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Curious how to go about taking part in a gangbang as the girl with only guys participating...
February 24 2014
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Smilingwithfun
11 years ago
I can see the queue in Melbourne forming already. My suggestion would be to search for groups & go from there.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The thing is, she doesn't want it to be like on the porn films where the girl is used and abused for the men's pleasure then ignored. She wants to be the center of attention and pampered gently to orgasm before turning it into a fuck fest. Our approach so far has been to select individuals from the site and discuss the idea with them in private messages. If Jennylee is keen on any, she would meet with them over coffee to see what they are like in person.We haven't had a great deal of success yet. We've made arrangements on two occasions for three men to visit us at our home but each time only one fronted (G'day Smo) with the others being no shows. Smo we've played with on a few occasions and we know he can be relied on. He was the only one from the first group to be invited to the second attempt with Jennylee going through the whole process again to find another two gents. She's making a third attempt and trying to put together another group (still including Smo).Oh well, fingers crossed...
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Seachange
11 years ago
Quoting 'Smilingwithfun' I can see the queue in Melbourne forming already. My suggestion would be to search for groups & go from there.Not into this butJust make sure you have lots of condoms ready! Lol. And you may want to get a sickie the following day just in case you are not able to walk past your front door. Good luck and have fun.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I would find a fb first. Someone you know and trust well and then maybe go to a club or find some extra guys on the internet. Maybe you are more assertive than me but I know I would want to know and trust 1 of the guys well so that I know I have someone looking out for me in case 1 or more of the guys turn out to be arseholes.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just out of a relationship myself Lily. Do you have a fantasy of how you imagine it going down..? Perhaps no short fat guys but he must have long or short hair etc etc? You can set the search function for all these types of things- Picture what you want then go get it, You will not have much trouble at all finding what you want i think ;) Enjoy!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I go to a party called nude bi-orgy. It's an anything goes type of party and there are always a few women there that like to be gang banged. It's a wild atmosphere and not for everyone but I can vouch for the organiser and he will look after you If you let him know you are new to the scene. This party is attending by 90% bisexual males though just to let you know. But if nothing else you may meet some like minded people who can give you some good advice. :)
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Thanks for the info, I'm liking the sound of this.....😍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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gazpacho
11 years ago
Yeah, Ive been to NBO as well. They're really quite a laid back affair and attended by upwards of 50 people. You can screw none, one, fifty..... whatever takes your fancy at the time.... and the men are not so bothered about your choices as they can easily entertain each other. HugsGazpacho
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
A local bar frequented by footy players? Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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Weekendhussler79
11 years ago
Laughs @ lily.. If I were a female of the species I'm thinking upgrade from guest, assuming you are and search! Then message those you may feel might be down with something like that. I myself don't an won't go down this road but all power to those who do.. CI in bris might be worth a shot, that place is FUN!! :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
CI closed about 6 mths ago. Also from what some couples have posted in the past, lots of men say thy are interested but often most will not turn up on the night. All talk, and no action it would seem.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've helped a friend of mine organise something like this in the past. Two key points in my experience: * What Imogine says is on the money. Really, don't try this alone. * A lot of guys aren't going to show up. Organise twice as many as you expect to actually turn up; because at best you'll see half of them
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
INUTERO69, FUN?? What I witnessed was not a gang bang or anything remotely close....a sack of potatoes would be a nicer way of putting it. Or as mentioned to me the night.. "It's just like vacuuming - boring" I suppose vacuuming can be fun...there's lots of sucking, it's loud and best it's done in every room of the house. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
I feel rather uneasy when a 22 year old wants to try a gangbang.. I know people will say "duh" but honestly? I just feel uneasy about being used and abused, and perhaps it's the power thing that men get into. I am sure there are lots of women who would and do enjoy, but I don't and so would find it hard to recommend to a young woman.. Prudish I know but...
