DARWIN.....the most sexually boring city in Australia where people don't reply to messages?!

I moved up here 2 years ago from a southern state and have never found it so hard to hook up with people as I have here! I'm a tall, decent and apparently attractive guy that knows how to have all types of great fun with all types of people, but when I send a message to people with somewhat the same interests, 99% of the time they don't have the common courtesy to even respond with a no thanks. We aren't all after super models to play with, just nice and clean people who want the same type of fun as ourselves and not be totally ignored after sending a pretty good message. It gets very frustrating! I've now resorted to going interstate a lot more often than I did before, purely to have almost any type of fun that I feel like as responses to messages are a lot more frequent, fast, and they don't tend to pull out at the last minute, but it seems that a lot of people here might possibly be on adult dating sites just for the thrill of someone wanting to meet them and then they go silent, I'm not real sure. Soooo, if there are any nice straight or bi women here in the NT that like to mix things up a bit, and would be open to a possible relationship if we get along well, please contact me and prove me wrong! Thanks