M48
Curious to get some advice on my profile
January 29 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
Personally I think yr profile is well informed, except for the "personality" section. Don't wait for ppl to hit you up, take the initiative & check out some profiles, send flirts & messages. It works both ways, all the best.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Generating interest is only half the job, the most of the women here are spoilt and lazy, your going to have to put your hand in your pocket for a membership so you can contact them and sell it. You gets what you pays for, you reap what you sow.As for your profile I don't believe in profile tips it's just teaching you to bullshit. If you wrote it then it tells people exactly what they need to know, good and bad.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Smoker, balding and facial hair. That's a turn off for me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Smoker, balding and facial hair. That's a turn off for me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Missb4u
8 years ago
If you scan the forums you will see it's a hard gig for men on here. Being a guest will make it even harder for you as you cant message anyone so you'll send 100's of flirts and most female profile receive 1000's of flirts. A lot of females don't even check them. Being active on the forums is a way for people to get to know a little bit of you and Perth has a huge social aspect so you should get active in that and attend their events. I personally love your look and if you were in Brisbane and a non smoker I'd be interested. Best of luck Missb
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RHP User
8 years ago
You're a smoker so that would be a definite no from me but I am sure there are plenty of people on here who would not care. Your photos are good, they show you smiling and enjoying the outdoors and I'm partial to an adorable photo with a dog! Your profile "about me" section is brief but still good, maybe expand on that a bit more. Talk about some things that you like or what you're looking for in the people you seek. You are a guest so that may be going against you as some people don't bother reading or replying to flirts. With membership you can send messages to people who interest you. As long as those messages are respectful and show that you have read the profile, you may have some luck. No guarantees though. Lots of men on here talk of not getting responses even when doing all those things. Contributing to the forums also gives people an insight into who you are and may help. Perhaps take out a trial membership? Also not sure how long you have been on this site but it can take a while to find people you connect with. Good luck OP! x
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RHP User
8 years ago
You'd need to get in shape for me to be interested. I wouldn't have even read the about me etc. Sorry, but an honest answer is more use to you than stroking your ego. I'd say focus on fitness, your life and success meeting play partners will turn for the better, you'll never look back. Grab life by the balls if you want yours grabbed 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
Love the pics and you have written your own profile, only thing that would put me off would be the smoking but lots of people smoke, its just my personal thing. As others have said, there are a lot of women compared to men on here. At least you dont have the "NSA only" in your profile. Meeting first is a bonus. Good luck, Mr G!
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RHP User
8 years ago
I am not a lady but thought i would give you my thoughts as a bloke that has been on here for a few years now as I see these type of posts popping up regularly. For what it is worth here is my attitude to it all. Sending flirts are a waste of time for single blokes....Purchase a membership and send messages that give some insight in to you as well as showing some thought and actually show you nhave read the persons profile. Obviously you will send them to those that get your interest but ensure you are what they are looking for as well...expect to NOT get a response....when you do, sell yourself by being yourself....you can't force compatability....hopefully a bit of banter and getting to know you chats lead to a meeting....when meeting don't have any expectations beyond that. Be pleasantly surprised if you hit it off and it leads to more. As a single bloke the weight of numbers are pushing hard against you on this site as is the dubious behaviour of a few single blokes that may have gone before you so it takes time for others to get to know you. Couples and women are spoiled for choice so don't expect a timely response some times if you get one at all. Patience, patience and then have some patience.....with a dose of no expectations and you won't be disappointed. I kind of look at it like the old days of hitting the pubs and clubs and chatting to ladies...not going to hit it off with them all but when you do it is a wonderful thing. It has taken time but the people i have met have been worth the effort and have had a good time with them so i reckon the pay off is in that. Some investments takensome time to pay off.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sorry about the triple post....freaking mobile phone had a fit. 😠
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RHP User
8 years ago
... with Missb and Phoenix. I think your profile is fine, and I personally like your looks and photos. Smoking doesn't bother me either, but it's a big turn off for a lot of people. Thing is, on here you need to stand out in the crowd. I'm guessing that's easy enough for you in real life, due to your height ;) but you won't stand out on RHP if you're just relying on flirts and for women to notice you. 50z is right, we are spoilt for choice, and consequently can get lazy - I'm being totally honest here, and I'm only speaking for myself, doesn't apply to every woman on the site. You can stand out by sending quality messages (i.e. paying for membership), posting on the forums (you've taken that first step already) and also get involved in events... as Missb said, Perth RHPer's are a very social bunch. Check out the PerthSocialites profile. I can attest to some really awesome events that they've arranged :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Cheers all! I can't say I want to compete in a popularity contest type frenzy too much, and I'm pretty damn happy with how fit I am, there are better things in life than spending 100hrs a week in the gym to get a six pack! :) sounds like this ain't the site for me. All the best! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I also like your pictures and how you have written your profile. Maybe you could add what sort of things you would like to do when hanging out with potential FWB. Non sexual things that is. I also agree that smoking may be what's holding you back. Sorry to tell you that By the way, you look pretty fit to me. 🤘🏻
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RHP User
8 years ago
A man walks into a bar with no money, and he waits. No woman buys him a drink. So he waits, waits, and waits some more... Then he wonders, "Why aren't I meeting any women?" That's what you're doing on RHP with the guest membership.