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RHP User
11 years ago
@Smilingwithfun - that's sweet of you. And thanks for the tip :) @jensman1903 - I'd be looking for somewhere between the two; porno and centre of attention. I like it a little rougher, not dangerously so but I do have a little kink in me. Must be frustrating to have gone through the process twice without the desired results, but hopefully third time's the charm for you two! @lilyorchid - Good thing about working as a casual is I'll be able to block off the following day at work. I'll be sure to stock up on condoms and to play in safe not just in that way. @imogine1984 - I had a fb before my relationship, and we've met up once or twice since my ex and I split, and talked about fantasies and what we'd be willing to try together, bringing any more guys into it is well outside his comfort zone so he isn't really a potential participant for this little side project. One of my other friends might if he were single and/or I asked but I'm not going to put him in that position - I like his girlfriend and I know she wouldn't be up for it. I'm outgoing and decided to go after this little fantasy (I'd talked about it with my ex but we never tried to make it into a reality) as a present of sorts to myself haha. I'm nervous about it, butterflies-in-my-stomach nerves, and I'll never try something like this with partial info which is why I posted on the forum. Love your name btw. @Jayden1987 - Sorry to hear your relationship didn't work out, but I've no doubt you'll find what you're looking for :) If I'm thinking appearance of the guys involved... I'd say at least taller than me (5ft3), hair not past their shoulders, and general appearance wise I like men who look after themselves somewhat. Search option seems to be a recurring suggestion, and a good one at that. @Meeka100 - NBO sounds like something I'd enjoy looking into, so I'm going to do just that :) Thanks, I wouldn't know about it if not for your comment :) @Lovingit28 - maybe I'll see you there one day, if you're in Melb. @gazpacho51 - thanks for the additional info, gave me a better idea about it, made me more excited to research it and potentially give it a try :) @Misheviouslad - I'd like to know the answer to your question, too!, anyone know where the footy players frequent? Other than training :P @INUTERO69 - I'm trying to protect my privacy on here as much as possible, being a guest seemed the easiest way to do that. Plus, I'm still not sure how long or often I'll use this site so it makes sense at this stage to stay a guest... That said, if I'm going to use the search function as suggested, I'm going to need to upgrade. Thanks for the support :) I've only been to Brisbane once, passing through, so not sure I'd have made it to C1 if they were still open. Thanks all the same for the suggestion :) @vfr600 - Thanks for those pointers, seems good advice. I think the first step for me is to find someone I already know, who is single, that'll be up for being there and watching my back, also to assist in the screening process. Organising more to allow for no-shows and cancellations is also a good pointer - thanks :) @SuperFoxxxy - I've seen your commenst on a few of the other adult forums, always love your responses because I find them honest, helpful, and, more often than not, good at making me smile and laugh - thanks for that :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Can't believe how many replies there have been in just 24 hours - I knew this was the right website to post this question to. Thanks for all the helpful responses so far
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RHP User
11 years ago
I havent had a gang bang, but I've been told that its a good idea to have a friend there who is basically there to be your support person. THey don't participate, just make sure you are ok, check that condoms are always being used, get you a drink or whatever etc etc etc. Keep you safe and make sure your rules are followed. :)
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gazpacho
11 years ago
I appreciate your comments and the maternal mind set that guides it. What is critical, and vfr600 wisely touched on this, is that the lady feels completely safe and in control with the emotional security blanket of having a trusted minder. This is not a smash and grab gangbang rape in a dark park, it's perhaps a controlled simulation, if I can put it that way, where the person in control is the lady involved, rather than the men involved. She can control who and where and what and how and when, or nothing at all, at her whim. The idea is to be sensually saturated and sensually overwhelmed. It's a wonderfully lusty immersion into letting go of inhibitions, and it is empowering. I mean, the lady is controlling a number of guys who are there to please her ... It's sexual empowerment by submitting to your carnal desires. Hugs Gazpacho
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RHP User
11 years ago
I second Gaz's comment. Christiets I used to think that way as well. Even the term gang bang would put me off, but now having been to a few parties and seen the women who enjoy this I see that yes, they are in control. Rough stuff only happens if they invite it. :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
You can find details if you look up orgy orgy orgy dot com. :)
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gazpacho
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' You can find details if you look up orgy orgy orgy dot com. :) Oh gawd... I just checked to MAKE SURE THERE ARE NO PHOTOS OF ME. LMFAO. HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
11 years ago
I didn't want to tell you. LMAO!!
