Curious as to why everyone is so quiet?

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  AnnieWhichway

  7 years ago

  You have 1 pic of an arm in a pocket. No other pics in your album so if someone is messaged by you and maybe interested, the chore of extracting a face pic and body pic that is not there is just too hard considering that many that you seek have a list of messages from men that do have pics available and will go for the less time consuming methods. Also there is very little description of yourself, what you are about and who you are wanting.It's just not selling yourself to a commodity that is very much in demand by a lot of men in competition to you.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Never go into marketing... you dont appear to have a natural ability to consider what might appeal to people. Your photo as AWW says is of nothing of interest. If you're attractive then put up a face pic, of at least have one waiting in your PG. Everyone has an arm, there's absolutely nothing attractive about that profile shot. I recommend you switch your search criteria to check out other male profiles. See what youre up against, then you will begin to appreciate what it takes to create a profile that might (MIGHT) attract attention.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Quoting 'Sharonski'you dont appear to have a natural ability to consider what might appeal to people. I've mentioned on here before my observation that men (in general) don't seem to have nearly as good a grasp of what will appeal to women (in general ) in a profile, compared to the reverse situation. Ok yeah obviously one reason is that for a good proportion of the men on here we know we just need to show some boob and that's enough, but I think there's also more to it than that. Would make an interesting topic I think, if I could be bothered to start one at the moment (if anyone else wants to feel free).

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  HotNightsGC

  7 years ago

  There's a really big difference in the number of men on RHP compared to Single women, so you're competing with a lot of other guys for attention. You really need better pictures and a better description of yourself. Women are looking for a guy that ticks all or many of the boxes on their wish list. If you give very little info or don't put in the effort to spruce up your profile, women will just keep scrolling and move onto other guys. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Haleakala

  7 years ago

  Time for some massively sweeping generalisations: Men in general are easy to attract, show us a bit of flesh or the promise of a bit of flesh and bang we are interested. Women on the other hand are more varied and subtle in what they find interesting. Like I said in my caveat at the beginning sweeping generalisations, I'm sure all the forum regulars are much more refined and discerning than to be attracted by mere flesh ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Alberto74

  7 years ago

  Good point luck_dragon..so what do we omen wanna see in guys profiles... I mean guys can say anything here and be something totally different for real... So let me rephrase... What do women want from a guy in the real world... Gotta admit I have minimum exp with women...u ladies scare the crap out of me.. My missus still does after 14years - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I'm buying shares in popcorn !

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Slightly also off topic. RHP chat is always soooo empty, back in the day we (Doll and i ) used to chat amongst at least 95 people plus, sometimes you couldn't get into chat because it was so packed !. Met lot's of really cool people who went on to become valued friends and wasn't all just about masturbating on cam. Real chat, real people, funny times, sad times , great way to suss people out and dare i say it... a sense of community of swingers lol. And OP, you add a little more to your profile, in the age of tinder etc you most likely not even get a swipe right unless you stated you could suck the chrome of a towbar ! 😉 Peace - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Quoting 'temp_territorian' Time for some massively sweeping generalisations: Men in general are easy to attract, show us a bit of flesh or the promise of a bit of flesh and bang we are interested. Women on the other hand are more varied and subtle in what they find interesting. So if we assume that most, or at least many men are aware of these (generalised) differences in how attraction works for men vs women, why don't more men reflect that in their profiles? That's my actual question. Is it wrong to even assume that many men are aware of these differences? What other reasons might there be? I can think of a few but probably shouldn't derail this topic any further. Although, the OP's profile is a classic example of the difference in thinking between men and women around profiles so it would be good to get his opinion on his thought process when constructing the profile.

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  MsJonesy

  7 years ago

  Click on the arm and a whole body, with smiling face appears! More detail is required... tell us about you, tell us what you are seeking. Women like to read detail, to get a sense of who you are and what you are about.

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  The_Antichrist

  7 years ago

  A lot of the time they're very similar.... All about the profile writers desires and needs and not much personality... To give perspective on what that's like, it's like tasting a new dish and finding out the chef hasn't seasoned anything...veggies are watery, soft, and lacking taste.... There is however 1 profile of the men I have enjoyed.... Being mysterious isn't leaving shit out....being mysterious is like using a tester bottle of perfume at the chemist...you get to smell it, but in order to bask in it you have to buy it..... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  AnnieWhichway

  7 years ago

  You are getting there with the new pics. Just need to expand your description a bit more.

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