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
If you were in Melbourne you would capture my interest. 😎 Good profile, nice pics, seem to be in good shape (ripped bodies are not a prerequisite here!), and most importantly you seem genuine in your intent to establish some sort of connection prior to the clothes coming off. Stick around, check put the social events in WA (Perth Socialites are great at running 'get to know you' social meets), and post in the forums so we get to know you a little more. And at the risk of sounding like a broken record (ha! Remember them!), paid membership is going to give you more options to contact people who catch your eye. Good luck, and stick around. Fun is always just around the corner in this place.
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Quoting 'giraffe7773' Cheers all! I can't say I want to compete in a popularity contest type frenzy too much, and I'm pretty damn happy with how fit I am, there are better things in life than spending 100hrs a week in the gym to get a six pack! :) sounds like this ain't the site for me. All the best! - Posted from rhpmobile Well OP.When the going gets tough, the tough get going........You've folded like a pack of cards.It's not open handed poker here. You do need to put some effort in. A membership and a few nice sincere messages could see you away
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ha! Nah not folded Anne, it's just not that important to me to fit into the mould of this site. I asked the question, got some great help and some interesting responses, and I realise it's not really for me! So, thanks to those that provided sincere responses, and all the best to the rest! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Op, This certainly isn't the site for everyone and totally your choice to stay or go. 😎 Is it the fact that you don't want to pay for a membership ? or the advice given by all so far.? There is someone out there who doesn't mind you smoking and will be attracted to your looks.. Just takes time & patience as Wunfa expressed. Alot of great people here willing to give advice and help. As a guest now, but a Premium Plus piemaker prior having a membership is really the only option as others suggested. Not impossible for a lady to message you as a guest, although you will be waiting along time zzz. It's a women's market out there and fierce competition. Go to a meet and greet down the pleasure lounge. (Perth) Or elsewhere. They usually throw in one a month for free for Newbies. Worth a look and you will get a feel (No pun intended 😂😉) if you like the scene. I'm just taking a break for a little bit, but I have met some lovley people on the pie and had to message them.. No money = No honey. Fortune favors the brave. Good luck in your choice .
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RHP User
8 years ago
...the gender minority on RHP, the women, are the social elite. But dont let that put you off OP. You dont have to message women and keep trying to catch their attention to be on here. Interact on the forums for one...and they will notice you. If you build it, they will come.. 😊
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RHP User
8 years ago
Lmao Summer very true. 😂 Definitely agree with you Koolgrey that building dialogue and friendship within the forums helps getting to know someone better.There's only so much you can read or view in there profile or pic's if they don't update it regularly. Back on topic. Op you have to make yourself more appealling to the opposite sex and if your just a guest then your word's will have to entice them. Hate to drop more phrases.lol. I can't help myself cause I'm bored shitless after surgery. Actions speak louder then word's and although thy pen is might, you'll be lucky to get any swordplay. 😉😂
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RHP User
8 years ago
A man walks into a bar with plenty of money, pretty soon the gold diggers and good time girls are as thick as flies and he can have whoever he wants ........ Settle down, it was just a witticism. 😎
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've been on this site for about 3 months now without success, reasons (probably) being: I live near Cairns;I am older than most of the unattached blokes;I have some facial hair and am missing some from up top. most of the girls look for younger guys and the couples almost all want women only. odds are that the M/F ratio on the site is 100:1 or worse so, yes, you need to be patient, polite and considerate. I respect all of my rejections (their loss, not mine) and don't bother them again. I'm confident that there are no fake profiles either. more recently, I had a possible offer to meet this lady...then she just went off the air...but she came back after a while and we may even meet yet! So after 3 months, I may score my first meet. I'm not unhappy, but a lot of the ladies have been rude and if not that, then dismissive in the few responses I have got to my (paid for) messages eg "not interested" or "don't fit my criteria" etc but that's life in the tablet world. I use a keyboard as it allows more input than a handheld. Anyway, there you are; I'm sure I'll be okay, but it may take a while...
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RHP User
8 years ago
Love that song. 😎 Confucius say 50zguy that a fool and his money are soon parted but fuck it was fun whilst it lasted. Everest2002, There is still a mountain to climb and your pathway to happiness may take many months grasshopper. You will have to battle all the cold wet lonley night's and messages.😢😔😭 But with patience, endurance, determination, a never say die attitude you will hopefully one day find happiness and be on top of the world. 🌍🌎🌏 Or go clubbing? I'm not talking about the one you keep in the man cave. 🔨🔨🔨 - Posted from rhpmobile
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