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gazpacho
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I didn't want to tell you. LMAO!! Good thing neither of us are featured then, isn't it. At least the host has the utmost discretion and is willing to ask before taking a photo, black out any faces, tattoos or identifying features. You know, one day, I should host a bit of a party at my place, put the tarps down, drag in the fire hose on completion. The neighbours will never know. HugsGazpacho
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PartyOrg
11 years ago
I organised a gangbang for a couple off couples. One couple actually enjoyed themselves so much we organized another one for them. Getting a little technical here, but having three guys and you will actually be a 4sum, not a gangbang. So if you want a gangbang, four guys is the magical number. One possible route is to contact a rhp group local to you and ask them to do the organising for you, but make sure you get the final say on the guys that will participate on your night. They can be a lot of fun if the night goes smoothly. I'll post the pics up on my profile of the last gangbang I organized for this very special couple. Fun times - partyorg
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Well that's how I see it away, I want to experience as much as I can. All the things I've experienced in the last couple of months, have opened my eyes to a lot of things and there's still so much to do and learn. How do you know if you like it or not unless you try new things, if you don't like it then you don't have to do it again. I like to try a couple of times just to make sure......😇 Good luck and enjoy lily_ruth.....💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Songbird, I didn't see your comment last night, so I don't want you thinking I ignored it because it offered a different opinion. I appreciate the fact that you've voiced your concern. At this stage I haven't and am not in the process of arranging anything so much as researching - knowledge and information are power and I'm a firm believer that research is always necessary. Gazpacho has read my intent correctly though, if I do go ahead with this, ignoring the other participants, I won't be doing this alone, I'll make sure I have a close and trusted friend present for the screening process of each of the potential participants, and present if it ever happens, not as another participant, but like suggested looking out for me and my wellbeing/safety - Thanks to Kisskiss80 for making me think more specifically on this one - I won't take unnecessary risks, condoms will be used at all times, there will be agreed rules and boundaries and a code of conduct, not just for my safety and comfort (I know, funny to think of comfort when talking about a gangbang) but for the other participants' also. I've posted the topic so that I can discuss it with all of you, and so that I don't overlook something. Because I would have automatically done half the above things but most likely overlooked something that could prove important out of nerves or just juggling things like work and my everyday tasks in the lead up. I'm a believer in lists and preparation, and I had a list but I've added to it already in the past two days. Does this help, Songbird? I hope so :)
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JohnAnn2227
11 years ago
I have been the centre of a gangbang and I loved it! I agree though that you need to have a couple of friends involved to keep an eye on things. Ours happened at a house party and I ended up enjoying 7 guys including John. I already knew four of the guys from previous parties and the other three came recommended. Make it a Friday or Saturday night as you will sleep all of the next day. And yes you will be stiff ans sore...but a good sore!Good luck!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks for your message, Meeka too, just had a crappy day at work so decided to take a rather large (excessive?) glass of wine and review the thread once more. I think my comments are more about my (lack of) comfort zone than yours or for that matter many others and Gaz I understand the need for being in control and for the trust and safety / well being being paramount. The hedonism of it all I get, thats not to say I am comfortable with it and I know I am being a little prudish about my beliefs but god help me they are all I have, jaded or not! People want to explore their sexual desires, stretch the limits abit, goodness, I can testify to that but its hard not to express caution because as Gaz pointed out it is a paternal / maternal instinct to protect. Whilst I am all for living in the moment, sometimes monents are worth waiting for. Explore with confidence and enjoy in safety. Sorry for sounding like a mum.... Back to another large glass....
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RHP User
11 years ago
:-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sure we all like watching our lovers masturbate. I say mix it up a little. Usually start off lips locked, with my hands working their way around until they get between her thighs. then some hot sensual intimate attentive love making, change that up too; position wise, depending on who it is and how long I've known them go down. and work my way for more kissing. more intimate loving and if she feels like it she can finish her self or I help with a few toys. It's not set, every moment is different. Different place, moods of play, sometimes more kink, sometimes less. However usually always puts a smile on their face.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'CoolKoz' Sure we all like watching our lovers masturbate. I say mix it up a little. Usually start off lips locked, with my hands working their way around until they get between her thighs. then some hot sensual intimate attentive love making, change that up too; position wise, depending on who it is and how long I've known them go down. and work my way for more kissing. more intimate loving and if she feels like it she can finish her self or I help with a few toys. It's not set, every moment is different. Different place, moods of play, sometimes more kink, sometimes less. However usually always puts a smile on their face. Sorry CoolKoz, what does that have to do with gang bangs? Oh, I think you have posted this comment on the wrong thread.
