DATE NIGHT

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  MysteryMr

  10 years ago

  I'm also a guy in the outside world and if you met me in a bar, would probably assume I'm from the vanilla world too. How wrong you would be. Point is, they may not be vanilla. But if you mentioned you like girls and threesomes in the same sentence, make sure you do it quietly, unless you want dinner invites from every guy in the bar. You never know who you meet during a night out. MM

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  How do you know that the guy you meet in the vanilla world would not have the same tastes as you? They prob do they just haven't told anyone! Pusscat xxx

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  Hottie1

  10 years ago

  You don't know till you try. There are sexy /kinky people out there who aren't on RHP, and if and when you date someone who isn't from RHP if they don't accept who you are they definitely aren't for you. There are people on RHP who say they are open minded, like whatever you like, but in reality that is far from the truth. I say enjoy the dating and see where it leads you! Mary xx

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Mention to any vanilla guy that you like to have a 3way with another girl and his eyes will light up like a kid in a candy store.Doubt many would knock it back, whatever their age.Anal.. Well a few dont go there. But majority would.Probably not something I would bring up on my first vanilla dinner date. Well not until my 2nd drink anyway!!

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Problem is if you bring that sort of thing up too early with vanilla guys they put you in the "good to fuck" basket and they will not take you seriously as relationship material. Well, that is if you are looking for relationships. If you are just looking for fun.... Well hell yeah! Corrupting innocence is soooo much fun. Go for it.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Some will always be vanilla and others you may corrupt along the way. Then there are the ones hiding their kinks and hoping to find someone to share them with too. When you get to the know the person you will know whether to share or not.I thought my current partner was so vanilla when I met him ... but holly molly was I wrong ... PSJust because you may meet some in a vanilla place doesn't mean that is all there is to their personality. We all know people who are on vanilla dating sites and adult sites at the same time.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  you presume a lot eh?? How does one get to know another?? By talking.... How does one get to talking?? By approaching.... How does one know if it's going to work?? By being open to the possibility that it just might 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  RHP is a snapshot of the real world. Folks move in and out of here all the time. Sometimes we live in vanilla land for a break, before making our way back, and our tastes sure don't change. In addition RHP isn't the last word on sexual open-mindedness! Plenty in vanilla world are kinky little fuckers when you get inside their heads (and pants). And MM nailed it - mention of an FFM will have every guy within earshot jizzing in his pants. The only issue is how well you can read body language as you start testing the waters with info 😊

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Will have plenty of guys offering her two drinks at the meet and greet. To answer the OP, your sexual tastes would be something I'd like to find out over time not necessarily on the first date. It maybe a little overwhelming if we hadn't even kissed yet.

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  LifeUnscripted

  10 years ago

  But there is something to be said for dating within your "tribe". Finding another guy who would fantasize about all those things would be easy in the vanilla world. Finding one who is actually comfortable with it and isn't going to have a jealous breakdown the first time you try is another thing altogether. If you really want to be sure, then here is probably a good place. That said......vanilla hunting can be fun! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  The problem for the women on here genuinely interested in dating with the potential for a relationship, is they're caught in a catch 22. If they date vanilla guys, there's the awkward questions of how to broach what they're really into, and how much they've actually done. Not to mention how to explain their deviate friends, what all they do on weekends, how they came by so many toys (many of which a vanilla man won't recognise), and why a handful of guys keep making booty calls. On the flip side, men on this site generally see us as playmates at best, one night stands at worst. Rarely as relationship material. Sure they'll recognise all the toys, but many still just can't see women on here as the same (if not better) than those in the real world. Fine by me, I'm not looking for a relationship, but I've been in that situation before and I know many women who still are. And it's shit. We watch couples like you who are living the dream (and I know how close and beautiful you two are together!), and we know exactly how much the odds are stacked against us of finding that. (And again, I'm perfectly happy with my single life, but I still know my odds if that were to change). So OP's question is valid. And worth trying her luck with. It really isn't just as simple as stick to RHP 😊 Apologies for formatting too - on my phone. Bless 😜

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  LifeUnscripted

  10 years ago

  Thanks for the nice words...but also for the details. You are right, it is probably tough either way. As I said it is probably worth taking a chance, it seems to me that taking a chance is all most of us can do. That said I am sad to hear your description of the men on here and their perspective on the women on RHP. I personally don't understand that. I am of course in a great relationship now, and see no reason why that would change. But if I was in the relationship dating market, I would personally absolutely be interested in a sex positive, confident and sexually open woman like I could find here. It would be much easier than trying to find someone like that on a vanilla website. I guess it comes down to a flawed perspective...guys wanting the succubus between the sheets but the angel to take home to mum and dad. What they are forgetting though is those can both be found in the same woman if you are lucky. :)

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  I think most people on here are overtly looking for less permanent relationships (if they happen to find one then they might be open to it, but they're more open and expect that the situation wouldn't be with a view to "date, marry, settle down" ) So that is different to seeing people as only capable of being a booty call, you might well consider that they could be great for something different. But if you aren't looking for that, then you won't have that as your end goal. It also doesn't factor in that most female's descriptions also say they're looking for more casual arrangements. (It seems a little like a person proclaiming they like apples, and when someone brings them apples they wonder why they weren't brought oranges instead, and what does it mean?!)

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