very first words they read. Why did you choose to put that further down towards the bottom? I question your integrity right there. Were you afraid they wouldn't read any further? The responsible thing to do is clearly inform others, yet you've chosen to tuck it away, why? And here you are preaching to us about disclosure over unprotected oral?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I don't get the uses of these protected items for oral. I also think lots of players from RHP are telling untruths about how they use protection.I have met lots of ladies and couples from RHP and not one has asked or worried about any protection at all.Why would you wear a raincoat in the shower lol

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  • technologic

    technologic

    7 years ago

    It's so we know if they've read it all the way through. Just like how people leave a code word at the end of their profile to be quoted in their message. I would hardly call it tucked away and if they miss it initially I always tell them about it before confirming any meet up. Why do you think we still haven't had any play dates yet? Lol! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • technologic

    technologic

    7 years ago

    It's fine if they haven't had protection for oral with others, but if they play with us we'd like to use protection especially initially until we know each other better. It's more about having an open conversation about it. If everyone does it then why is it so hard to just tell people that? Surely if the norm is just to disclose it automatically then we wouldn't need to discuss it so extensively here! 😊 Also, newbies wouldn't necessarily be aware of the risks involved and creating that awareness would save a lot of unnecessary pain. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • technologic

    technologic

    7 years ago

    Touch You remind me a lot of a good friend. She's Italian and huge love of life. Would be nice to meet up at some point and talk about stuff like this. Much easier than typing on little phone. 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Thanks and my apology, I thought you meant no play if they hadn't used protection previously, misread your post 😊 Challenging for you to find suitable people, hard enough at the best of times. Stay positive though, you will find them. And that catch up, I'd love to 👍

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  • technologic

    technologic

    7 years ago

    I'm not discouraged. :) Already met two lovely guys who are aware of the risks involved and happy to play (eventually when our schedules align). I just hope they consider having as open a conversation with their future &/or current partners as we have. It would be upsetting if my HSV was passed on to someone else who wasn't given the choice to take the risk or not. But I guess there is only so much I can do about that in this lifestyle... :-/ Dang, looks like we're both guests & can't message each other!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    There really aren't any surprises among them either. There is plenty of food for thought there.I guess I asked because of the answers I see regarding safe sex int the profiles, the big distinction being yes for all activities and always for intercourse. It seems as if many would kiss before they would fuck it

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  • technologic

    technologic

    7 years ago

    Yeah, it's interesting that no one bats an eyelid when a profile states 'must be drug & disease free' yet it's seen as a wet blanket to ask for protection during oral. Not quite sure how both of that work together. Apologies for the slight thread hijack :P Another personal point I'm itching to make is that if one believes in freedom of choice, please consider other people's freedom of choice as well when you DON'T inform them of any sexual activity that you've participated in which may put others at risk. With regards to YOLO - just because you only life once doesn't mean you should do it recklessly and bring harm to others in the process. For newbies - ALWAYS ask and NEVER assume. :)

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  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    7 years ago

    I can't see the point. Lots of people avoid oral sex, I've noticed. Except for dicks. People eat raw cock. Hugs G

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