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northshorebabe1
11 years ago
I would also like a gangbang in Sydney. Any ideas?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho51' Quoting 'Meeka100'I didn't want to tell you. LMAO!! Good thing neither of us are featured then, isn't it. I'm not sure that was your tanned torso Gaz, but I'm pretty sure I recognised the boobs on the lady on the right!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Gang Bang 101 - A Guide To Doing Your First Gang Bang A great many women (and men, for that matter) have a fantasy of being the center in a gang bang - an event where several people are fucking one person simultaneously or in a train. And though many have this on their sexual “bucket list,” very few actually go through with it (for a variety of reasons). Those who do find themselves facing a daunting task. Gang bangs are rarely spontaneous events, save for the occasional bang that happens in a swinger environment, and the amount of time and effort that goes into ensuring a successful, rewarding gang bang can be quite extensive if done correctly. It is therefore important that you understand all of the necessary measures you need to take to ensure your safety and to make it a good experience for all concerned. Being gang banged can be an intense, incredible, and empowering experience. This guide is intended to be a brief “how to” for the gang bang newbie. You could literally write a book on all of the specifics about how to plan and conduct a bang, but this is designed to provide you with a basic outline of issues and concepts you’ll need to consider as you give thought to planning (or participating in) your first. Note that a gang bang can involve any combination of genders, though they are most often organized as several men fucking a woman. For the purposes of simplicity, and so I don’t have to expend massive amounts of time and effort ensuring every sentence is gender combination-neutral, this guide is written with a “female center being used by men” construct in mind. Substitute your own gender combinations as you see fit. The basic point is that, regardless of which genders are present in which combination, the same principles discussed herein will apply. Terminology So we’re all operating from a common framework, let’s define the terms we’ll be using. Gang Bang: A gang bang is a sex session where four or more people fuck one person known as a center (or “guest of honor”). This is usually four+ males fucking a female, but it could involve any gender combination. It is also possible to have multiple guests of honor in a single gang bang event as well. Center, or “Guest of Honor”: The center in a gang bang is the person who’s being fucked by the other participants (known as bangers). Bangers: These are the people fucking the center(s). Gang Bang Coordinator, or Host: The Gang Bang Coordinator/Host is a person who sets up the bang and makes all of the logistical arrangements. S/he can be one and the same with any other positions (including the center). Generally, it’s a good idea to have someone other than the center do all of the logistical and preparatory work so she can concentrate on enjoying the experience, however. Monitor: The Monitor is a non-participant whose role is to keep an eye on the center and the participants to ensure that all of the rules and safety precautions are being followed, largely for the personal safety of the center. The Monitor can be one and the same as the Coordinator. Fluffers: People (usually women) who work to keep the participants in an aroused state when they’re not actively engaging with the center. In a GB where you have 10 men working with one center, at any given point in time at least five of those will not be engaged with the center, and will usually require/desire some assistance in maintaining an erection. Though Viagra and other performance enhancers have alleviated the need for these in some cases, they’re still nice to have. They may also be responsible for dispensing lube, condoms, and other supplies during the event itself. Is this something I want to do? The decision to participate in a gang bang should not be taken lightly; you need to make sure you’re in the right mental state to get the most out of it. Gang bangs are typically high-energy, rougher, more athletically oriented sexual events, usually much more so than the standard single-partnered or threesome sex. There are a variety of reasons why one might enjoy being in a gang bang, including: Being the center of attention. It’s an awesome feeling to be lost in a sea of other people using you for their sexual pleasure. The challenge. Some people like to challenge themselves sexually and a gang bang is the ultimate challenge most people will ever face. Exploring Your Slutty Side. Group sex is a big taboo in our society, so many people get a rush from indulging in a sex act that is seen as the ultimate in slutty acts. If you’re overly concerned that people are going to think you’re a slut (if you consider that a negative), or if you’re not 100% emotionally confident with your decision to engage in a gang bang, you should hold off until those are no longer issues. You don’t want this to be a bad experience for you or the other participants. If you’re unsure about whether or not a gang bang is something you wish to do, one option you may wish to consider is serving as a fluffer at someone else’s fuckfest. This will allow you to observe what happens through the actual bang itself and give you a feel for what it’s like. At that point you can make a decision about becoming the guest of honor in your own special event. Your Significant