M56 F54
Curious Couple
April 22 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
I would suggest you both go to a swingers club and see how you feel being there. You dont have to participate just go, look, go home and discuss your feelings. Then if you decide to go further, i suggest you have your own set of rules and boundaries and dont let anyone push you into doing something you dont want to do, this is a joint decision make sure you are both happy with what goes on. We find trust is a big thing in doing this and on no circumstances do something you arent happy with, it will only ruin any further experiences. shy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi my wife and i went through that stage for a fair while amd i can understand your feelings right about now.O ne day while i was home we just got sick of wondering and got a single guy around and confronted one boundry at a time and it was a great time and we were lucky that we had a real great guy first up,we have done that a few times now and this weekend we are going to meet up with a couple and see where we go with that,as for going to clubs be careful they are not for everyone and we found out when we walked into one the other night.There was no way in hell my wife was getting her gear off there as it was like a meat market and would much prefer a couple on couple unless that rocks your bout stick to small groups .This is only my opinion Cheers.
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RHP User
16 years ago
The male of this couple has massaged women and couples for 8 years. One lady in particular for 7 of those 8. One evening I introduced her to my partner, we all enhoyed the evening and since then my partner has discovered her Bi side, we have since dabled with 3 couples, my lady enjoys playing with men, and also likes the feel of a hard cock, BUT she does not want sex with another guy, she does liek to see me with women though. Maybe you should try something similar ??
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RHP User
16 years ago
Have been there with my wife. you can sit here asking questions and still be asking the same question in 10 years. its all about you and what each of you want. if you have thought about it this long, talk to each other about trust and trying it. and respect each onther in the process. afterwards, talk about it and decide if you want to continue. its the only way you will ever know. or you'll be 70 and wondering what if we had if! ;-) enjoy the journey because it IS your journey good luck and enjoy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Regarding swingers clubs, there are different types. The one you went to caters mostly for girls that like lots of guys, not what I would call a swingers club.
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RHP User
16 years ago
The last post about waking up at 70 and thinking...fuck it....man why didnt I do this or that....hence this response. I see u2 are ar 40...there is hope lol. I woke up at 49 from a bad dull loveless marriage, a piss poor sex life, being a degenerate ugly smelly perve and after 20 years with 2 kids I left. Since then I have cleaned my act up, bied up, done many things I never thought possible like shaving many pussies and a few cocks, sucking and playing with both, 3somes both MMF and FFM , 4somes , raging and sexing up at Saints and Abode. Note that I now get on with my 2 kids and X better than ever. One has to be careful playing with others ...esp jealosy. Set rules etc. The good side is there is so much more pleasure from 2 on one than one on one. 3 on one ...yessss. One can always go back to one on one any ol time. I love one on one and now use much more fantasy and we both verbalise what our 3rd player is doing to one or both of us. Like his/her tongue is licking between our legs as we fuck and is alternating between your clit and my cock. Who knows where their genitels are... jammed on someones face probably...better than being the gutter cleaner and shitkicker I was when married....and the best thing is its getting better! Mars Curious Couple Posted by: gdmj01 Date: Apr 22, 2009 Hello, We are a long time married couple who continually talk about enjoying other partners when we have sex. We are both curious, but afterwards neither of us are sure if we should take the next step. It would be great to hear from people who are also hesitant or been in this situation. Thanks
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RHP User
16 years ago
just remember nothing ventured nothing gained,and it will test your relationship if your both wanting to try it , well should be no problems dont enjoy it live with it and move on ,just remember talk to each other pick a cpl your both happy with and we dont think youll look back , plus,s for swinging is we all get that urge some time in ones relationship to get with someone else if your not in a good relationship well youll just play up behind there back ,but its so much better when you can do it togeather
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks to all of you for taking the time to help us out. I must admit that initially, I thought swingers (including curious ones) were, well you know, a bit strange... lol. But it is clear to me that your are all just normal decent people like ourselves. We appreciate all your help and advice. I hope that we may get to meet you all in some capactiy one day. Thanks again.
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RHP User
16 years ago
We just wish we had started 20yrs earlier. Has brought us closer together as a couple. Talk about it, think about it, talk about it, then just try it. We still get nervous, but its a good nervous. It's not all about the sex either. You get to meet sum great people who can be friends for life. But friends with a little secret!!! All the best
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RHP User
16 years ago
We have only been with one couple and that was great. We are still nervous but growing in confidence. Look us up some day if you wish? Good luck.
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RHP User
16 years ago
hi i just like to no where you guys are so that if you are nere us i can maybe have a talk to you guys with my girl as well if you like ok
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RHP User
16 years ago
i was once told & found it to be true, brutal honesty is the only way, a chat between the 2 of you with brutal honesty will show you the way & only leaves the door open to move forward (weather its a go for it or not)
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