Other If you have a spouse, life partner, or significant other, you’re obviously going to need to take his/her feelings into consideration. This is NOT something you want to hide from a partner - the after effects and potential ramifications are far too great to do that for most people. Some partners will not care (and perhaps might even encourage participation in a bang), but others may have some issues knowing or watching a partner be used by multiple other people; that’s just human nature. You need to discuss your desires with your partner and get him/her on board from the outset. It is essential that the two of you be secure in your relationship and arrive at a mutual understanding of feelings associated with the event. In some cases, the partner may wish to participate, either as a banger or monitor. Assuming they’re comfortable with your participation in the gang bang, significant others make excellent monitors since they’re usually rather familiar with you emotionally and physically and are in a better position to notice problems in those areas. If you are the partner of a potential guest of honor, be supportive, especially from an emotional standpoint. She’s liable to be very anxious about the event and you should help alleviate some of this by letting her know that you’re behind her and will do what you can to help her through it. Informal vs. Large Scale For many, their first gang bang starts out small, with perhaps 4 or 5 men participating with the center, quite often acquaintances of the center herself. In other cases, the bang is set up for a dozen or more men. Some porn stars have taken on hundreds of men in a single session. As a general rule, if you’ve not experienced group sex before, it’s probably a good idea to start off small and see how you function in a group dynamic. If that works well for you, you can always do it again with a larger group. There’s always the chance that it may not be the experience you think it will be, and crashing with a smaller group is a lot less painful for all concerned. By starting off with a smaller group, you can avail yourself of a room in your home or a hotel room, and don’t have to worry so much about things like fluffers and buying industrial size containers of lube. Large scale gang bangs may involve many people, larger spaces, larger quantities of supplies, and therefore, potentially, higher costs. So your first decision will be how many men you wish to entertain. The specifics are likely to be determined by whether you elect to use people you know, recruit random participants, how the gang bang is constructed (as a stand alone event or part of a party or other gathering), etc. If you have a circle of friends from which you can draw a dozen participants, then you may elect to have a larger bang. One of the primary issues with a larger group of bangers is the potential for those not actively engaged in sex getting bored (and thus, the need for fluffers). Once you’ve had your first experience, you may wish to move on to larger groups, or perhaps those involving alternative power differentials, role play (the school cheerleader is taken out back and “gang raped” by the school basketball team, for example), bondage scenarios and the like. Covered vs. Uncovered/Testing You’ll need to make a decision about whether or not to require condoms for penetration. The standard line issued by safer sex advocates is to always use condoms. The reality of a gang bang, however, is such that it is often more practical to disabuse everyone of having to worry about those. There are several reasons for this. First, if the guys are rotating among orifices, you’re going to end up with condoms in your mouth. Some don’t mind that, but many people have an aversion to the taste of latex (or the materials used in non-latex condoms as well). Condoms also introduce more friction into the process and over a two-to-four hour GB, that’s going to wear out your naughty bits a bit more than bare skin, even with lube. One of the reasons some women enjoy a gang bang is being filled with and/or drenched in semen - a bukkake experience as it were. Obviously, being filled with semen isn’t possible when using condoms (condoms can be removed prior to ejaculating on the center’s face or body, of course). If you’re going to allow participants to fuck you without condoms, they will need to be tested and be prepared to provide results of those tests when they show up. You, too, will need to be tested and have your results available for inspection. I had my bangers do two sets of tests - one 30 days out and one within 7-10 of the bang itself. Keep in mind that even the best testing regimens cannot detect the presence of some diseases (for example, HPV in men), so everyone having negative tests does not preclude someone from actually having a contagious disease. Risk is inherent in all sexual activities, so you’ll need to decide if that risk is low enough for you and the participants in the gang bang. Even if you elect to dispense with the condoms, you should still allow those who wish to use them to do so for their own safety and peace of mind. Finding Bangers This will be your biggest challenge, despite the huge number of guys you see claiming they’d be right there for a gang bang. You’ll need to decide if you want to use people you know or recruit random participants. Generally, allowing random participants will increase your ability to get a sufficient number of bangers, especially if you’re looking for a larger number. There are two things to keep in mind when recruiting participants. First off, many won’t show, even if they say they will. Second, some who do show won’t be able to perform (get an erection). That’s not any fault of their own, but rather a function of anxiety from being naked and having to engage in sex in front of other people. It happens, so you need to take that into consideration. Therefore, if you want to be banged by 10 people, you should consider recruiting 15 or more to attend. If you’re having a small bang and will be using the bed and/or basic furniture that is in a hotel room or the bedroom of a house, then very little space preparation might be required. If you’re having a larger bang, though, you’ll need to ensure appropriate padding, floor coverings, furniture, and other items are in place to support the fucking of one person. In my first one, all we had was some soft padding on the floor and a chair. This meant I spent most of my time on my knees or haunches, and afterward they were bruised and sore. For my second one, we had several pieces of furniture (a bed, couch, chairs, ottoman, etc.). This allowed me to put myself in several different positions to add some variety. If you have access to sex furniture, this also makes a great addition to the event. Disposable plastic sheeting is a good idea to put down on the floor at a minimum. You can also put it under sheets on a bed to help protect mattresses from the deluge of cum. If you’re going to be allowing pee play, you should consider using a small kiddie pool to catch everything. The Monitor: Having Someone Watch for Your Safety One thing you absolutely must have is someone to monitor your safety and to ensure the rules are followed as the gang bang progresses. This is especially true if you’re requiring condoms or if there are specific orifices or activities that are expressly off limits. When you’re being fucked by three men, you won’t have any idea whether the guy in your ass has a condom on his cock or not, trust me. The Monitor also needs to ensure you’re physically doing well, and stopping the action if things appear to be getting out of hand. You should schedule a break for hydration if it’s going to be a long bang; the monitor should keep track of the time and announce breaks as appropriate. The Monitor should also keep an eye out for physical safety conditions, such as the accumulation of semen and other fluids on the floor that might lead to someone slipping and falling. Imagine how embarrassing it would be to have to go to the emergency room and explain that you’d slipped on cum during a gang bang and busted your head! The Monitor must be a non-participant, though you can elect to switch people out to act as monitors throughout the event. Just be sure you trust anyone you elect to act as a monitor. Prior to the beginning of the gang bang, talk to the monitor(s) and agree on safe words and visible signals you can use to indicate that a stop is needed. You need to have visible signals (such as a raised hand or fist) in addition to safe words since it’ll be impossible to utter a safe word when you have a cock buried in your throat (trust me on that!). Mental Preparations One assumes, if you’re organizing a gang bang, that you’re prepared for the onslaught of cock. In my opinion, you should have at least been involved in a threesome with two men prior to attempting a gang bang, just to give you some experience managing more than one cock at a time. At first blush it might not sound like that big of deal, but having multiple cocks penetrate you simultaneously is not as easy and logistically straightforward as it might sound. It’s not uncommon to have first time jitters, especially if this is the first time you’ll be engaging strangers or people you’re not already comfortable with. Once you get started sucking cock, though, things will begin to flow normally - you’ll get into automatic mode where your knowing how to fuck will take over. Some women will even go through a meditation or other ritual prior to engaging in the bang to calm their nerve. Once you get started, just focus on doing what you can do and enjoying the feeling of being used as a fuck toy. You’re going to be surprised at the new, unique sensations you encounter as all of these men penetrate you and interact with your body. You might consider being blindfolded - this allows you to enjoy the sensations of being fucked and allows the men to see you more as an object rather than a human being (if that’s a portion of what you’re aiming for). It’s important to note that, if at any time, you get cold feet and decide that you can’t go through with it or need to stop, it is perfectly acceptable to back out. Any kind of sex play should be wholly consensual and you shouldn’t feel goaded into the gang bang simply because all of these people are here. They will understand. Physical Preparations Stretch. You’ll be bent into positions you’ve likely never been in before so everyone can reach a hole. It will be an athletic performance, and just as any other athlete does prior to the game, they stretch their muscles to prevent cramps and injuries. You’ll want to avail yourself of an enema to clean out your rectum if you’re going to be allowing anal penetration (and probably even if you don’t, just because you’ll be pushing at times and may not be able to control your rectum if things get wild). This needs to be done about an hour or so before the sex will begin. (Instructions on using enemas can be found HERE ) You’ll also want to avoid any serious eating for a couple of hours before the bang as well, for two reasons. First, within a half hour or so of eating your lower digestive system will move material down into your rectum to be discharged - not good especially if you’re going to be allowing anal penetration. Second, you don’t want a full stomach if you’re going to have cocks entering your throat (even if you’re accustomed to being throat fucked), especially if you’re going to be in any position where your head is lower than your abdomen, for obvious reasons. You may eat some crackers (or other benign material) and drink water prior to the event, however, to keep your stomach stable. This is especially important if you’re going to be swallowing semen over the course of the gang bang. Swallowing a lot of semen on an empty stomach can give you nausea, possibly interrupting the proceedings. Getting Things Started After everyone is assembled in the same room and are ready to begin, it’s a good idea to quickly refamiliarize everyone with the rules safewords/signs, & the fluffers. There are any number of ways you can begin, but perhaps the most common is for the center to start by blowing and handjobbing the guys as they stand around her. The center can select a position she wants to be in and then the bangers can take up positions around her in order to begin fucking her. Each guy can fuck for 5-10 minutes, or until he cums, whichever is shorter, and then move to another hole or move out of the way to allow the next guy to step in. Over the course of the next several minutes or hours, the center can move to different furniture, move into different positions, and/or switch around as she sees fit, with the bangers following her lead. The gang bang continues until the center is ready to stop, the monitor stops the action due to concerns for the center, the time is up if a time limit was established, or the center outlasts all of the bangers. If a significant other is present and participating as a banger, s/he should be the last person to engage the center. This will help re-establish their connection at the conclusion of the bang, something that may be critical to ensuring the emotions of both are drawn back together. Aftercare Many women underestimate the impact that a gang bang will have on them, physically and emotionally. When it’s over, spend some time in the shower washing yourself and decompressing (or reveling in what you’ve just accomplished). Calm down and regain your composure before you go back out to talk to everyone or depart. You may wish to have someone drive you home. You’ll likely relive parts of the gang bang over and over again, that night and for the following few days. Hopefully, the experience will be a positive one for you - you’re likely to want to do another one, and soon. It’s not uncommon for a little bit of sexual shame to creep in afterward, either. You must come away with the understanding that there’s nothing wrong with engaging in a gang bang or any other group sex event if everyone who was there was a willing, consensual participant. If you have a significant other, be sure and reconnect with them after the event is over, either via phone if they’re not present or perhaps through a date where the two of you can be alone, followed up by sex between just the two of you. When you’re comfortable with it, discuss the event, your feelings, and any thoughts you have about what you experienced. Advice for the Bangers You’ll be standing around with several other men, naked, with their cocks out. The center is probably going to want two cocks in her mouth or perhaps even in one of her other orifices at the same time. That means your cock will be in contact with someone else’s. If you’re homophobic or have an aversion to these kinds of things, you’re likely to have some issues. If you believe this to be the case, you should probably give second thoughts to volunteering to participate in a gang bang. A gang bang is not the place for that kind of drama. Performance anxiety can be an issue for some guys as well. This is not uncommon at all, so be prepared for it. You may wish to avail yourself of Viagra or similar drugs to last a bit longer. If you need to step back and just watch for a few minutes, that’s perfectly fine. And, of course, if there are fluffers there, they can usually provide you with some assistance. You'll need to get tested. If you don't wish to have your doctor know about this, you can have tests done at local Planned Parenthood or public health facilities. Keep in mind that some test results may take several days to arrive, so get tested well in advance (or in accordance with any rules the Coordinator or Center has provided you). Show up on time, be prepared to have fun and respect the rules the center sets - that’s the most critical thing you can do. Finally, If you’re going to be unable to make the bang once you’ve indicated that you’ll be there, notify the Coordinator, though. Once the bang is over, be supportive of the center and not critical or negative. If you have a criticism about the way things were run or something that occurred during the event itself, get with the Coordinator shortly after it is over and discuss your concerns. Don't leave everyone with a big pile of negative energy! Don’t get lost in watching what’s going on, either. It’ll be quite a sight, but you need to maintain focus on her safety. Summary Being gang banged can be an intense, incredible, and empowering experience if it is conducted and carried out in a well-organized manner, and if you’re in the right place mentally to do it. One of the primary hurdles most people face in planning for one is understanding all of the logistics involved in setting one up and carrying it out. Hopefully, this guide will be of some assistance in that endeavor. The most important thing to keep in mind is that it should be fun for all concerned, and proper planning can help make that happen.
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903' The thing is, she doesn't want it to be like on the porn films where the girl is used and abused for the men's pleasure then ignored. She wants to be the center of attention and pampered gently to orgasm before turning it into a fuck fest. Our approach so far has been to select individuals from the site and discuss the idea with them in private messages. If Jennylee is keen on any, she would meet with them over coffee to see what they are like in person.We haven't had a great deal of success yet. We've made arrangements on two occasions for three men to visit us at our home but each time only one fronted (G'day Smo) with the others being no shows. Smo we've played with on a few occasions and we know he can be relied on. He was the only one from the first group to be invited to the second attempt with Jennylee going through the whole process again to find another two gents. She's making a third attempt and trying to put together another group (still including Smo).Oh well, fingers crossed... Figers crossed, would you like to have a borrow of my Batman suit, j man. It'll see you cover two, at a push and if you have had your weet bix, maybe three. Haven't got past two, haven't tried. But for the work of two, a few times. If you need to do a couple or few test runs, well I know it is good for a week and tonight again. And it certainly helps reduce the pain when you dive off the wardrobe, miss the bed and hit the floor, but the cape rustling through the air, ahhh it's like fuck yeah, you'd find it's better to move the bed and have Jennylee to lie on the floor, so she can hear the cape that bit longer, she won't know what hit her, but stars she would see, see your not the only star then. I'd suggest the first time you just lightly just fall, for the gentle part, don't just go for the full flight leap, you'll need it, once she is all warmed up, then soar like an eagle and be those two , maybe three men. you just have to focus on the style when you leap, so that you fly for a good bounce, because the bounce three times, dunno, lucky you have that extra bit for the bounce, well invested for times just like this. Little skinny fellers, lucky to even get enough for the cape to flitter, nothing from the downfall crack as it whips through the air on the way down, and the little fellers have trouble getting a single bounce, so it defeats the purpose, only lend it to heavy weight loving men these days, Got a ley in here now wearing the lighter spring summer suit, half your luck she might end you hers, Shells, she's into cuckles kink, ask her ............./\./\ Mado /``\ (black ears and matching cape) ........|...\.^./...| ......./....|.B.|....\ ...../...../......\......\.....
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madotara69
11 years ago
got a lady in here and she might lend you hers gee wizz, got here first, wasn't looking too good for me, batman suits, offering out my ley end you hers, Gang banged by the strap on girls
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gazpacho
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' I'm not sure that was your tanned torso Gaz, but I'm pretty sure I recognised the boobs on the lady on the right! haha... There are at least three other photos involving those ta-tas and no, that torso is definitely not me for once! (I'm saying no more on this subject btw xxx) HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sounds like a great idea if it's done right. There are swingers places and groups that cater. Enjoy. :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Message me and I'll guide you to a kinky gang bang in a dungeon. It's hot babe. X
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RHP User
11 years ago
Could be tricky since your profile is locked. Or did you just block me?
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RHP User
11 years ago
We are planing one next week, with a few men (5) we have previously met or been chatting with for a little while, hubby will be my watcher, it will be my first. Make sure you are comfortable and never do anything you dont want, talk to the men, i have a criteria, nothing worng with getting what you want. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have been a gang bang girl for a few years and love it. Songbird_uk is so wrong, we are not used and abused, we the woman are in charge and we go there for uncomplicated sex, I hate the small talk at swingers parties and at a gang bang thank god I don't have to put up with that. If I don't want a guy I saw no and that is respected. The one I have attended is well run and have a PBS of 24 guys, oh what a night that was, lol...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe send Andrew Johns a tweet.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I recently helped my sexy lady fulfill her fantasy of a gang bang and it was amazing , for us both. E few things we would recommend Have a minder.....either male or female whose job it is to lay out the rules that you make to those involved and make sure they are stuck too. Make your rules clear right at the start so there is no confusion ie condoms or no, anal yes or no, coming in or on the face etc etc. the minder will stay completely out of the action but can make suggestions and keep the mood light or however you choose it to be. The minders job is to make sure you are safe comfortable and call for breaks or time if they see you needing on. Most important thing....have fun !!! You will love it xxx good luck
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Gangie4U
11 years ago
Hi Lily, If you visit Perth sometime, I'm sure our very friendly group of guys would be able to provide a very erotic encounter for you. Good luck with your quest - Macca
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RHP User
11 years ago
Don't trust footballers. ? Which ones ? NRL. , Rugby Union, AFL , Soccer , ... What about cricketers, baseball , athletics, tiddlywinks , .. Generalisation ? You betcha... As a retired footballer i can tell you ' most ' and I mean most footballers or other athletes for that matter are decent guys . The few who spoil it are in the minority and attract the big headlines... Nothing wrong with fucking footballers if you play it safe..... Lily Ruth.. I agree with others that say allow at least someone you know and trust be present . There is a ratbag element out there and you never know who... That's why you need a trusted FB or friend to help you arrange what your looking for...
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Naughty_nature
11 years ago
I think would be the main issue I've never taken part but the recommendations I've been hearing all sound good find someone you trust tell them what you want and let them screen the men and organize it for you. - Posted from rhpmobile
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